my relationship of four years is about crashing and am really unhappy about this latest development. I reside in pH while my girl works at Uyo, lately I discovered she no longer picks my calls early in the morning and at night before bed time and this has been going on for weeks now and most times when i keep on calling, she will just busy my call and off her phone. Her excuse is that her phone is always on silent mode.. Am just confused.. Please what do I do? Should I pay her or surprise visit or just let her be?.

Equalizer:
my relationship of four years is about crashing and am really unhappy about this latest development. I reside in pH while my girl works at Uyo, lately I discovered she no longer picks my calls early in the morning and at night before bed time and this has been going on for weeks now and most times when i keep on calling, she will just busy my call and off her phone. Her excuse is that her phone is always on silent mode.. Am just confused.. Please what do I do? Should I pay her or surprise visit or just let her be?.

Try and develop a thick skin then give her some space say 1 week to see if she will ring you.

But I hope you didn't make her change with the way you treated her.

Equalizer:
my relationship of four years is about crashing and am really unhappy about this latest development. I reside in pH while my girl works at Uyo, lately I discovered she no longer picks my calls early in the morning and at night before bed time and this has been going on for weeks now and most times when i keep on calling, she will just busy my call and off her phone. Her excuse is that her phone is always on silent mode.. Am just confused.. Please what do I do? Should I pay her or surprise visit or just let her be?.

You can only let her be, when u no longer av any feelings for her, but if u still do, then i will advice u pay a surprise visit!

op's babe has migrated to greener pastures
She is probably already pregnant for the other dude by now








ONE MOMENT OF SILENCE FOR THE OP

Danger signs....

listen to this song ... let her go by passager

buygala:
op's babe has migrated to greener pastures
She is probably already pregnant for the other dude by now








ONE MOMENT OF SILENCE FOR THE OP

special bad advicer on NL

Eeeyaah,dnt stres ur self 2 much because she's datin another man in Uyo..Wht u need 2 do nw is,giv her a space like 3days may b she'll miss u but if u did nt see her call or ping u,move on man

dstnd:
listen to this song ... let her go by passager

Wow! I love that song! Very deep lyrics...... but the song will not help the OP at all. would even make him depressed d more.

Will give her some days break to see what her reactions would be.. Yet to call her today but sent her a love piece in the morning which she replied with just "tnx"... Am just going crazy cos the whole picture is getting clear now..

akinsadeez:



Wow! I love that song! Very deep lyrics...... but the song will not help the OP at all. would even make him depressed d more.

only know your lover when you let her go......only hit the road wen u missing home.I like d song die oga

Equalizer:
Will give her some days break to see what her reactions would be.. Yet to call her today but sent her a love piece in the morning which she replied with just "tnx"... Am just going crazy cos the whole picture is getting clear now..

you are back to friend zone

dstnd:
you are back to friend zone

What could've been my crime? I've loved her not just like my spouse but like a sister.. Always there for her.. I bet the only mistake I made was ever trusting and believing all she says even when they contain some atom of lies... Am indeed going through pains here...

Baba, from ph to uyo no far na. And its just like 3k to and fro. Just pay her surprise visit and see things for yasef.

If she gets angry becos of ur surprise visit and asks u why u didnt tell her before coming, and reluctantly or maybe even stops you from coming to her place,...

Bros u know na...

obongproff:
Baba, from ph to uyo no far na. And its just like 3k to and fro. Just pay her surprise visit and see things for yasef.

If she gets angry becos of ur surprise visit and asks u why u didnt tell her before coming, and reluctantly or maybe even stops you from coming to her place,...

Bros u know na...

Bros am too emotional and little things easily get on me.. What if she's actually cheating on me, will I ever recover from the shock? The surprise visit of a thing is more like a suicide mission for me cos you can't really predict any woman..

Equalizer:


What could've been my crime? I've loved her not just like my spouse but like a sister.. Always there for her.. I bet the only mistake I made was ever trusting and believing all she says even when they contain some atom of lies... Am indeed going through pains here...

bros in live u don't get everything u get some u forget others.the heart that once loved will surely love again .

dstnd:
bros in live u don't get everything u get some u forget others.the heart that once loved will surely love again .

Thanks bro..

Equalizer:
my relationship of four years is about crashing and am really unhappy about this latest development. I reside in pH while my girl works at Uyo, lately I discovered she no longer picks my calls early in the morning and at night before bed time and this has been going on for weeks now and most times when i keep on calling, she will just busy my call and off her phone. Her excuse is that her phone is always on silent mode.. Am just confused.. Please what do I do? Should I pay her or surprise visit or just let her be?.

Pay her an unannounced impromptu visit.

Equalizer:


Bros am too emotional and little things easily get on me.. What if she's actually cheating on me, will I ever recover from the shock? The surprise visit of a thing is more like a suicide mission for me cos you can't really predict any woman..

if you discover she is cheating on you, you go kill yaself? pls. man up and investigate before you kill yourself with false alarm. if you eventually discover she is cheating, no need to fret. move on. make sure your next babe fine pass am sha...

xenten:
Pay her an unannounced impromptu visit.

Thanks Bro.. I will do just that...

xenten:

if you discover she is cheating on you, you go kill yaself? pls. man up and investigate before you kill yourself with false alarm. if you eventually discover she is cheating, no need to fret. move on. make sure your next babe fine pass am sha...

Will I ever love again?

Equalizer:
my relationship of four years is about crashing and am really unhappy about this latest development. I reside in pH while my girl works at Uyo, lately I discovered she no longer picks my calls early in the morning and at night before bed time and this has been going on for weeks now and most times when i keep on calling, she will just busy my call and off her phone. Her excuse is that her phone is always on silent mode.. Am just confused.. Please what do I do? Should I pay her or surprise visit or just let her be?.

Hi, equaliser. My name is Charles Nneji and i'm a relationship coach for men.

i feel your pain and i will really like to help....

Now listen carefully and brace yourself because i will be blunt with you here. The problem is not that she is cheating on you. The problem is that she is starting to loose interest in YOU.

It happens with women, when you do not spice your relationship and bring new things to the table a girl starts loosing interest and the first sign of it is when she starts behaving the way your girlfriend is behaving right now. she is giving you signals telling you that she doesn't want you around anymore.

the more you call her and show her you are worried the more she will keep withdrawing from you.

give her space, my guess is that you now call her almost everyday....stop it, it is chasing her away.

click my profile and read all my articles here, read the first one - it will help you alot. or you can visit my website(it's in my profile)

peace, bro

CharlesNneji1:


Hi, equaliser. My name is Charles Nneji and i'm a relationship coach for men.

i feel your pain and i will really like to help....

Now listen carefully and brace yourself because i will be blunt with you here. The problem is not that she is cheating on you. The problem is that she is starting to loose interest in YOU.

It happens with women, when you do not spice your relationship and bring new things to the table a girl starts loosing interest and the first sign of it is when she starts behaving the way your girlfriend is behaving right now. she is giving you signals telling you that she doesn't want you around anymore.

the more you call her and show her you are worried the more she will keep withdrawing from you.

give her space, my guess is that you now call her almost everyday....stop it, it is chasing her away.

click my profile and read all my articles here, read the first one - it will help you alot. or you can visit my website(it's in my profile)

peace, bro

Thanks a lot Sir.. Will make out time to read the prescribed books... I think distance contributed a lot to my current problem... Will give her some time and see how things unfolds... Gonna be hard for me but I will try..

Op, just pay her a surprise visit and see things for yourself.. Smh "To be exempt from the passions with which others are tormented, is the only pleasing solitude.

Equalizer:


Bros am too emotional and little things easily get on me.. What if she's actually cheating on me, will I ever recover from the shock? The surprise visit of a thing is more like a suicide mission for me cos you can't really predict any woman..

Baba, man up and go and see things for yaself. Expect d worst so u wont be disappointed when it happens.

Besides, how old are you sef? U sound like one who has not bin heartbroken before. If she is cheating on u, its no big deal. Shit happens.

The earlier u realise dat a girlfriend is never the same thing as a wife, the better for you.

Equalizer:


What could've been my crime? I've loved her not just like my spouse but like a sister.. Al ways there for her.. I bet the only mistake I made was ever trusting and believing all she says even when they contain some atom of lies... Am indeed going through pains here...

I feel ur pain bro.....

Equalizer:


What could've been my crime? I've loved her not just like my spouse but like a sister.. Always there for her.. I bet the only mistake I made was ever trusting and believing all she says even when they contain some atom of lies... Am indeed going through pains here...

Stop lamenting over the already soiled milk , life goes on.

Equalizer:


Will I ever love again?

No,you won't love again enter the seminary b4 you miss the chance.

Yet another LDR lamentations.
Why do guys even dare to try this with naija girls?

@OP, give me her number, give me your number and in two weeks time I will send you her nudde pics. No be Uyo again?

Since you've not been heartbroken before then it's safe to say you're still very young. It's going to be hard but I think you should forget about her. Going to Uyo won't solve anything instead may make you unhappy the more. She has chosen her part. Choose yours.

For the female folks out there I say congratulations. A new player is born.

#drops mikemike

I hate when these happens
You should be the heartbreaker, not the heartbreakee. Stop lamenting my friend!!!
You're sounding like someone who hasn't realised that love isn't a sacred thing, but something that can be built from nowhere(hence it can also be demolished). If you're done with school, get something doing. If you're still in school, GET SOMETHING DOING!!! And after that, if girls are still dumping your busy, and rich(or potential rich) ass, come back here and sue me.

She's irritated by the thought of you. This is a sign of dying love.