We were connected with this guy sometimes June ths year n we got talkin, he made me undrstnd he wnts to marry me n needs to seek my parent's permission befre we can even date, I agree snce I see d level of seriousness in him. For d frst 3-4 months thngs were goin on smoothly as in we show luv to each other snce we were in our final year in d same institution. He was born n brought up in Port-Harcourt whle me in d North, now we hve both graduated. Then, suddenly I dnt feel anythn fr him anymre, I dnt even wnt to hear him speak or do I wnt to speak wit him. The sight of him just irritates me, d prblem is he doesn't knw hw to speak, he talks carelessly without caring who gets hurt, I try to caution him to think bfre sayin anythn but he'll alwys tel me he's sorry tht thts how thy tlk in PH tht thy do nt tke challnge n aint afraid of nobdy. Phrase lyk 'I can hve fun to d fullest in d North n gve my pussy to whoever I care but after he marries me, I shldnt try tht in PH' and its not lyk m a wayward gal n he hasn't seen me wt any other guy. Smetimes he'll say 'I've nvr seen smeone lyk him IN MY LIFE so I shld b glad he wnts to marry me n al sorts. Both parents are now fully involved. Although truthfully He's such a very nyc guy, he always tel me hw much he's going to take care of me after he marry me, he's alrdy plannin to secure a gud job fr me thr in PH n whle we were in school, he gves me token n buy stuffs fr me, he calls me lyk 20times a day n keep telln hw much he luv me so so much but I dnt knw, I jst dnt feel anythn serious for him now. Pls help me out wht do I do?

You are lucky its happening now not in marriage.

Hmm strange. Its either u fell out of love with him or juju

but i must say, he has a very bad speaking pattern

EroticAngelina:
Hmm strange. Its either u fell out of love with him or juju

but i must say, he has a very bad speaking pattern

. Really he does, I dnt knw wht to do seriously

aristocrazzy:
You are lucky its happening now not in marriage.

. So pls aristo wht can I do cuz m confuse, if I remeber hw my friends use to warn me tht I shldnt let him go cuz he soo much care for me, thy thnk if there is anythn wrng wit d relatnshp, thn its my bad

Marriage is about happiness, satisfaction, joy and love...If u know your feelings towards him has diminish, kindly back out of the relationship cos getting married due to pity or thinking about wat people will say if u broke it off will only lead u to unhappiness and depression when u eventually get married to him...Seems ur bf is now becoming cocky and arrogant due to the fact he knows ur family are aware of the relationship and have accepted him...Your happiness shud be ur primary concern, if u know u don't love himn find a way to tell him..best of luck

angelsing:
Marriage is about happiness, satisfaction, joy and love...If u know your feelings towards him has diminish, kindly back out of the relationship cos getting married due to pity or thinking about wat people will say if u broke it off will only lead u to unhappiness and depression when u eventually get married to him...Seems ur bf is now becoming cocky and arrogant due to the fact he knows ur family are aware of the relationship and have accepted him...Your happiness shud be ur primary concern, if u know u don't love himn find a way to tell him..best of luck

thnks I appreciate tht

Marraige is a forever thing so its your happines dats @ stake here not your friends or families so i'll simply say follow ya heart.. Letting go is hard i know buh its better now than never

Your lucky

shaderuky:
We were connected with this guy sometimes June ths year n we got talkin, he made me undrstnd he wnts to marry me n needs to seek my parent's permission befre we can even date, I agree snce I see d level of seriousness in him. For d frst 3-4 months thngs were goin on smoothly as in we show luv to each other snce we were in our final year in d same institution. He was born n brought up in Port-Harcourt whle me in d North, now we hve both graduated. Then, suddenly I dnt feel anythn fr him anymre, I dnt even wnt to hear him speak or do I wnt to speak wit him. The sight of him just irritates me, d prblem is he doesn't knw hw to speak, he talks carelessly without caring who gets hurt, I try to caution him to think bfre sayin anythn but he'll alwys tel me he's sorry tht thts how thy tlk in PH tht thy do nt tke challnge n aint afraid of nobdy. Phrase lyk 'I can hve fun to d fullest in d North n gve my pussy to whoever I care but after he marries me, I shldnt try tht in PH' and its not lyk m a wayward gal n he hasn't seen me wt any other guy. Smetimes he'll say 'I've nvr seen smeone lyk him IN MY LIFE so I shld b glad he wnts to marry me n al sorts. Both parents are now fully involved. Although truthfully He's such a very nyc guy, he always tel me hw much he's going to take care of me after he marry me, he's alrdy plannin to secure a gud job fr me thr in PH n whle we were in school, he gves me token n buy stuffs fr me, he calls me lyk 20times a day n keep telln hw much he luv me so so much but I dnt knw, I jst dnt feel anythn serious for him now. Pls help me out wht do I do?

I find it difficult to take anybody who cannot construct a sentence serious... you lost me after a few sentences dear.

drop an 18 tones container on his head..

Talk to him about it. The mistake most ladies make is managing a relationship they're not happy in because their parents are involved. Then you see them playing wifey at occasions. The only time I can introduce a partner to my parents is when I'm sure of marriage and afterwards marriage will come shortly.

Talk to him about it. If he changes, that's fine. If he doesn't, it's not too late to get out of the relationship.

shaderuky:
. So pls aristo wht can I do cuz m confuse, if I remeber hw my friends use to warn me tht I shldnt let him go cuz he soo much care for me, thy thnk if there is anythn wrng wit d relatnshp, thn its my bad

leave.