Make d holy Bible ur best frnd at dis moment. Its difficult bt God will see u tru

Embrace Christ and the grace of God will subdue such feelings.

All these guys telling the op to be patient, take her mind out of it and all that, if na una nko? Rubbish.

Long distances relationship should not be encouraged.

My dear, the best thing you can do is pray to God. And don't think about cheating...pls

Waiting come concern me

Nah today wey you strt to the cheat?


Abeg make I face my garri with my vegetable soup joooor****************

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

You hit d nail on d head!

see as all of em tek full hia.......










emusmith....... oya show face...... those ur yeye advice are needed here........

tit:
Are you in Lagos?
Come to Ojo barracks.
Plenti boys to help you out.

they have been helping u out,huh.*winks*

ohaleoghene:=
no ,he doesn't have a gf abroad. I guarantee you that ,and he has been keeping himself too. we have been for six year and there is no case of cheating or lies

My dear DO NOT SAY THAT. You can ONLY trust yourself in this case.In as much as I do not support masturbation and lust for a married couple, I can only tell you that the ONLY way out is for your to build up your trust in God and pray for you to meet him.It is not easy to be alone and I will tell you, that there is the possibility of cheating by either of you.

All you have to do is to avoid single friends and also avoid watching some kind of home videos that could expose you to lust.Also avoid some kind of music too. Become a serious church worker and move with elderly people who can help to encourage you and not the ones that would be taking you to parties.

Pray for your guy because he can be exposed to women and remember that ONLY prayers that can help him stay faithful.Also depending on the country.If it is USA, then you cannot hold him because the ladies can even come after him even without him asking for it.

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kelvin100:


Anyone that tells you you can stay without sex is not honest with you.
There's how long you can stay without sex before the urge overpowers you.

Once you start having sex, then you can't stop.

I can guarantee you that he has a gf abroad .

how can you guarantee ?, this is a next time use in my own opinion, guarantee deals with fact, unless you know much about her fiance too. Naija sha

all you need is my address

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

But having sex with your fiancé is not right in God's sight since you guys are not married. You are also guilty of immorality for six whole years.

.......as if sex is a food.

diddydiva:
hmmmmmmm

am here to learn too

Self service

diddydiva:
hmmmmmmm

am here to learn too

Self service?

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

never! I will not cheat on him. we have been through a lot . he is my first so I don't know what another man's hand feels like. if I want to cheat I don't need Nairaland permission

kelvin100:


Is he in a prison in Saudi Arabia?

Bros you funny die I swear

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Spaxon:
see as all of em tek full hia.......










emusmith....... oya show face...... those ur yeye advice are needed here........

Hey sweet... ...lemmie read it...

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Wonders shall never end! Smh! The ball is in your court and you're depriving yourself.

This one strong o

lean on God, i bet you you will get to 4get abt sex oe selfie .

word of advice. dont share ur picture online and post this kind of topic.

can be embarassing

ogaprime:


Ehen!! So when you will join him over there, won't de urge be heartless than boko haram. Its better your relationship becomes marriage as soon as possible. If you join him over there, you go throw away "born again" ooo...

the parents will pay the bride price. I no one throw way born again o...is been helping

Which kain tin be dis??

krall:
masturbating makes you feel guilty but fornicating doesnt?
i am lost here.

Dating for 6years? Like really Isokay!!!!! N wht is d FIANCE doing while u batting with dis 'dilemma'

pelij:
Is sex the main reason why you want to meet your partner abroad, o no you are getting it too wrong, this sex of a thing is becoming the other of the day and is now too overated (to me is nothing much).

Wait a minute you musturbate right? If yes pls stop it , am sure it does'nt please God.

Do you love him? If yes pls note that love is not all about sex, you guys should plan on how to grow your future presence to avoid hilarious scenario.

....EDITED......

Wait, this is fornication oooooo, are you guys married?

LOL @ bolded

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

if you love ur financee u will not cheat ..the fact that u have had pre maritial sex have complicated the issue , however i recommend u meet up with ur fiance as soon as possible as you are already on fire with sex urge..thats why u put ur issue on nairaland

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Poor you, while you are starving yourself, he is cuddling up to a Miss or Ms Winter !!!