Of what use is the idea of keeping record of what you spend on your partner?

I have a friend from Mexico.

I haven't spent a P on her before. And life goes on well

What's the biggie?
If he can spend on me and I cant do same then he's not my bf but a maga naooo...
There's love in sharing..

lilmax:
who is generalizing now?

Where did I generalize? Using 'these' doesn't tell you I categorized?

Mprex:
There is no biggie about spending on a guy. A girl will do that if she genuinely loves him.



How much i spent on him I didnt keep track of it

dats cool,hw r u doing

Had an ex once, jut mention to her ear what u need but don't ever ask her to buy it else she will never buy it. Once she realise u need it, without ur consent she will one day just call and surprisingly ask what colour or size u will like. Missed her though. That's one selfless babe I have ever meet.

Some guyz are also very very stingy to say bcs I hv a friend some yrs ago who is a medical doctor dt find it diff to buy or rada spend on a lady bt very fast to collect

FruityLass:
I do spend on guys before but not again since have been taught to be stingy.
Now bae is the one spending.

Tax collector in disguise

FruityLass:
I do spend on guys before but not again since have been taught to be stingy.
Now bae is the one spending.

who taught u to be stingyby d way u dont use negativ(s) in measuring standard(s), been stingy is geared toward vice

Its Me or Jonathan. guess who she chose.
https://www.nairaland.com/2042873/jonathan-me-buhari-guess-she#

babydelight:
Some guyz are also very very stingy to say bcs I hv a friend some yrs ago who is a medical doctor dt find it diff to buy or rada spend on a lady bt very fast to collect

Did he ever collect from you? How much did he collect?

Chilug:
Had an ex once, jut mention to her ear what u need but don't ever ask her to buy it else she will never buy it. Once she realise u need it, without ur consent she will one day just call and surprisingly ask what colour or size u will like. Missed her though. That's one selfless babe I have ever meet.

Can I confirm this your story? Please give me her contact.

Such ladies ar hard to find dis days,am tired of spendin on ladies,I need dem to spend on me now

Popemax:
Unto facebook chat....you guys just took over this topic

lolzzz, unto male-female tinz

i dnt lyk my gf spndn on me 2avoid usin it against me wen we av issues.i prefer doin d spndin

FruityLass:
I do spend on guys before but not again since have been taught to be stingy.
Now bae is the one spending.

my sister, some guys are so dump and wat shld I say .
u spend on dem, dey want to live on u.








Neva, can I spend a dime on any of dem again.

I think it's a good idea to spend on your lover. Just 50-50 is fine or better still 70% for the guy while 30% to the girl.

I have never had a gf, but the most amount of naira a girl/lady has ever spent on me was/is 3000. She's still my friend..

Yes...

Have this friend, older than i...
She's doing her best for me, talk of the gifts, cash, delicacy (I can't even quantify)...every every!
What I value most is the heart with which she gives.
I must confess, I'm yet to do half of what she has done
So proud of her!
I must surely pay her back, just a matter of time.

Yes, I agree with you!

Emperoradrian:
...bt d bottom line b say,na only older ladies fit spend moni on any guy comfortably...

AJ01:
like your type..

thanks

AfricanApple:
e no far joor
u just dey run from me abi, no worry, any how wey I fit do am, I go catch u one day

so how come I saw in mine that we went to Dubai together, holding hands, laughing and...

Methinks the dream dey complete be that.



Think am well, Yu'll understand.

Nothing

Nada

N0.00kobo

None ever offered to take me out.
None cooked for me with their money.
None ever bought me a Val's gift
None ever bought me a birthday gift...apart from the last one who gave me one silly novel and started reminding me that her birthday was d following week.

Mehnnn, I've never been blessed with a good girlfriend.

Martins301:


Its kinda hard to imagine but your kind is so rare (2face 2006)

lol. I love that song

zubby29:
dats cool,hw r u doing

i'm good. You?

Mprex:

lol. I love that song

We can both listen to it sometime if u dnt mind.

TDstarr:
men are wired to work as slaves pleasing women till they die, and women are wired to enjoy the benefits only, even when they spend, they see it as investments(women) but men spend cos they want to fufil an obligation

p.s read the manipulated man by esther

True

Martins301:


We can both listen to it sometime if u dnt mind.

that will be quite cool

Djhack1:
my gal is one in a million , not the type wt d the Nigeria gals mentality , if am not mistaken shez spend not less than 10k 4 her bobo, call her a mugu na ur cup of tea , bh we know what exist between us two...Gbam!

Bro, ur a very lucky man. Where do u ppl even meet these girls!

Mprex:

i'm good. You?

am ok hope u r enjoying your weekend

Mprex:

that will be quite cool

Its there any means for private chat on NL? Too many prying eyes

Therz no crime in a lady spending on a guy, as long as he is appreciative of her and not taking advantage of her generousity

There is no crime in a lady spending on a guy, as long as he is appreciative of her and not taking advantage of her generousity.