skimmy39:
is English dat hard

diddydiva:

like I said earlier. I want to learn how to overcome s3x urge in a long distance relationship .

diddydiva:

eahy !!

am sorry to burst your bubbles

I don't self service

you can try giving another advice

Exjoker:
Okay now I understand. You're into a LDR and sometimes you wish your fiancé was around so that you can quench your thirst for se.x?

Prixus:

now u've made me sad. how can u not SS...

diddydiva:

am sorry

but I don't do it

Peter9ine:
Self discipline, whenever you think of it, take ur mind off it and get ursef busy... goodluck[color=#000099][/color]

ohaleoghene:


I'm joining him this year

krall:
masturbating makes you feel guilty but fornicating doesnt?
i am lost here.

diddydiva:

hmmmmmm


you are going deep!!!

after all u said u understand. so why the long post

Exjoker:
Lol. I thought some people here might not understand. So I have to intricate it for them

Prixus:

lol...ok ma'am. I'm just wining u. how u doing?

diddydiva:

am doing great!!!

u?

chidyhels:

Help me pls

skimmy39:
naaa i resemble teacher

chidyhels:

Better dont quote next time if you cant be a teacher

RedBenson:


Still busy at night ba? You forgot these sexual urges mostly come at night?

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

RuuDie:
Lastpage.

I swear after reading what you wrote, I was in tears... especially the bit about your woman!

firstEVA:
Lastpage there's so much bitterness in your posts, appears like girls have been cheating on you since 1960.

lastpage:


Sorry if l appear "bitter"..... l just hate it when others try to spoil the dignity of others or influence them negatively!

As per "Girls cheating you since 1960"? Forget that side, l am not a young man still running after girls.

To be honest, l had my own "fair-share" of ladies before l met my wife and trust me, l was a "ladies-man" ......way back then.

But when l made the decision to "settle-down", l stuck to my wife through thick and thin.
It paid-off eventually and we have been very happy for decades now..... and l always wish the same happiness on the younger generation so when l see someone like that lady "talking shyte" and trying to mislead and lead others astray.....
okay, l confess.....l get annoyed.

Moreso, she was also lying just to get the lady to do what she wanted.[/b]
what do we gain by leading others astray.....just because they came out with their problems?
If she cheated on her man ...and got served back the same way (Karma is a biatch!), why must she want others to follow that same route?

[b]You know there is something they say about a "drowning man"...

Anyway, No Biggie.
Its her life, l don talk my own and waka-pass.

Lastpage!

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

andyanders:


My dear DO NOT SAY THAT. You can ONLY trust yourself in this case.In as much as I do not support masturbation and lust for a married couple, I can only tell you that the ONLY way out is for your to build up your trust in God and pray for you to meet him.It is not easy to be alone and I will tell you, that there is the possibility of cheating by either of you.

All you have to do is to avoid single friends and also avoid watching some kind of home videos that could expose you to lust.Also avoid some kind of music too. Become a serious church worker and move with elderly people who can help to encourage you and not the ones that would be taking you to parties.

Pray for your guy because he can be exposed to women and remember that ONLY prayers that can help him stay faithful.Also depending on the country.If it is USA, then you cannot hold him because the ladies can even come after him even without him asking for it.

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asdfjklhaha:

Sex is a tin of d mind like sumone said, just get urself busy wit other tins so as to get ur mind of sex, secondly avoid watching porn, cos de corrupt d mind.

ohaleoghene:



no ,he doesn't have a gf abroad. I guarantee you that ,and he has been keeping himself too. we have been for six year and there is no case of cheating or lies

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.