We guys have been made to think that we
must always
do anything possible to impress the
female folk. I’m
not against a guy loving her babe, I’m
against a guy
doing silly things in order to impress a
lady.
The truth is that most times, these actions
come
back to haunt us while, we get to regret at
the end.
1. Consuming too much alcohol: most
guys are
guilty of this especially when trying to woo
a lady or
when taking her to bed. This is wrong in so
many ways:
it will damage your health, its a temporary
measure,
you most times end up misbehaving and
its not a
guarantee that you’ll succeed in wooing or
performing well in bed. Besides, the lady
will know
that you took something and that you
lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself.
2. Spending above your means: whether
its buying
things you don’t really need in
order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the
lady with
things you normally should
not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of
guys do this
and I keep wondering to
what purpose? The worst is many of them
come back
to their senses when its already too late!
3. Lying: I’m not talking about the small
lies guys
normally tell, I’m talking about bragging to
a lady
about what you’re not. Why tell a lady
your father is
Dangote’s
brother, or you’re a Chelsea player, or you
work in
Shell. This will make her have high
expectation from
you which you would be trying to live up
to.
4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a
guy that
is also coming after her. Its wrong for a
guy to
maltreat his fellow in any way because of
a lady.
Whether its badmouthing, fighting or
quarelling with
him, its not worth it.
5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe
you’re a
committed Christian or Muslim, you start
backsliding
or become uncommitted because she told
you to.
You start to abandon your loved ones and
family,
your studies begin to nosedive and even
your job sef, you become unserious. Its a
very silly
thing to do because when the chips are
down, those
are the only things that will get you going-
God,
your family and loved ones and your job
which will
put food on your table.
6. Pretending to be who you’re not:
there’s no need
to pretend to be a bad guy if you’re not.
There are
still ladies who values good guys.You don’t
need to
force yourself to seem confident if you’re
a shy guy.
People will know you’re just acting it up.

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Op, the kind blessing were go pour on your head this morning will have no measure. If only the will see this and read! Though am guilty of one but i will make a change

Especially the last point.

Forming "badoo" is a turn off!

God bless this OP

Most guys don't bad mouth other guys. They are more loyal than the girls. Good write up sha

op for your mind.

No 4 is a big turn off.

I know a guy who indulge in such.

MzNelly:
Especially the last point.

Forming "badoo" is a turn off!

And being badoo is...?

Richiy:
Most guys don't bad mouth other guys. They are more loyal than the girls.

That's right

Tymax:

That's right

No let your head blow up o

Richiy:


No let your head blow up o

Lol. When I saw that wonderful comment of yours, I considered giving you a blank cheque (to show my appreciation) but I remembered my account balance plus, christmas don pass.

Tymax:

And being badoo is...?

Straight your face.

Wrinkles is real.

Yup!!! And they do all this for some basic *****

MzNelly:


Straight your face.

Wrinkles is real.

Lol. [Wears sunglasses like a don] Well, I can never do any of the above to please a woman. It's not my syle.

Tymax:
Lol. [Wears sunglasses like a don] Well, I can never do any of the above to please a woman. It's not my syle.

Sunglasses inside your house?

You can't do any of the above? Mean say you haven't found the "presser" of your "mumu button."

MzNelly:


Sunglasses inside your house?

You can't do any of the above? Mean say you haven't found the "presser" of your "mumu button."

Lol. Somebody don spoil my mumu button. Thankfully, it's not working anymore.

Tymax:

Lol. Somebody don spoil my mumu button. Thankfully, it's not working anymore.

Too bad.

kristina1:
No 4 is a big turn off.

I know a guy who indulge in such.

i know of one too

kristina1:
No 4 is a big turn off.

I know a guy who indulge in such.

i know of one too

Nice One OP.. Awaiting Counter Thread

dorlapoh20:

i know of one too

You can say dat again,and he know himself

kristina1:


You can say dat again,and he know himself

btw how u doing this morning?

MzNelly:


Too bad.

Lol.

Tymax:

Lol. When I saw that wonderful comment of yours, I considered giving you a blank cheque (to show my appreciation) but I remembered my account balance plus, christmas don pass.

Nna! You almost broke rule number 2.

youngsahito:
2. Spending above your means: whether
its buying
things you don’t really need in
order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the
lady with
things you normally should
not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of
guys do this
and I keep wondering to
what purpose? The worst is many of them
come back
to their senses when its already too late!

UchihaMadara:


Nna! You almost broke rule number 2.

Hehehe my brother you are right.

Tymax:

Hehehe my brother you are right.

Lol, I got ur back bro

I have an issue wif u saying a shy guy should stop acting confident cos dat is who he is.dats nt right,a shy guy shld evolve into a confident person!

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Tymax:

Lol. When I saw that wonderful comment of yours, I considered giving you a blank cheque (to show my appreciation) but I remembered my account balance plus, christmas don pass.

The cheque must not be blank ooo.. Nothing is too small o