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^^^ In the light of the above, I hereby declare the thread open.
Please insults will not be tolerated.
Only objective fun is allowed.

If you have issues (Life and Love based) and you need someone to talk to, you can holla here.
I do not see myself as having apprehended in these matters, no. Just like everyone I'm human and I'm bound to falter too.
But I can help you and you can do likewise for me.

Let this be another avenue to explore our profound interconnectedness.

zyzxx:
a question for u op

MizMyColi:

No.
The quoted post is still there. I mean the original post.


I'm all eyes.

MizMyColi:
Jhidey08
I'm here now

zyzxx:
is it advice able for a man to marry a lady he is older with 12, years?

Pls talk on d perfective of both boy and the girl

Thanks

MizMyColi:


If she happens to genuinely love a guy who is 12 years older and he is not a Divorcee with children (even if he were, as long as the ex wife and children have made peace with the fact that their patriarch is moving on) - she could give it a shot.

But then again, fact remains that in our society, except you're an aristo or plausible second wife, marrying a man with such age difference is sorta frowned upon. We're not particularly liberalist in our views and to some extent, I understand why.

The perogative lies more on the lady.
Is she able to discern the man's motive?
Are her motives pure?

If yes, then by all means - she can go ahead.

jhidey08:

[b]I took it upon maself to prove dem wrong by going close to her and making her my girlfriend.[b/]

MissSlimbody:

...Don't know the rest of the story yet, but the quoted is d genesis of whatever it is you're passing through.

Its very normal for some people to have misconceptions about you, but you don't have to prove anything to anyone.

If after I have explained in order to make them understand, they still doubt me, na their cup of Zobo be that.

Teespice:
love is truly beautiful.

that's all I can say.