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Help I Dont Want To Cheat by pelumi0: 11:41am On Dec 08, 2014
Hi nairalander,i wanna share a bit of what am going through so you can help me out....No insult pls....just want your advice
I have a girl that i love so much,and i think she love me too,we share a lot together but i get nothing from her sexually,she always say no to sex,thou i have other girls that love me and ready for me but she wont like it if i cheat on her,and i dont want to as well,how do i go about it then,i have urges and she has too,whenever am with her,she does things that turn me on,but will end up saying no,,,what can i do
Should i keep on this way with her or move on to those girls that will give me everything
Need ur advice please
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 08, 2014
Op, sex is not everything
I prefer a companion to sex...please bear with her.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Cholls(m): 11:49am On Dec 08, 2014
My brother move on.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Oluwatosean(m): 11:53am On Dec 08, 2014
Didnt u say u love ha?
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by justmag(m): 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2014
As soft as this may sound...i believe if u find a girl that u know deep inside your heart loves you and you love her back!! Hold on to her and endure with her. But if your mind is not wrapped around love but sex then break it off and go were ya mind takes you. Just remember that true love is getting extinct so i suggest u hold on to the good ones left.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by emperorchedda(m): 12:21pm On Dec 08, 2014
Bro move on. No woman will refuse to be intimate with someone she loves. Sex isn't gonna kill her after all
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by thorbar(m): 12:21pm On Dec 08, 2014
We av a lot in common bro.....ao am i gonna advice U̶̲̥̅̊ now Ooo,bro....hmmmmm.......follow ur mind jooor...but remember YOLO...make d rest of ur life d best of ur life.Av fun...
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Peace
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by eph12(m): 12:29pm On Dec 08, 2014
What if, just what if she's getting it somewhere else?
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 08, 2014
@op so the girl allows u to do everything but stops when it's time for sex abi? u r just foolishly keeping her for d next guy she will really love. ask any girl on NL. there is always a time in their lives when they decide to stop sex. of course d guy whom they r dating at that point is d one that suffers it. d next guy gets it all. b sharp...they all say it...doesn't mean they don't do it again until marriage.

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Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by dechandel(f): 1:47pm On Dec 08, 2014
Must every relationship be based on sex nowadays?


Somebody help!!! I wanna go back to the 80's angry

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Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by clevvermind(m): 1:54pm On Dec 08, 2014
maybe when u marry her, she will give u sex. wait till u marry her.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by chimerase2: 1:58pm On Dec 08, 2014
dechandel:
Must every relationship be based on sex nowadays?


Somebody help!!! I wanna go back to the 80's angry
undecided undecided
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Syfy(f): 1:59pm On Dec 08, 2014
must you have sex with her?
cant you wait until you are married?
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by chimerase2: 2:00pm On Dec 08, 2014
Op as long as she allows u to kiss and touch her
Then wat is der to advice and why should u be asking for sex from ur partner
Mumu don't u knw tips on how to kill a cat undecided
If ur gal friend allows u to kiss and touch her then boi u absolutely has no problem
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by prettyjo(f): 2:16pm On Dec 08, 2014
I hate it when guys say " I have other girls around who are ready to love me".mstchewwwww,rubbish.

I see it as pride
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by prettyjo(f): 2:19pm On Dec 08, 2014
if you don't want to cheat,let her be and go and date those other girls around.Besides,nobody forced you to date her.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by thorbar(m): 2:21pm On Dec 08, 2014
prettyjo:
I hate it when guys say " I have other girls around who are ready to love me".mstchewwwww,rubbish.

I see it as pride
pride?...i dont c dat as pride,,,sm girls find it difficult 2 hide ao dey feel,,U̶̲̥̅̊ might even be 1 of dem...so dont call it pride,,call it fact
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by marieolae(f): 2:28pm On Dec 08, 2014
this is definitely not love
Love sees beyond sexx
Sexx is not love
And if you cheat on her because of this, then you do not love her
Can't you control yourself?
Can't you sacrifice some things to save this relationship?

Well its in your hands mister smiley

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Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by harrysterol(m): 2:44pm On Dec 08, 2014
emperorchedda:
Bro move on. No woman will refuse to be intimate with someone she loves. Sex isn't gonna kill her after all
gbam
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by harrysterol(m): 2:47pm On Dec 08, 2014
dechandel:
Must every relationship be based on sex nowadays?


Somebody help!!! I wanna go back to the 80's angry
I wish u safe journey to d 80's tongue
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by harrysterol(m): 2:49pm On Dec 08, 2014
prettyjo:
I hate it when guys say " I have other girls around who are ready to love me".mstchewwwww,rubbish.

I see it as pride
nah because the r many fishes in the river so y get stock with 1 wen another is ready to b caught

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Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by harrysterol(m): 2:50pm On Dec 08, 2014
marieolae:
this is definitely not love
Love sees beyond sexx
Sexx is not love
And if you cheat on her because of this, then you do not love her
Can't you control yourself?
Can't you sacrifice some things to save this relationship?

Well its in your hands mister smiley
so if konji hold am nko undecided mke him dy d form maga
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by marieolae(f): 2:59pm On Dec 08, 2014
harrysterol:
so if konji hold am nko undecided mke him dy d form maga
so you don't know how to control konji again? ?
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by dechandel(f): 3:05pm On Dec 08, 2014
harrysterol:
I wish u safe journey to d 80's tongue


Save it. Iono need it tongue
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Thinkr(m): 3:11pm On Dec 08, 2014
OP its either you are a maga or she's getting some seks outside and keeping you as "husband material"...... How can a sane girl allow a guy kiss and romance then deny him sex That's just wicked. My advice: Cheat on her.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by harrysterol(m): 3:21pm On Dec 08, 2014
marieolae:
so you don't know how to control konji again? ?
Oya tell me grin am ready to learn embarassed
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by harrysterol(m): 3:22pm On Dec 08, 2014
dechandel:


Save it. Iono need it tongue
u must go o cheesy tongue
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by Nobody: 3:29pm On Dec 08, 2014
If she doesn't want sex, then she should give you head. angry





Just kidding grin ...If you know you love her and she does too, please don't pressure her. Watch and let things unfold. In fact, stop letting her know you want sex, if she really wants it, she would come around.. smiley
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by prettyjo(f): 3:53pm On Dec 08, 2014
thorbar:
pride?...i dont c dat as pride,,,sm girls find it difficult 2 hide ao dey feel,,U̶̲̥̅̊ might even be 1 of dem...so dont call it pride,,call it fact
lolzzzzzz.you are funny.
Re: Help I Dont Want To Cheat by thorbar(m): 4:40pm On Dec 08, 2014
prettyjo:
lolzzzzzz.you are funny.
dat shows am right...i lyk U̶̲̥̅̊,,U̶̲̥̅̊ r straightforward

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