I don't plan on hiding my feeling any longer oo.I just haven't see him. But we hide it because if we open up,the guy might not feel the same way,or when the love fever is over he carries her name everywhere,or the guy will be instantly turned off by her boldness. You see.

lilmax:
and after all the forming they have sex with guy.....so whats the point of forming when in a month they become cheap?

Now thats one of the real reasons why girls hide their feelings.If they open up and spread for u guys,they become cheap right?

Hmmm dont no wats wrong wit dis gals of nowadays dey can form hennn u see sum like after avin a cruch on a guy dem go still dey yarb am 4 back or gossip abt am 4 dier fwends nd later dey expect d'guy to show intrest in u hmmmm infact d'courage go lost nd when u see im with anoder gal una go dey vex y yyyyy u gals shld change infact na 1ns i dey toast ooo no tym 4 4ormin 4 me

soldierdollar:
I went to a cyber cafe ... Mehn ! ... See this chic de look me without batting an eye lid . That 5 second stare seemed to be the longest moment in my life . At last she beat me to d contest as I became shy and moved my eyes to an invisible object behind her. She seemed to notice my shyness as she took advantage of it ... Looking me directly in the eye and as she expected , I shifted my eyed automatically ... I became uncomfortable .. I wanted the ground to sink under me .. I wasn't concentrating on my computer anymore ... She smiled each time I shifted my eyes ... That kind of smile that says ... " e be like say this boy is still a learner "

I had to leave before my time

Guy you funny oo! next time just walk up to her and strike a convo, instead of looking away!!!...THAT WAS A WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY MISSED

Mattkent:


D full story...but i don see am...u don modify am. Dat kind tin do me too sef....like too much i no fit count.

But u for walk up to d gurl na....jst say sth like...' ur beautiful eyes has drained d life out of me..i had to say hello to u to revive myself'

bADDeesT bOY!!!

dovelike:
I don't plan on hiding my feeling any longer oo.I just haven't see him. But we hide it because if we open up,the guy might not feel the same way,or when the love fever is over he carries her name everywhere,or the guy will be instantly turned off by her boldness. You see.

turn off by boldness?says who?
Guys love gals who know and go for what they want..

I dnt believe u avnt seen the right guy..He is there probably you are just ignoring him..watch well

iambest:
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3cycle:
Pretending but dying inside. Its difficult being a woman.

Not easy being a woman though... But quite a number of naija females' mentality is way out of this world.

LaurelP:
Its amazing how women can hide their feelings even when they're dying inside. How can u desire someone and yet, u hide it and don't show any slightest sign dat such a thing exists for a very long time.

Most guys may not know, but girls do crush on guys equally if not more than guys do them. I'm close to many girls and I do interact with them a lot. So am always around when they gossip about guys, the one they like that don't like them, the ones that are cool bla bla bla. I can say dat girls gossip a lot abt guys.

But wat I can't imagine is the pain of hiding ur feelings and praying that maybe, just maybe the guy will one day come to ask u out! It must be really hard.
Most of the girls I've ended up with admitted that they've always liked me right from the onset. So if you like someone why put him through all the stress of ignoring his calls, wasting his time, not appreciating him and atimes even abusing him publicly? And when you do all this to him, you still pray and expect him to continue chasing you

That's not even the issue. The issue is how do you ladies do this? How are you able to conceal your feelings for a man. Its very difficult for a man avoid a woman he likes, but women do it excellently. They stare @ you and talk abt u behind ur back, but when you turn around they quickly look away, lolz. They try all within their powers to hide it, atimes even becoming aggressive and mean at you.
Ladies how do you do it?

@op, to answer your questions from experience ... Girls can crush on a guy but won't ask him out simply because they crush on many guys at once and prioritize the list, so if you're not number one on the list of the guys they are crushing on then they can wait for years and not tell you :-D (they are not dying in silence, naa men). If after waiting for number one on the priority list to ask her out and he doesn't but you're still bothering her she would then settle and say yes to you and youd be gyrating thinking you finally won her heart not knowing you were just an option

2. If you try chatting her up and she is not welcoming then it means she doesn't really really really like you, this one nor be hard to get ooh, she is obviously waiting for a richer, finer, fresher guy to come chat her up.

3. If after managing to chat her up and she refuses to give you her number then it means she also doesn't really really like you and had some little time to waste that's why she was replying you , it also means she'd have nothing to loose if she doesn't see you again forever in short it means go and die

4. We all know girls are attracted to the finer things of life, so if you're very cute, got a nice car (like me I've got a white 2010 bmw 3 series convertible which is one good reason for girls to famz me) and you walk up to her and say the following ;

Hi, I'm Ricky, i was walking by (or driving by), I saw you, you look really interesting and I'd like to get to know you, are you a student here, what faculty?, I'm a student here too (or I work in a bank or big company, don't tell her you're doing one small job ooh, lying is part of the game, it makes it all interesting, you can even tell her you work for the president ), please I'd like to keep in touch, give me your number let me call you sometime so we can hang out, I'm a matured guy, I'm very caring and won't waste your time (this line is important if the girl might be an olosho, when you hangout you'd then know who or what she is ), then give her your phone immediately before she thinks of any stupid excuse to give (if your using bb porshe or one big phone then it's good for you, you're on the right track, make you nor fear )

4. But there is one big problem ooh, She might give you her number and won't pick up when you call her, listen to me bro, it's not really hard to get, let me tell you what happened, it's either (a) she later discovered she doesn't really really like you (b) she got home and remembered she had made a mistake by giving you her number because she has a boyfriend (c) you're not worth cheating with, probably she met another guy that's worth cheating with that same day , so once again, it's not hard to get oooh, so bye :-D.. I've got a remedy for this problem though .

nikkflexible:
no vex oo! biko where are all those pple from france? its bin long i saw dia comments abi ntwrk no dey france again ni

FYI: We are writing our semester exams.

InZA:
At the end of the day, it's just being basically selfish and self centred. Ladies on this thread have been giving one common denominator for hiding their feelings- "I don't want him to think I'm cheap"/" I don't want to be turned down"

So is it a guy's mission on earth to be turned down

You ladies naturally expect a guy to feel good that he summed up courage to tell you how he feels and you just took all that courage, poured it in a mortar, pounded it to dust, scooped it and applied it on your face as foundation/powder- waiting to look good for another victim.

So at the end of the day ladies are out rightly selfish and self centred, they may try to put it under less toxic and cutesy headers but the fact remains that - Ladies are selfish.

No body is saying, you should be overly brazen enough to walk up to him and give him a kiss the very first time you're meeting, but what's wrong in a simple "hi".... or " Hello, your shoes are nice" (even if his shoes are like a speed boat), or "I need to buy this your cologne for my brother (even if you're the 5th girl in a family of 7girls),it smells so nice"

Any guy who has interests in you will happily take the cue from all these and step it up to the next level, and If doesn't take the cue- just move on.

Simple.

I can't stop clapping 4 ya.....w@ a post...

soldierdollar:
I went to a cyber cafe ... Mehn ! ... See this chic de look me without batting an eye lid . That 5 second stare seemed to be the longest moment in my life . At last she beat me to d contest as I became shy and moved my eyes to an invisible object behind her. She seemed to notice my shyness as she took advantage of it ... Looking me directly in the eye and as she expected , I shifted my eyed automatically ... I became uncomfortable .. I wanted the ground to sink under me .. I wasn't concentrating on my computer anymore ... She smiled each time I shifted my eyes ... That kind of smile that says ... " e be like say this boy is still a learner "

I had to leave before my time

Lol....

Neoluv:


@op, to answer your questions from experience ... Girls can crush on a guy but won't ask him out simply because they crush on many guys at once and prioritize the list, so if you're not number one on the list of the guys they are crushing on then they can wait for years and not tell you :-D (they are not dying in silence, naa men). If after waiting for number one on the priority list to ask her out and he doesn't but you're still bothering her she would then settle and say yes to you and youd be gyrating thinking you finally won her heart not knowing you were just an option

2. If you try chatting her up and she is not welcoming then it means she doesn't really really really like you, this one nor be hard to get ooh, she is obviously waiting for a richer, finer, fresher guy to come chat her up.

3. If after managing to chat her up and she refuses to give you her number then it means she also doesn't really really like you and had some little time to waste that's why she was replying you , it also means she'd have nothing to loose if she doesn't see you again forever in short it means go and die

4. We all know girls are attracted to the finer things of life, so if you're very cute, got a nice car (like me I've got a white 2010 bmw 3 series convertible which is one good reason for girls to famz me) and you walk up to her and say the following ;

Hi, I'm Ricky, i was walking by (or driving by), I saw you, you look really interesting and I'd like to get to know you, are you a student here, what faculty?, I'm a student here too (or I work in a bank or big company, don't tell her you're doing one small job ooh, lying is part of the game, it makes it all interesting, you can even tell her you work for the president ), please I'd like to keep in touch, give me your number let me call you sometime so we can hang out, I'm a matured guy, I'm very caring and won't waste your time (this line is important if the girl might be an olosho, when you hangout you'd then know who or what she is ), then give her your phone immediately before she thinks of any stupid excuse to give (if your using bb porshe or one big phone then it's good for you, you're on the right track, make you nor fear )

4. But there is one big problem ooh, She might give you her number and won't pick up when you call her, listen to me bro, it's not really hard to get, let me tell you what happened, it's either (a) she later discovered she doesn't really really like you (b) she got home and remembered she had made a mistake by giving you her number because she has a boyfriend (c) you're not worth cheating with, probably she met another guy that's worth cheating with that same day , so once again, it's not hard to get oooh, so bye :-D.. I've got a remedy for this problem though .

Lol... well done, y dont u open a thread, mr remedy , why do guys advise other guys to lie

Ayesha01ad:

Lol... well done, y dont u open a thread, mr remedy , why do guys advise other guys to lie

Open thread ke?, i replied this post because i couldn't sleep, I don't have time to always be on nairaland,I prefer the real life ;-), the truth is, girls don't really care if you lie, just say anything to get their attention or make them famz you, once they've ended up liking you they'd not even care if you're the most wanted criminal

Neoluv:


Open thread ke?, i replied this post because i couldn't sleep, I don't have time to always be on nairaland,I prefer the real life ;-), the truth is, girls don't really care if you lie, just say anything to get their attention or make them famz you, once they've ended up liking you they'd not even care if you're the most wanted criminal

Some girls do, reasonable girls.... i fear boys oo

Ayesha01ad:

Some girls do, reasonable girls.... i fear boys oo

Oh, you a lady?.. Well it all depends on the lie, I'm a sharp guy so I don't lie anyhow, I tell a lie that I can back up with some little truth as evidence, so if she asks me why Iied about working for the president id simply tell her we all work for the president and federal government in one way or the other,when we buy things we pay tax to the government finito.

Neoluv:


Oh, you a lady?.. Well it all depends on the lie, I'm a sharp guy so I don't lie anyhow, I tell a lie that I can back up with some little truth as evidence, so if she asks me why Iied about working for the president id simply tell her we all work for the president and federal government in one way or the other,when we buy things we pay tax to the government finito.

Oh I see. yes I'm

And to the boys waiting for a girl to come and ask them out, well, you'd always end up with girls you don't really like because the realy beautiful girls can never come to ask you out because they are still drunk in the euphoria of the numerous attention they are getting from male toasters , so who the eff are you that they should come talk to you ?, Justin biber ?

Ayesha01ad:

Oh I see. yes I'm

Ah, hope you don't think I'm a bad boy ooh, I'm just helping the guys out, I was in their shoes when I was still a boy, now I'm a man .

LaurelP:
Its amazing how women can hide their feelings even when they're dying inside. How can u desire someone and yet, u hide it and don't show any slightest sign dat such a thing exists for a very long time.

Most guys may not know, but girls do crush on guys equally if not more than guys do them. I'm close to many girls and I do interact with them a lot. So am always around when they gossip about guys, the one they like that don't like them, the ones that are cool bla bla bla. I can say dat girls gossip a lot abt guys.

But wat I can't imagine is the pain of hiding ur feelings and praying that maybe, just maybe the guy will one day come to ask u out! It must be really hard.
Most of the girls I've ended up with admitted that they've always liked me right from the onset. So if you like someone why put him through all the stress of ignoring his calls, wasting his time, not appreciating him and atimes even abusing him publicly? And when you do all this to him, you still pray and expect him to continue chasing you

That's not even the issue. The issue is how do you ladies do this? How are you able to conceal your feelings for a man. Its very difficult for a man avoid a woman he likes, but women do it excellently. They stare @ you and talk abt u behind ur back, but when you turn around they quickly look away, lolz. They try all within their powers to hide it, atimes even becoming aggressive and mean at you.
Ladies how do you do it?

...dats ladies 4 u...

Neoluv:


@op, to answer your questions from experience ... Girls can crush on a guy but won't ask him out simply because they crush on many guys at once and prioritize the list, so if you're not number one on the list of the guys they are crushing on then they can wait for years and not tell you :-D (they are not dying in silence, naa men). If after waiting for number one on the priority list to ask her out and he doesn't but you're still bothering her she would then settle and say yes to you and youd be gyrating thinking you finally won her heart not knowing you were just an option

2. If you try chatting her up and she is not welcoming then it means she doesn't really really really like you, this one nor be hard to get ooh, she is obviously waiting for a richer, finer, fresher guy to come chat her up.

3. If after managing to chat her up and she refuses to give you her number then it means she also doesn't really really like you and had some little time to waste that's why she was replying you , it also means she'd have nothing to loose if she doesn't see you again forever in short it means go and die

4. We all know girls are attracted to the finer things of life, so if you're very cute, got a nice car (like me I've got a white 2010 bmw 3 series convertible which is one good reason for girls to famz me) and you walk up to her and say the following ;

Hi, I'm Ricky, i was walking by (or driving by), I saw you, you look really interesting and I'd like to get to know you, are you a student here, what faculty?, I'm a student here too (or I work in a bank or big company, don't tell her you're doing one small job ooh, lying is part of the game, it makes it all interesting, you can even tell her you work for the president ), please I'd like to keep in touch, give me your number let me call you sometime so we can hang out, I'm a matured guy, I'm very caring and won't waste your time (this line is important if the girl might be an olosho, when you hangout you'd then know who or what she is ), then give her your phone immediately before she thinks of any stupid excuse to give (if your using bb porshe or one big phone then it's good for you, you're on the right track, make you nor fear )

4. But there is one big problem ooh, She might give you her number and won't pick up when you call her, listen to me bro, it's not really hard to get, let me tell you what happened, it's either (a) she later discovered she doesn't really really like you (b) she got home and remembered she had made a mistake by giving you her number because she has a boyfriend (c) you're not worth cheating with, probably she met another guy that's worth cheating with that same day , so once again, it's not hard to get oooh, so bye :-D.. I've got a remedy for this problem though .

Bad nigga...lolz

Neoluv:


Ah, hope you don't think I'm a bad boy ooh, I'm just helping the guys out, I was in their shoes when I was still a boy, now I'm a man .

No man, u r just doing ur thing...lol

Viciyus:
Na now I know say some people dey use yansh take read Bible. Who dey tell you say Mary no cry? Or you want make dem write say Mary cry? Go read your bible well

Abeg Mr y not read d bible 4 me since na yansh i take dy read my own bible. FoolishIdiot

It all boils down to a man confidence . Nowadays I don't see any lady as unapproachable. No matter how rich she is . I have come to realize that the harder they look the easier they are. I have asked women quiet a number of times how they feel if no man tries to woo them in 24hrs and the answers have always been the same which is they feel miserable,one even said why will she spend thousands on makeup and fashion and her hair to look attractive if any man won't even wink at her or say hello?

mirexxx:
girls do all these 2 avoid being called cheap. we are also scared that he might not feel the same way and probably bounce us.

@mirexx...I luv ur responses##keep it coming## and don't stop saying it because u r really educating we guys here!!!!

it is not a normal or God given gift, so there is nothing to boast about that satanic gift of blending deceit perfectly with ur behaviour..this deadly trait was inherited from satan in eden, deceived adam with it and many men are deceived and ruined today with such devilish trait...

mirexxx:
girls do all these 2 avoid being called cheap. we are also scared that he might not feel the same way and probably bounce us.

lalasticlala:
So that they will not look cheap.. .

Allow me make this input pls...
.
Atimes, a lady might 'look' cheap but not actually cheap while alsoe, might not 'look' cheap but actually very cheap...
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How about that?
.
So i think it all come down to both party involved; their sense of maturity and what they both regard as norm sort of. But to me, i have no issue with a lady making the first move, it wouldn't have a bearing on my 'looking cheap' judgement because several other things count.

MrDojo:


I can't stop clapping 4 ya.....w@ a post...

Thanks man

kingdeso:

bADDeesT bOY!!!

noo...im still a learner

Herzumpther:
You never stop burning lol.

scraps are, what would i call it.......

daveP:
scraps are, what would i call it.......

Hey no church? Ready to burn again?

Herzumpther:
Hey no church? Ready to burn again?

by 9. Burn? Atallz. What of you, where are you typeth from?