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Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by horlahwaley(m): 3:18pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
I dont know what to do. it has never workd out with girls. every time i see a girl i like, wooed her, i always get 'no' for an answer or "i have someone am dating". i have never enjoyed being in a relationship with someone. The only one i managed to get broke my heart only a few month she accepted. i used to envy my friends who are in relationship. i have startd to think am bad looking or am not attractive. pls i need some advice. |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by phabulous88(m): 3:27pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
I'm the love doctor, welcome to my office. First things first, how old are you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by horlahwaley(m): 3:32pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
phabulous88:thank you. am 21 |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:36pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
On mobile, atm. Will get back to you. |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by LaurelP(m): 3:37pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
1. How do u look? 2. What do you tell them? |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
No. However you look or whatever you're, I believe you're good looking enough. I think the big problem is how you approach them, and how you express yourself. Look deep. 1 Like |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by horlahwaley(m): 3:44pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
LaurelP:am not sure if am bad or not. some of them. we hangd out as friends before i woo them |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Op why re you getting worked up over a lady. Ladies aren't worth the troubles, concentrate on your studies, pursue your dream. And watch ladies run after you. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by AJ01(m): 3:53pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
just tie it back... oluku 1 Like |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
alexdellafonte:You should take his advice 1 Like |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Just work hard and focus on making money,,when ladies see u r already made,the ones who are dating will break up to be with u. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by yorex2011: 3:56pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Just focus on your studies and self improvement 1 Like |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by LaurelP(m): 4:01pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
horlahwaley: Well, d problem might be dat u don't build rapport with dem. I always say it dat its not compulsory to 'woo' a girl b4 she becomes ur girl. Be friends with her first and every oda thing will come naturally without u even telling her I love u. Get close to dem, call dem often, hang out togeda and all dat. Don't forget to flirt with her to avoid landing in d friendzone. Just act like ur already her Bf and watch her become urs. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:04pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Firstly,a man is never ugly,so do away with dat thought. Then,make friends with girls,it wl build ur confidence....i hope dis helps. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:11pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
losing confidence in wooing a lady at 21? I think you are doing more harm on ur future and ur right girl, first thing first, It would have been a serious matter if you ar heading to 30years |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:14pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nice One there. U just NAILED it! they dont worth d headache bro. Focus on ur dream and vision. alexdellafonte: 1 Like |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
My broda,hypo is the best solution jare!...go and drink hypo...probably mix it with 2 Teacups full of Otapiapia..u'll see the end result within a Day!...Thank me later! |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
alexdellafonte:oh u mean gold digging ladies right? Instead of u to help him on how to get a stable relationship u are giving him temporal solutions. Be Pratical!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:27pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Unibenstudent:if he can't keep dem dey will chop and den dump his sorry ass. i think the guy is having some problems with himself and not his pocket or back account 2 Likes |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:30pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
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Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:31pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
dorlapoh20:anyway there is no man that is well to do that doesn't have sense,,because u can't make money with foolishness,in nigeria u have to be wise like Solomon to get riches,, 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:35pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
[quote author=Unibenstudent post=29249604]anyway there is no man that is well to do that doesn't have sense,,because u can't make money with foolishness,in nigeria u have to be wise like Solomon to get riches,,[/quote so after making money he will buy love right? hmmmmmmm wonder why rich pple divorce then |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:39pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
dorlapoh20:seriously won't u like a situation where u and ur kids and enjoying wealth from ur hobby,,seriously I made a thread on requirements for marraige..a guy should have @ least 1 Milla in account because nigeria is hard on its own,u can't impoverishment to ur families problems |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:46pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Unibenstudent:sure it's very nice but i won't spend a day with him if he doesn't treat me right not even if he is the richest man on earth. Only gold digger will sacrifice their happiness for money |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by phabulous88(m): 4:54pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
horlahwaley: At 21 you still got a lotta learning to do. Are you boring or do friends find you attractive and interesting? Do people wanna hang out with you? What's your dress sense? What are you good at? What do people look up to you for? What's your selling point, something you can capitalise on? Why do you need a girlfriend now? For conji reasons or..? Do you have MONEY? Can you take care of a girl, financially and otherwise? Girls love 24 hours attention, do you have that time? Won't it clash with your studies? Girlfriends come with loads and loads of drama/troubles, can you deal with them? And most importantly, If you were a girl, would you want to date a man like you? Find answers to these questions and if you're found wanting in any, work on yourself. Good thing is that you're still 21, I know guys who had their first at 24/25. Good luck! 3 Likes |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
dorlapoh20: What makes you feel most ladies are gold diggers, or are you one? And you think trying to keep a healthy relationship would give him the time to concentrate on his studies and pursue his dream? |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
dorlapoh20:so what do u mean by treat u right..u need love he sends u on trip to Dubai,u need sex ,he can deliver,u need food he employs a chef for u,,what do u mean by treat u right? |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Pdizzle(m): 4:58pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Have you heard of the book "double your dating" it works! Download it online or give your email address. |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 4:59pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Unibenstudent:what's your definition for d word 'love' |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:01pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
dorlapoh20:love is that feeling in a man that makes him want to please his mistress regardless of consequences and the urge to satisfy her within his power. |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:03pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
alexdellafonte:if he can't handle a healthy relationship he won't be worried about it.He won't complain. Moreover having a healthy relationship is not as tough as u made it sound. |
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Unibenstudent:lolzzzz ahhhhh!!!God save kristina1 well u just define lust |
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