u are welcome.

I don't exactly know what I'll do in such a situation. Most probably, I'll back away. Me and her will be well and truly finished, and me and him will be on thin ice and I won't be able to fully trust him again. But as for her, she is gone. Why? Cos the horse allows the rider on, that's why.

wait..i just noticed something..why does the lady get blamed? why u cut relationship with the girl and be on thin ice with the man..mhmm?

Cos the horse allows the rider on, that's why.

what if the man is the ho nko?..why call the lady the horse?..thats just baloney!

Cos the ladies are usually ridden on.

But seriously, if the gurl doesnt want to be involved, she has more power and right to tell the guy so. That's why when caught in the act, the lady (horse) is usually blamed for allowing the man (rider) to ride on her.

right..the gurl is meant to be riden on shei!..
what of the men-ho eh?
she has the right uh?..what if the man blackmails her nko?

why blame the woman

blackmail is a different case entirely.

The topic says, "If You Find Your Lover Kissing & Cuddling Your Best Friend". One thing we should know is this..It is your lover that's Kissing & Cuddling Your Best Friend not the other way. So ur lover has to be blamed more..

don't let he or she comes between you and your bestfriend.
but make sure you beat your friend up badly, so next time when
you have another girl or boy friend, he or she will stay clear from he or her.

what if he/she can't fight?

I'll damage her silly brain that she couldnt use to think b4 she started kissing and kuddling my lover.

mens thats tough. Ennnnn i'll totally dump the stupid a**se, and cut off the stupid fool of a friend. so of all the guys, its my

own that caught her eye. then she's not a true friend. infact shes better off at arms lenght or else....

If my best friend kisses or has sex with my man, that  tells me she has no respect for me or our friendship. Can I ever trust her? Nope, so therefore, the friendship will be very much over.

If my man cheats on me with my best friend, that tells me he's a 2x loser because he cheated on me and because the person he did it with was my best friend. How close to home is that? Since I don't want to be with a loser, I will drop him like it's hot!

In conclusion, both best friend and boyfriend gotta go! They can hook up and get married for all I care. Me no have time for people like that.

i'll just walk out of their lives n neva come back afterall dey both do not deserve ma luv nor ma friendship
their not worth da tears neither are they worth da pains
i wouldn't give dem da satisfaction of seeing me cry
dere are more fishes in da sea anyway

i wudnt blame ma pal tho! because ma 'lover' ought 2 av respected himself/me/mon famille in da 1st place!

(i'll cut off his d!ick).. (j/k)

Cutt of his Dick ?? You bad ooo.. So now tell me if i should get to see my gurl friend in that position, God forbid ooo so you mean i should cutt of her private part ?

datz such a funny talk smartsoft
deres no way u can do dat

I'll make sure that they see me so that denial won't be an isssue. Then l'll write both off my life cos with people like them, l need no enemies.

I will thank them both for a job well done.

let's pray something like that never happens to me. i am one of those girls that's very protective of her man, i don't even want to phatom sharing with another female. if i was in this type of situation i would be speechless but after i leave the scene i will make sure i get him back the worst way imagineable. i would probably do juju to him and at night i'll cut of his mandingo and feed it to the dogs. i guess you can call me grimey. As for the girl, it's over i never want to hear from her again. i am not to be messed with in that sense 

I will pour cold water on their heads.

chigurl:

let's pray something like that never happens to me. i am one of those girls that's very protective of her man, i don't even want to phatom sharing with another female. if i was in this type of situation i would be speechless but after i leave the scene i will make sure i get him back the worst way imagineable. i would probably do juju to him and at night i'll cut of his mandingo and feed it to the dogs. i guess you can call me grimey. As for the girl, it's over i never want to hear from her again. i am not to be messed with in that sense

mandingo..haha

It's only that one u will hear.

@chigurl: girl, you wicked ooo!

There is this yoruba saying that "A don ni laya oje bi, Aya yin ni ke kilo fun" meaning "he who sleeps wit ur wife is not to be blamed but your wife" This will be my position cause I believe she should no he's my best friend and for her to be in that uncompromising position with my best friend, imagine wat position she'll be wit the one thats not my best friend

For somebody to be my best i think we must have come far, ill walk out on them, later ill make up with my friend who happens to be my BEST FRIEND . She' ll definitely be at the loosing end cause I cant imagine wat shell be doing outside

i'll just let 'em be. it seems they luv each other already.they can have a nice time. As 4 mii i'm out of that relationship- both the boy and the girl. they're not worth it

exactly my dear! they're not worth anything,not even my wrath.

@ ocho r u ull not let loose ur wrathif u find them in such pisition? the truth and nothing but the truth.

mehn don't mind her, truth be told, she go kolo

i been tell una say i be angel una no wan hear! ok oh!    but seriously though, i'd let them be because they can't undo what they have already done so why even bother being mad at them? they don't deserve my anger still!

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An atitude of indefference from a guy in such a situation? quite suprising! unless, you probably are doing the same thing with some other girl. it's either that or you are one calm person.