Afrok:
Sorry sir! I thought U ar schooling in Afghanistan like me .

No,Here we are not allowed to travel to Afghanistan

starlingleanets:
No,Here we are not allowed to travel to Afghanistan

Eyah! But sir how good is University of Sambisa? I heard admissions into the school is free .

Afrok:
Eyah! But sir how good is University of Sambisa? I heard admissions into the school is free .

Here where i schooled we don't have acess to such information

This one na epistle na

starlingleanets:
Here where i schooled we don't have acess to such information

thank U sir! Ur responses have been helpful, it seems I'll leave Afghanistan where I school and come to France .

Afrok:
thank U sir! Ur responses have been helpful, it seems I'll leave Afghanistan where I school and come to France .

Better.

pamijlove:
You're old enough to date. You'd like to find someone who is attractive and who shares your religious beliefs. U'll be thinking... What went wrong? Are girls looking for the best-looking guys?
WHAT TO DO FIRST.
1. Cultivate good manners: good manners show that you respect others and that you're developing a mature, christlike personality. However, good manners aren't like a suit you wear to impress others but take off when you get home. Ask yourself, 'Do I display good manners when dealing with my family members?' If not, then it will seem forced when you do so while interacting with others outside your home. Remember, to find out the type of person you really are, a disconcerning girl will look at the way you treat members of your family. (ephesians 6:1,2)
What girls say: Tina "I definitely find it attractive if a boy displays good manners both in small things, like opening the door for me, and larger things, like being kind and considerate not only to me but also to my family."
kathy "I am put off when i've just met someone but he asks questions that are too personal, such as 'Are you dating?' and 'What are your goals?' It's rude and makes me squirm".
Alexis "I find it disrespectful when boys think they can play with our emotions, as if our feelings don't matter and we are all so desperate to get married that we want them to take pity on us".
2. Maintain your personal hygiene: Good hygiene shows respect not only for others but also for yourself. (matthew 7:12) if you respect yourself, others are more likely to respect you. On the other hand, if you let your hygiene slide, you'll sabotage your efforts to impress a girl.
What girls say: kelly "One boy who was interested in me had really bad breath. I just couldn't get past that."
3. Cultivate conversation skills: The basis of a lasting relationship is good communication. You discuss not only your interests but also the interests of your friend. {philipians 2:3,4} you really listen to what she has to say and you value her opinions.
What girls say: christine "I'm impressed when a boy can converse with me naturally- when he can remember things I told him and can ask questions that keep the conversation moving."
Amy "Gifts are great. But if a boy can hold a good conversation, if he can comfort and encourage you with his words...Wow! Thats attractive."
laura "I think that boys are attracted to what they see, but girls are more attracted to what they hear."
Beth "I know one young man who is polite and never overly familiar. We can actually have meaningful conversations without his saying things like, 'You smell really good' or 'You look very cute today.' He really listens to what I say, and that would make any girl feel good."
kelly "I would definitely want to know someone better if he had a sense of humor but could also talk about more serious things without sounding fake."
4. Be responsible: girls won't be attracted to a young man who can't hold down a job because he is lazy or because he spends too much time at play. The bible says: "We each must carry our own load." (galatians 6:5)
What girls say: Carrie "I wish some boys would take on more responsibility. It's a definite turn-off when they don't. It doesn't give a good impression."
Beth "some boys don't have their goals straight. If they're interested in a girl, they find out what her goals are and they say, 'Wow, that's what I want to do!' But their present actions prove the opposite."

However, once you feel that you are ready to start a serious relationship with a particular girl, what should you do?
The next step
1. Take the initiative: if you think a friend whom you admire might make a good marriage mate, let her know you are interested in her. Be clear and forthright in declaring your feelings. Yes, it can be nerve-racking. You fear rejection. But your being willing to take the initiative is a sign that you have grown up. One caution, though: This isn't a marriage proposal. So be discerning. An overly somber or overly earnest approach may intimidate a girl rather than attract her.
What girls say: Nina "I can't read minds. So if someone wanted to get to know me better, he would have to be honest and straightforward and just tell me."
Helen "it could be an awkward transition if you've been friends for a while. But I'd respect someone if he simply said that he would like to get to know me as more than just a friend."
2. Respect the girl's decision: What if your friend says that she doesn't want a more serious relationship with you? Dignify her by believing that she knows her own heart and that her no means no. It betrays a lack of maturity if you make a pest of yourself. Really, if you ignore a girl's explicit rejection of your attention- even becoming provoked by her rebuff- are you really thinking of her interests or your own? (1 corinthians 13: 11)