Here are 7 things U must/Mustn't do in or before a relationship.
1. Never love for where U are but for who U are I.e don't love a gal/guy just because of your present status because U might not be comfortable with the person when your level changes. So before U start that relationship or marry, make sure its a person U can be comfortable with come rain come sunshine except u just want to play around.

2. Always be yourself: I met a lady who said the reason she can't marry the guy she was going out with is that the guy always says 'yes' to all she says. To him he was doing it to gain her and make her feel loved but to her she knew that the guy wasn't been himself.

3. Love who U are: we have seen people who try all they can to change their skin colour, body type just because they don't feel comfortable with themselves. But the truth is this 'U ARE NOT MEANT FOR EVERYBODY'. Do u know that there are people who like ugly, fat, etc people? So be comfortable with yourself.

4. Do things for love and not love for the things U do. When U do things for love U won't feel too hurt when the peopl U have been good to act otherwise.

5. As in gal, don't think U can keep your guy by spreading your legs for him. This is a common mistake girls make.

6. as a guy, if U need to send a girl money for her to call U then U are of all men most miserable. When U are sending her airtime let it not be that U expect her to call U with it. So next time don't get angry with her if she doesn't call U with the card U sent her and as a girl learn to call your guy with your own airtime not only when he sends U card.

7. Don't manage him or her: most times we feel we can manage people but in most cases it doesn't work that way. Just read in the paper this morning of a girl who was bathed in acid by her boy friend who is an ex-militant. The guy was beating her in the relationship but she was still expecting better days because the guy was taking care of her financial needs until she discovered the guy's true identity and wanted to leave.

@no 3, nobody likes fat and ugly.
Stop giving them false hope

Another lesson for today
Welldone op

eistien:
@no 3, nobody likes fat and ugly.
Stop giving them false hope

I mean it bro. I have seen guys who say they can't marry fine babes because they don't want them the girls to dump them tomorrow and for the fat ones there are guys out there who can never fall for lekpa girls (me inclusive). No matter how beautiful a girl is, I can never have anything to do with her is she's lekpa. So one man's food is another man's poison.

Op as for no.6, what about calling with your own airtel, what if am using MTN?

@op, y u mention dat no5 na U won spoil market for us?

kaycexx:
Op as for no.6, what about calling with your own airtel, what if am using MTN?

@ Kayce don't get your point but my idea is that girl should learn to call a guy with her own call card and the guy should not expect a girl to call him because he has sent her aiRtime. Let her call you because U are important to her and she loves U not because U have sent her card. Let her calling be as her resources permit.

zick19:
@op, y u mention dat no5 na U won spoil market for us?

Hahaha sorry o @ Zick just that the truth must be told.

soloyes, pls modify dat number 6, u wrote airtel instead of airtime.... Nice write up bt u fuc.k up wit dat number 5, u no want make dat babe gimme kittycat again

soloyes:

Hahaha sorry o @ Zick just that the truth must be told.

lolz, bt at times also, the truth must also be ignored

Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness,all other things shall be added unto u

zick19:
soloyes, pls modify dat number 6, u wrote airtel instead of airtime.... Nice write up bt u fuc.k up wit dat number 5, u no want make dat babe gimme kittycat again

Tnx bro I have modified it.

Bonus no. 8: Never assume you are in love. Until the person has said so and U have seen him/her act so don't assume. Don't assume that he/she loves U because of closeness or fondness.