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Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:07pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

lolzzzz ahhhhh!!!God save kristina1
well u just define lust
ahh oya u define love?
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

lolzzzz ahhhhh!!!God save kristina1
well u just define lust
Swthrt,datz d greatest definition of lust
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:15pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
ahh oya u define love?

the word mistress is used to describe a lady who is having an affair with a married man.Only a lustful man will do all u mentioned in ur definition to a mistress. that word alone changed what u defined
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:17pm On Dec 27, 2014
kristina1:

Swthrt,datz d greatest definition of lust
can u imagine? 'misstress' i will fight anyone who calls me dat grin
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:21pm On Dec 27, 2014
kristina1:

Swthrt,datz d greatest definition of lust
wow,seems u don't know lust,ok lust is the feeling a boy has that makes think of only how to get into her pants and to kiss and other salacious and ravenous thoughts,please that's not lust,
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:21pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

can u imagine? 'misstress' i will fight anyone who calls me dat grin
ok I should have written wife.it was a mistake
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:29pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
ok I should have written wife.it was a mistake
okay. but do u know if the guy can do that.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:30pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

okay. but do u know if the guy can do that.
do which?
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
do which?
show love. there must be something about him that drives ladies away from him
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

show love. there must be something about him that drives ladies away from him
maybe he normally releases gases around them.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 27, 2014
horlahwaley:
am not sure if am bad or not.


some of them. we hangd out as friends before i woo them
hahaha. .dats d mistake u ve allowed urself to be friend zoned, and dats a place of no return. .

Btw..sounds like having a gf is ur priority at d moment..u shud try review ur life, as in checks and balances and aee d outcome. Based on ur story ya either nuh using d right line, hovering around and d sort, or having a gf atm isnt just ur call..try find out which is ur problem first, only then can u find solutions..and common on be a real man thingslike
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:44pm On Dec 27, 2014
horlahwaley:
am not sure if am bad or not.


some of them. we hangd out as friends before i woo them
hahaha. .dats d mistake u ve allowed urself to be friend zoned, and dats a place of no return. .

Btw..sounds like having a gf is ur priority at d moment..u shud try review ur life, as in checks and balances and see d outcome. Based on ur story ya either nuh using d right line, hovering around and d sort, or having a gf atm isnt just ur call..try find out which is ur problem first, only then can u find solutions..and common on be a real man thingslike this shuldnt dampen u..life has enough hurdles already goodluck
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:49pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
Just work hard and focus on making money,,when ladies see u r already made,the ones who are dating will break up to be with u.
so people that doesn't have are not eligible to go after the ladies they like
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 27, 2014
Ipledge:
so people that doesn't have are not eligible to go after the ladies they like
is not only about going after a car but can u buy tha car and maintain the car?
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
maybe he normally releases gases around them.
angry
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
is not only about going after a car but can u buy tha car and maintain the car?
must you make all the money in the world before you make healthy relationship
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

angry
ok maybe he is not cute and he is not a sweet talker.
Ipledge:
must you make all the money in the world before you make healthy relationship
if u no get money,ur swagger need long or if u have brothers or friends who get swag use them in ur convos a lot.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

if he can't handle a healthy relationship he won't be worried about it.He won't complain. Moreover having a healthy relationship is not as tough as u made it sound.

Its not tough, its just a matter of sacrifices, he'll av to give up so many things jst to maintain a healthy relationship. Moreover if you go through his post, you'I'd conclude with me that he needs to work on himself, and i don't think the time is now, let him focus on his studies, working on himself would make him loose focus and you know what that means.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
ok maybe he is not cute and he is not a sweet talker.if u no get money,ur swagger need long or if u have brothers or friends who get swag use them in ur convos a lot.
he is 21,we age mate,u don't need much money to get girl around this age
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 27, 2014
Ipledge:
he is 21,we age mate,u don't need much money to get girl around this age
am 21 too and from my experience girls need guys with money or swag..
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 27, 2014
alexdellafonte:


Its not tough, its just a matter of sacrifices, he'll av to give up so many things jst to maintain a healthy relationship. Moreover if you go through his post, you'I'd conclude with me that he needs to work on himself, and i don't think the time is now, let him focus on his studies, working on himself would make him loose focus and you know what that means.
i agree with you that he needs to work on himself but he has to start now. if not now. when?
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
ok maybe he is not cute and he is not a sweet talker.if u no get money,ur swagger need long or if u have brothers or friends who get swag use them in ur convos a lot.
all that won't get a guy a responsible lady
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:14pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

i agree with you that he needs to work on himself but he has to start now. if not now. when?

Now? Re you kidding me?
Holy Krishna! He is just 21 or you wanna date him? grin grin grin grin




Jst kidding.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by BlackSEER(m): 6:17pm On Dec 27, 2014
Guys are busy hustling to make it big while this nigga is here whining about girls rejecting him.One thing am sure about you op is that you are broke guy;i don't mean to sound harsh.Chase ur dreams and watch women chase you like mad.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:22pm On Dec 27, 2014
alexdellafonte:


Now? Re you kidding me?
Holy Krishna! He is just 21 or you wanna date him? grin grin grin grin




Jst kidding.
are u jealous tongue tongue
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
am 21 too and from my experience girls need guys with money or swag..
yea i think I will gree with that
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:25pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

are u jealous tongue tongue

Lol jealous?
Hmm i'll leave that question for my opponent to answer.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:33pm On Dec 27, 2014
dorlapoh20:

all that won't get a guy a responsible lady
anyway am out with my parents @ Sheraton hotel ikeja.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:33pm On Dec 27, 2014
alexdellafonte:


Lol jealous?
Hmm i'll leave that question for my opponent to answer.
grin
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 27, 2014
Ipledge:
yea i think I will gree with that
you get luck,I for knock ur skull.
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 27, 2014
Unibenstudent:
anyway am out with my parents @ Sheraton hotel ikeja.
okay
Re: Am Loosing Confidence As A Man by idu1(m): 6:51pm On Dec 27, 2014
horlahwaley:
I dont know what to do. it has never workd out with girls. every time i see a girl i like, wooed her, i always get 'no' for an answer or "i have someone am dating". i have never enjoyed being in a relationship with someone.
The only one i managed to get broke my heart only a few month she accepted. i used to envy my friends who are in relationship. i have startd to think am bad looking or am not attractive.

pls i need some advice.
U r attractive. Trust me... Just be patient... It happened to me before... I was thinking it was spiritual and wanted to take harsh measure... Some matured guys told me to stay calm... So, I no come do to anything o... Na so them dem come dey fall for one after the other.... My bro, forget them and don't b e desperate they ll surely fall for u when the time comes.... Salam...

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