I av bin in dis løngdistance (no sex)relatnshp for 7mnths now,well.I dnt really understand what's going on anymore,when we 1st started he showed me love and care,but now,he hardly cal,text msg.My relatnshp with him is going down the drain and i can feel it.I called him and told him about ìt,he said he was broke,that that was why he dìdnt call,i sent him airtym up to 5 tyms and still sent one today

MhizVee:
I av bin in dis løngdistance relatnshp for 7mnths now,well.I dnt really understand what's going on anymore,wh

What is it excatly that you don't understand?

Mutuwa:


What is it excatly that you don't understand?

he doesnt cal anymore,i dnt get it at all,

MhizVee:
I av bin in dis løngdistance relatnshp for 7mnths now,well.I dnt really understand what's going on anymore,when we 1st started he showed me love and care,but

I trst my Nigerian guys, aftr eatin d blck pot, nah to run shrprly go eat ndr punny

long distance relationship !
Do you reciprocate his visit ?

for me am an antilongdistancerelationship

MhizVee:
he doesnt cal anymore,i dnt get it at all,

Have you tried calling him or sending a texts to ascertain if he is well or not,and which was persistent and he didn't reply any or call back?

Mutuwa:


Have you tried calling him or sending a texts to ascertain if he is well or not,and which was persistent and he didn't reply any or call back?

he told me he was broke,xo i sent him airtym up to 5 tyms'still sent anoda1 today

Advertently, there's nothing wrong with long distance relationship. Infact, i practice one! And God is helping me with it. Though i must confess, its not that easy but, i discovered its worth it. @OP, ur padner not calling or texting U̶̲̥̅̊ doesn't vividly depicts he is not interested in the relatnshp...he mght be busy or hooked up wif something. You should try call him and know what he's going on with him ova der. Don't jes conclude, unless he has told U̶̲̥̅̊ categorically that he's calling it quit. Try and call him or beta still, see him and ask him wats going on. And always pray ƒσя him...

MhizVee:
he told me he was broke,xo i sent him airtym up to 5 tyms'still sent anoda1 today

*7 months relationship

*sending airtime across

* long distance relationship

Hmmmn..lady.I think you should have a rethink.To me if a call is not feasible,I will atlesast flood your inbox with sweet text messages just to break the silence and show how much I miss you.How much is a text nah! Its even free sometimes..
Well at your discretion as to what to do.

Shawl001:
Advertently, there's nothing wrong with long distance relationship. Infact, i practice one! And God is helping me with it. Though i must confess, its not that easy but, i discovered its worth it. @OP, ur padner not calling or texting U̶̲̥̅̊ doesn't vividly depicts he is not interested in the relatnshp...he mght be busy or hooked up wif something. You should try call him and know what he's going on with him ova der. Don't jes conclude, unless he has told U̶̲̥̅̊ categorically that he's calling it quit. Try and call him or beta still, see him and ask him wats going on. And always pray ƒσя him...

ok tnx

My dear, I feel your pains. I have once been a victim of long distance relationship. It's not easy. U need to get things straight with him. U guys need to talk and know what you want. When there is no intimacy or serious commitment, distance relationship will not survive. From the way he is acting obviously shows he can't cope. Be strong and move on.

Mutuwa:


*7 months relationship

*sending airtime across

* long distance relationship

Hmmmn..lady.I think you should have a rethink.To me if a call is not feasible,I will atlesast flood your inbox with sweet text messages just to break the silence and show how much I miss you.How much is a text nah! Its even free sometimes..
Well at your discretion as to what to do.

i sent him msgs o,no be önly airtym

So, lemme get this straight: YOU SENT HIM AIRTIME FIVE TIMES AND HE STILL DIDN'T CALL, and you don't understand?

*pats her on the head*
You will soon understand.

ucheeee:
My dear, I feel your pains. I have once been a victim of long distance relationship. It's not easy. U need to get things straight with him. U guys need to talk and know what you want. When there is no intimacy or serious commitment, distance relationship will not survive. From the way he is acting obviously shows he can't cope. Be strong and move on.

scratches head and eyes

Me dat would call my ex she won't ansa.. Always saying busy.... Oya you do d calling and mssging.. She won't call or mssg.. Days would go by... At the end she broke up with me....

Abeg happy new year in advance... Cheers to everyone who put in their best in their relationships... Your reward dey come

MzNelly:
So, lemme get this straight: YOU SENT HIM AIRTIME FIVE TIMES AND HE STILL DIDN'T CALL, and you don't understand?

*pats her on the head*
You will soon understand.

most tyms wen i send him cad he do cal me back o.

yorex2011:
Abeg happy new year in advance... Cheers to everyone who put in their best in their relationships... Your reward dey come

hm,na u sabi

Constant communication is a strong tool to keep relationships goin. When it's lacking, then there is no interest.

@mhizvee, he still loves u. He's doin dat becos u are nt reciprocatin. Hw long is distance btw both of you i.e where does he stay?

MhizVee:
i sent him msgs o,no be önly airtym

Its obvious he is not only broke BUT seeing someone.Liked I wrote,if at least he cannot send u text of just N5,then I cannot foresee how else he will show u some care.During my courting days I recall,I use even my friends phone to send texts to my girl.
You just don't say u care and keep mute,let him Act it.

dechandel:
The fire is off

meaning pls

worth:
@mhizvee, he still loves u. He's doin dat becos u are nt reciprocatin. Hw long is distance btw both of you i.e where does he stay?

i am nt reciprocating?How

MhizVee:
most tyms wen i send him cad he do cal me back o.

And other times when you don't send him card nko?

And even when he calls, does he reassure you that he still does love you?

Or he calls only because you sent him airtime?

Mutuwa:


Its obvious he is not only broke BUT seeing someone.Liked I wrote,if at least he cannot send u text of just N5,then I cannot foresee how else he will show u some care.During my courting days I recall,I use even my friends phone to send texts to my girl.
You just don't say u care and keep mute,let him Act it.

abi

Even the free text messages he gets from rechargin, cnt he jst send you a message Babe move on Abeg, or you will jst end up in pains. Start 2015 on a fresh note, and trust me a better man awaits you.

MzNelly:


And other times when you don't send him card nko?

And even when he calls, does he reassure you that he still does love you?

Or he calls only because you sent him airtime?

yes he do call and he always say he wl luv me till his dyìng day

MhizVee:
yes he do call and he always say he wl luv me till his dyìng day

So if he professes his love and the only problem is that he's broke, what don't you understand?

Give em PUNANY

FLAWLES:
Give em PUNANY

Is that how u keep ur man For how long na

MzNelly:


So if he professes his love and the only problem is that he's broke, what don't you understand?

hm,not all d time'twas only when isent him an sms saying that i was doubtn if he stl lovd me lyk b4 dat was wen he sent back anoda sms sayn even aftèrlife he wl always love me