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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by ggrin(f): 6:15pm On Jan 22, 2015
xynerise:

Same here
liarundecided
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by xynerise: 6:16pm On Jan 22, 2015
ggrin:
liarundecided
And you are what, a truer? undecided

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Fabdedon(m): 6:32pm On Jan 22, 2015
Tosin you and pants use another word nah smiley
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 6:44pm On Jan 22, 2015
Fabdedon:
Tosin you and pants use another word nah smiley
The topic must be catchy you know ? wink

Na the heading newspapers dey use sell market
grin

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by cutieberie1(f): 6:47pm On Jan 22, 2015
it's not adviseable for ladies.....everyone sud wait until they are married

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Fabdedon(m): 6:53pm On Jan 22, 2015
tosyne2much:
The topic must be catchy you know ? wink

Na the heading newspapers dey use sell market
grin
hehehehe so what are you trying to say.. nairalanders no de use eye see where de type pant? smiley sha its true grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by 4stylz: 7:04pm On Jan 22, 2015
EroticAngelina:
nawa o! undecided
same way its sometimes hard to get money 4rm d guys.
d only thing is dat it took guys a lnger time to wisen up undecided

dnt even think of quoting me typing shiii coz im ready angry

Hiss* who said a woman can't make her money! Only lazy ones will be looking for money they didn't keep..


and why does it has to be the girl claiming a guy took advantage of her..nor be there two do am.. Guys can also start telling girls the same thing.

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by 1STIDIOT: 7:22pm On Jan 22, 2015
Owh really? Do guys still keep relationships sha. What am seeing these days is much of only one serious Gf and a lot of side chick on first invite banging..
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Dahjhi: 7:23pm On Jan 22, 2015
Dayjhi was here
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jan 22, 2015
Relax here reading! Thank to you guys not making all my days boring
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Equado(m): 7:58pm On Jan 22, 2015
MrDojo:
Nice post......bro
Bt anoda reason is d@ some babes r jst d@ wicked d@ if u like bring heaven on earth...notin will appen
ever heard of the drug temptation?
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by NickiRoman: 8:17pm On Jan 22, 2015
Why are people so obsessed with sex undecided
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by emperorchedda(m): 10:33pm On Jan 22, 2015
NickiRoman:
Why are people so obsessed with sex undecided
because sex is worth obsessing over!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Babygal4eva(f): 10:42pm On Jan 22, 2015
NickiRoman:
Why are people so obsessed with sex undecided

My sister I tire o, dunno why guys treat it like its a do or die affair.

Maybe if you guys stop begging for it so dammn much you will receive it on a regular basis, contrary to popular opinion ladies like sex too but it's not all thats in our heads like with guys geez its just how many mins of pleasure get over it already.

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 12:11am On Jan 23, 2015
Babygal4eva:


My sister I tire o, dunno why guys treat it like its a do or die affair.

Maybe if you guys stop begging for it so dammn much you will receive it on a regular basis, contrary to popular opinion ladies like sex too but it's not all thats in our heads like with guys geez its just how many mins of pleasure get over it already.
I'm glad I don't beg for sex because sex is what I hate most on earth wink
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by naijaboiy: 12:58am On Jan 23, 2015
tosyne2much:
Naijaboiy how far ?
Oga mi I just come online o...

Hwfar?!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by cherryice(f): 1:08am On Jan 23, 2015
Niwdog:
So true! Nothing pain me pass that their language
Guy:baby please naw
Lady:i say noh
Guy:but why na? U know i love u
Lady:yea i kw. Pleeeaase i want to go(full stop)
Beg frm now til tomorrow you are on your own

and how do you beg for sex from your partner
shitty people with shitty reasoning.
Having sex ought to be a mutual thing else, you both are just deceiving yourselves
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by cherryice(f): 1:09am On Jan 23, 2015
and why is sex this overrated in Africa
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by constance500: 4:00am On Jan 23, 2015
EroticAngelina:
nawa o! undecided
same way its sometimes hard to get money 4rm d guys.
d only thing is dat it took guys a lnger time to wisen up undecided

dnt even think of quoting me typing shiii coz im ready angry

When will you have sense?
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by passionate88: 7:09am On Jan 23, 2015
Most girls now go dey shout "I rep No. 10"
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Tosbi(m): 7:46am On Jan 23, 2015
Dotwillis1:
- when a lady's 1st sex experience is 'forced sex' ..or bn raped, then it wil be difficult to get under ha pant in a relationshp

Being a victim of dis wit my 2 exs.... Can be so annoying I swear (tho dey were teenagers in their 18, 20). Hence my decision to say no to younger girls again
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by joseph1832(m): 8:39am On Jan 23, 2015
Na wa oh! Na person wey never even make attempt to even lash babe nahim come dey talk about why girls dey make am hard for guys to lash them undecided

Un top that e dey even talk say e conduct research, LOL!.

*Singing's Fela Kuti's confusion break bone oh, ye pa!!!.*
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 23, 2015
That was then. For some of us, babes are the ones, openly or subtly, begging us to shag them. When i was jobless and poor baes always played hard to get but now i am the one playing hard to get.

@OP, the solution is a nice job or business, cool ride and a comfy accommodation. And if you are good looking and tall... hehehehe, you will not only get into their pants, they will give you their pants.

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Truckpusher(m): 9:37am On Jan 23, 2015
Some of them are just naturally stingy always, wanting you to commit yourself over one puccy for life tongue




Stingy girls...... grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by hotgunz(m): 9:42am On Jan 23, 2015
tosyne2much:
My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it cool

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post wink

Let's get to business grin

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships

1. To Earn Respect
Some ladies will almost make you lie on the floor prostrating to them before they finally give in even when it's printed over their faces that they really want it. They mostly do this because they don't want to be seen cheap by their newly found boyfriends

2. The Fear Of Being Dumped Afterwards
Another reason why ladies withhold sex in relationships is the fear of being dumped. We are now in an era where it's terribly difficult for a lady to know the intentions of her male suitor(s). However, guys of this generation are desperate to get under the pant of a lady. Some can even jeopardise their lives at the expense of getting into a lady's pant. Many guys would pretend & resort to take them for granted after the deed has been done

3. For Personal/Unknown Reasons
It is precisely when you start to expect sex from your girlfriend that she starts using that presumption against you. Some ladies make a habit of withholding sex in their relationships, while some only do it under very specific circumstances to the extent that they purposefully withhold it woman making it hard like OAU Post UME Exam grin

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending GEJ back to Otu Oke so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

5. She’s Manipulating You
Another reason ladies withhold sex is to get
something out of you. When no other methods of getting what she wants are working, she might resort to revoking sex privileges until you agree to what she’s after. The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants & if that doesn't work, you might have to wait it out until she comes to her senses. wink

6. Religious Reasons
YES !! Most religions are female-dominated and sex is considered dirty and filthy; an earthly pleasure which is sinful. Many ladies who turn towards religion or spirituality would feel like avoiding sex in a bid to stay pure and evolve spiritually on the path to ascension

7. She's Not Emotionally Attached To You
YES An average naijaboiy wants to get into the pant of her girlfriend even when the emotions are not there. It is that frustrating ?. She could be avoiding sex or making it difficult and get embarrassed by the idea of talking about sex, especially when you are just few weeks into the relationship

8. She’s Cheating
It is a possibility that she's cheating because she’s more interested in having sex with
some other man. If this is the case you have bigger problems than lack of sex in your relationship. If you suspect that she is cheating on you (and you should have more reasons than just a decline in your sex routine), confront her with your suspicions calmly and listen to her explanation. If
you find out she is cheating, you’ll have to decide if you want to work on things or move on playing games

9. You don't treat Her The Way She Ought To Be Treated
If a lady loves you and you treat her the way a good lady deserves to be treated (and she shows the same back to you) sex will never die down. For a lady to allow you get under her pants, she needs to feel that strong emotional bond but when you don't give her the impression that she's a QUEEN, her interest in opening her legs disappear.

10. Abstinence
She might have promised to remain pure for her future husband. Therefore, any opening her legs for you will be the most difficult thing

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Written By : Tosyne2much
@Tosyne do u masturbate? If u do good for u stop ds ur Vaseline tinz it suck and doesn't freak me to read ur post... VASELINE KO ABOKINA BALM NI.

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Loyalblak007(f): 9:42am On Jan 23, 2015
Who cares... undecided

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by 9iceboi(m): 9:43am On Jan 23, 2015
In pete edochies voice '' my son make money nd none of this reasons will come up"
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 23, 2015
tosyne2much:
[i] My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it cool

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post wink

Let's get to business grin

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending [size=24pt]GEJ back to Otu Oke [/size]so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Lovexme(m): 9:43am On Jan 23, 2015
Here we go again..
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by nopecin(m): 9:44am On Jan 23, 2015
U don't talk finish, u say for 9ja no b d end where I dey nah sex b4 relationship, if the girl no confirm say u fit screw her from morning till night den am sorry no relationship for u.....#Gbam
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by saintTim(m): 9:45am On Jan 23, 2015
Niwdog:
So true! Nothing pain me pass that their language
Guy:baby please naw
Lady:i say noh
Guy:but why na? U know i love u
Lady:yea i kw. Pleeeaase i want to go(full stop)
Beg frm now til tomorrow you are on your own


Taa lie mohamed, it is easy joor else the guy don't listen to blues.



Just give her lines from john legend songs, she go just open like bore hole gringrin grin

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