Ladies fail to absorb any excuse why a tall, rich and handsome guy is still single.
In some cases, he is not too tall, but responsible and hardworking.

Ladies, there are many guys out there looking for a WIFE! Even here on NL, they are many. I know their monikers as I'm typing ... I need permission to do that.
They quote you nicely and you think they're just without a plan... iffa hear!


Seriously, guys wants to settle down but there are about SEVEN FACTORS affecting the reason why most guys are still single.



1. Fear of Marriage

Fear is a bad guy! The guy is close to 30, his testosterone isn't happy. He wants to settle down but FEAR that; he will make a mistake, his wife will be stubborn, he will be like his "beating" dad, he won't be able to impregnate his wife, he will still be keeping a Side Chick etc. Don't be surprised! People nurse such fears!
He is so scared! To get married, we have to just trust in our decisions for once (after praying) and take that bold step! We'll cross over Very Well.


2. Joy of Freedom

As a bachelor, the freedom is limitless and "delicious", ranging from cooking and eating from the pot to walking naked in your house. She may come now and not like it. Some guys, their freedom is flirting, others staying out late with friends. They are scared to lose such freedom.
But, if you're really really tired, you have to pay the price o.



3. Unreadiness To Share

Unreadiness to share their Time, Money and Space.
Some men are pure introvert as such possess huge likelihood to be Selfish.
"I'm busy" is the word they tell their wives. Wife telling a dry joke and you laugh is a sign that you're not selfish. This is one major germ we have wipe out of our person to make ourselves fully ready.


4. Financial Incompetence

Imagine a guy earning #20,000 a month and he is the eldest child in his family and he is talking of marriage!
I'm not saying it's not possible but it's not reasonable. At least, there should be other streams of income even as no lady wants to sign up Suffering! If you were a father, will you give your daughter to just any man? Think about it!


5. Arrows From Father's house

This cannot be overlooked even as we're in Africa. So many enemies here and there... Witches and Wizards following guys from village to city. He proposes to a girl January, plans wedding June, He dies May. "Wuuucked" people! As I always say, we are exempted!


6. Perfectionism

Perfectionist is most common with melancholics. They are reserved and that helps them to be Natural Readers and Good Spellers.
They love a Perfect Woman who doesn't exist except in movies!

( I USED to be guilty of this )

These set of young men easily find fault with very little things in a Lady. They are the CEOs of DOs and DONTSs Establishment! They're difficult to live with wallahi, unless they start changing from inside out NOW...


7. Lack of Boldness

These ones are rare but the few of them left find it very difficult to approach a lady. They're Hyper-Shy. They are well- to-do but scared-to-death at the sight of ladies heading their direction.
The reason they're still single is just Lack of Boldness, NOT Satan! They have to learn how to flirt- not in the bad way, but play with words with a lady- watch her reactions and strike again.


I believe strongly there are guys over 30 years reading this right now and are stalk in one of these valleys.

I must tell you that marriage is Sweet even if I'm not married yet . You have to wipe out Indecision and write out what values you truly desire in your wife to be and start expecting her even if your pocket ain't large yet!

Prepare first...

TRUE
nice write up op.

Fear falling into wrong hands
bible says no going back!

Marriage ke wen nigg as still chasing money
Team financially physically spiritually and mentally OK b4 marriage.
(At op good write up)

£Moneyteam$

OP nice write up, but having a good job ought to be the priority 1st of any young man b4 seeking a relationship.

herald9:
As a young,rich and handsome guy,if he's still single...that means he still wants to explore life to it's fullest...

He doesn't need that sense of responsibility which comes with marriage when they're many things to catch out there...

He might not really be shy cause I can't see why a rich guy should be shy...In fact give a shy dude some good money and he'll toast for Africa.

Another factor is brokeness.... shea you know

I know na

Op edit your heading.

Arrows from father's house hahaha

My reasons are 1: Shy 2: Short 3: Damn Ugly 4: Broke 5: Nearly Albino... I'm learning to live as I am

Missmossy:
Arrows from father's house hahaha

That point got me laughing too

remsonik:
Op edit your heading.

To?

Missmossy:
Arrows from father's house hahaha

lol...Abi na

emusmith:


lol...Abi na

Do you attend mfm?

Fabdedon:
Fear falling into wrong hands
bible says no going back!

Where is it written in the Bible?

herald9:
As a young,rich and handsome guy,if he's still single...that means he still wants to explore life to it's fullest...

He doesn't need that sense of responsibility which comes with marriage when they're many things to catch out there...

He might not really be shy cause I can't see why a rich guy should be shy... In fact give a shy dude some good money and he'll toast for Africa.

Another factor is brokeness.... shea you know

@bolded, there are... They can interact with ladies/females but when it comes to talking/toasting a lady, that's where the problem is... Where do they start from?

Missmossy:

Do you attend mfm?

My Sister and her husband do.... I don't.

alberto2k:


That point got me laughing too

Lol ..
that one dey na?

henryblaze25:
OP nice write up, but having a good job ought to be the priority 1st of any young man b4 seeking a relationship.

True word!

KiidaACE:
TRUE
nice write up op.

Thanks bro!

emusmith:


My Sister and her husband do.... I don't.

Hehehe

No wonder!

Missmossy:

Hehehe

No wonder!

Lmao! their prayers are very direct, spick and span and sharp!

emusmith:


Lmao! their prayers are very direct, spick and span and sharp!

Certainly Dr D.k is indeed a true man of God

passionate88:
@bolded, there are... They can interact with ladies/females but when it comes to talking/toasting a lady, that's where the problem is... Where do they start from?

Lolz...If they could interact then toasting is not a prob then, cause he might not even be the one doing the toasting....

smith, why u dey expose your guys na, e no good o.

iyisco2001:
smith, why u dey expose your guys na, e no good o.

My buroda ... wounds needs to be exposed first before healing can take place na...

Kachisbarbie:
Our Male relationship doctor is here again.
Nice one

Now, lemme analyse...just a minute ....okay, nothing to analyse. #perfect

@Remsonik; The title do you one how ba?
@emusmith, edit it biko.
Factors and reasons ain't they kinda synonymous?

Oh..I see the grammatical error...thanks, Catchy!

emusmith:


My buroda ... wounds needs to be exposed first before healing can take place na...

Guy, my own na 1,2,4&6.
No be small thing. Make God help us. . 21 days fasting and prayer on point.

Lol witches from his village

Missmossy:

Certainly Dr D.k is indeed a true man of God

Indeed he is.