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How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sneak3(m): 3:24pm On Jan 04, 2015
I dated her friend before now but nothing serious happened btw us while the relationship lasted . Mayb I need to mentioned the fact that I never knew they were friends until I started asking my present girl out , on one of my attempt to woo her, she popped d question that was a surprise to me when she asked me if I Wasn't going out with her friend again?.
I was like your friend? Who's ur friend? Then she mentioned my Ex's name.
Initially she Wasn't forthcoming on the
groung that I dated her friend b4 but over time she began to soften her stands and now we are dating.

I work in one of the northern states with relatively cool salary (all thanks to God) while she school in the west though our respective parents lives in the same city so we do see occasionally when she is on break and I have a small holiday as well. The challenge is I relatively have options available to me in the town whr I work but I love my girl dearly and I will love to marry her all things being equal.

The problem now is that I do most of the calling though I understand d fact that she's a student so I don't expect her to call as much as I do. But she seems cold abt d relationship although on several occasions she has confessed to like me a lot and will be glad if we end up together as couples. I still keep wondering why she hardly call or text.

Pls peeps what cld be d problem ? Before ur comments I must mention that she is an introvert..

I will appreciate mature comments/opinions/suggestions! Cheers
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by kilokeys(m): 3:28pm On Jan 04, 2015
how many times do u meet ur boss to request for ur salary?

so.. u r the boss.. and u dey pay wella..
so there is no need for her to call as long as u pay on time

keep paying u hear..

afterall u broke the code

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by vizkiz: 3:30pm On Jan 04, 2015
Bro, do you wanna read the truth?
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Olukokosir(m): 3:30pm On Jan 04, 2015
... anoda device to bleep
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by kilokeys(m): 3:32pm On Jan 04, 2015
dechandel i see u.. cheesy

no chocolates here.. no sweethearts..

btw.. what do u think of the op?
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by dechandel(f): 3:32pm On Jan 04, 2015
Recharge her phone weekly grin
Come back n share the testimony grin
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by dechandel(f): 3:35pm On Jan 04, 2015
kilokeys:
dechandel i see u.. cheesy

no chocolates here.. no sweethearts..

btw.. what do u think of the op?
Smh for you grin
I have some toblerone now.. You want some?
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by kilokeys(m): 3:37pm On Jan 04, 2015
dechandel:
Smh for you grin
I have some toblerone now.. You want some?
argghh.. yeah.. just places the pieces all over ur body.. ill find them with my tongue blindfolded kiss
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by dechandel(f): 3:40pm On Jan 04, 2015
kilokeys:
argghh.. yeah.. just places the pieces all over ur body.. ill find them with my tongue blindfolded kiss
Tah tongue
Aint playing any hide n seek game with you undecided tongue
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Chizzy20(f): 3:41pm On Jan 04, 2015
As u said she is a student, open up nd ask her wats her reason for nt calling.
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by kilokeys(m): 3:44pm On Jan 04, 2015
dechandel:
Tah tongue
Aint playing any hide n seek game with you undecided tongue
okay.. lets play three mice or doctor?
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by ronald4lif(m): 3:52pm On Jan 04, 2015
I find it hard to believe a girl that's into someone will not send as many text messages and also call the person daily, likewise the guys. Being an introvert has nothing to do with one making use of their phones. Text messages worth nothing and even if they are there are whatsapp, bbm, Skype etc which are free.

Could it be that she's seeing someone in her school? You have to try finding out if she's cheating to avoid stories that touch

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by dechandel(f): 3:54pm On Jan 04, 2015
kilokeys:

okay.. lets play three mice or doctor?
I will play with you when i come back. tongue
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sugarsoul(m): 4:00pm On Jan 04, 2015
ronald4lif:
I find it hard to believe a girl that's into someone will not send as many text messages and also call the person daily, likewise the guys. Being an introvert has nothing to do with one making use of their phones. Text messages worth nothing and even if they are there are whatsapp, bbm, Skype etc which are free.

Could it be that she's seeing someone in her school? You have to try finding out if she's cheating to avoid a sudden heartbreak
Bro, you have spoken my mind. @O.p, you two should have a heart-to-heart talk so you know where she stands. Being an introvert may contribute but introvert sef dey call or flash sef. Make una talk face to face, not over the phone o cos she might conceal her feelings.
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by kilokeys(m): 4:13pm On Jan 04, 2015
dechandel:
I will play with you when i come back. tongue

u go play come abj?

see ur cute lying mouth

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by dechandel(f): 4:26pm On Jan 04, 2015
kilokeys:


u go play come abj?

see ur cute lying mouth
Na Abj go be my first port of call sef
The Shagari's villa grin
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Ploy(m): 4:34pm On Jan 04, 2015
You did it to her friend, you can do it to her.

I would be cold, in fact, frozen if I'm the lady.



Guy, leave her alone and make do with your options.
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sneak3(m): 4:55pm On Jan 04, 2015
ronald4lif:
I find it hard to believe a girl that's into someone will not send as many text messages and also call the person daily, likewise the guys. Being an introvert has nothing to do with one making use of their phones. Text messages worth nothing and even if they are there are whatsapp, bbm, Skype etc which are free.

Could it be that she's seeing someone in her school? You have to try finding out if she's cheating to avoid stories that touch

Nice 1

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sneak3(m): 4:58pm On Jan 04, 2015
Ploy:
You did it to her friend, you can do it to her.

I would be cold, in fact, frozen if I'm the lady.



Guy, leave her alone and make do with your options.

Lol funny dude! On a serious not, I really do like her for real. Among all the options she is d most preferred
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Ploy(m): 5:05pm On Jan 04, 2015
sneak3:


Lol funny dude! On a serious not, I really do like her for real. Among all the options she is d most preferred

Ask her why she isn't calling. She may change.
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by kilokeys(m): 5:09pm On Jan 04, 2015
dechandel:
Na Abj go be my first port of call sef
The Shagari's villa grin

no o.. na buhari town i want
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Tymax(m): 5:21pm On Jan 04, 2015
This why a working dude should not date a student. You will be her insurance policy while she has other options to enjoy in school.

Bro, in summary, you are not the centre of her world. She can do without you. She is not afraid to lose you.

You have two options: woo her again or cancel the contract.

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jan 04, 2015
one of the disadvantages of distant relationship. @op i would have asked you to give her a surprise visit but that might actually make the case get worst.
my advice is call her and sort things out
she could be going through some difficulties. Who knows if her friend is giving her problems.
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 04, 2015
@Op,she has you as her Plan B..
Are you a member of the plantation boiz??lolxxx..

On a serious note,she is seeing someone else..
Try n call her for 3wks non-stop then withdraw the attention..if she re-acts,re consider her..if she don't,forget her and go for the next available option..
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sneak3(m): 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2015
dorlapoh20:
one of the disadvantages of distant relationship. @op i would have asked you to give her a surprise visit but that might actually make the case get worst.
my advice is call her and sort things out
she could be going through some difficulties. Who knows if her friend is giving her problems.

Thanks! She's been inviting to come see her in school just that I have tight work settings but I hope to pay her a surprise vist next month

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sneak3(m): 9:23pm On Jan 04, 2015
Daninya11:
@Op,she has you as her Plan B..
Are you a member of the plantation boiz??lolxxx..

On a serious note,she is seeing someone else..
Try n call her for 3wks non-stop then withdraw the attention..if she re-acts,re consider her..if she don't,forget her and go for the next available option..

I don't think so because she usually let me in on guys that tries to toast her.. We speakon daily basis but I usually initiate d calls and if I don't she gets angry and complain my challenge is why nust I be d one always initiating calls? I must confess she does call once in a while just that I just felt am not getting d desired attention

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jan 04, 2015
sneak3:


I don't think so because she usually let me in on guys that tries to toast her.. We speakon daily basis but I usually initiate d calls and if I don't she gets angry and complain my challenge is why nust I be d one always initiating calls? I must confess she does call once in a while just that I just felt am not getting d desired attention
To be honest with you, I am having same challenge in my relationship of 6 months. I know she loves me but can't fathom why she find it difficult to call...
I don't also get it... Lolxxx

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Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Sunkyphil(m): 9:41pm On Jan 04, 2015
np mattter ao broke a lady is she wud still find a means to call u if she is into u
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jan 05, 2015
sneak3:


Thanks! She's been inviting to come see her in school just that I have tight work settings but I hope to pay her a surprise vist next month
oh!! that's great. wish u luck
Re: How Do I Make Her Come Out Of Her Shield by sneak3(m): 7:49pm On Jan 05, 2015
dechandel:
Recharge her phone weekly grin
Come back n share the testimony grin

---and that's a very daft one! You mustn't comment

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