Omotolu:
...you're not serious...

anwo247:
Confess to both and see me after service

Jarus:
1 You didn't sound born-again
2, You didn't sound remorseful
3, You didn't sound you're telling the truth. Looks made-up

fairygeh:
Poster you are so despicable, a very wicked man,what an hypocrite you are,.you went to another woman's house,"prophesied" healing by kissing the affected part close to her "George Bush" or what did u call it,,you slept with another woman.Now you are here asking us what to do.were we there when you were f****ing the woman? Sort ur issues out yourself. Mtchewwwww

freecocoa:
Smh, she had pain and you both still had $ex, you kissed the part to pronounce healing, mschew.

Blitz888:

This is so so apt.
If you have my kinda Pastor be sure your matter will be the crux of his sermon next Sunday.
I know you know this verse of the scripture but it has helped me;
"If you confess your sins He is faithful and just to forgive you and to cleans you from all unrighteousness" 1Jh1:9

freecocoa:
Smh, she had pain and you both still had $ex, you kissed the part to pronounce healing, mschew.

bukatyne:


Kiss of healing

Tearg1:


HAVE YOU DONE ALL THESE BEFORE? MR PROPHET!!!!!

debolly:

Sorry. He made it .

Minet16:



may my destiny not be front page IJN n may i remain miserable n poor 4 d rest of my life untill i apologise to #MESSPERO90.

steppin:
Op,
You saw the "George Bush" and still kissed it?
May God have mercy on you!
This story reeks of lies, but na Nl we dey...anything goes.

messpero90:
u see ur life

Minet16:



JESUS, boy you aren't born again.
But I didn't say all these now

signor11:


why

signor11:



two people need to be told in remorse
God and the wife

God should only hear after the wife has........................when you come to the temple to offer your sacrifice and have a issue with someone drop the sacrifice and go reconcile....................................

Cpumping:
Let me tell u how dis story wd end. Ur ex will call u in a few weeks time n tell u she is preggss.
Just be watching.

Evina:
Wow! I really don't like it when people go all "you ought to know better", but man of God, I can't help but point out your errors.

You saw the signs! Both the subtle and glaring signs, but you chose to satisfy the desires of your carnal nature! When you started calling and texting and enjoying the rush of excitement and excusing those feelings for something harmless and innocent and trusting in your ability to stay disciplined, it was clear that you had already embraced temptation.

Anyways, now that the sin is committed, search yourself deeply. Are you truly sorry? Do you truly desire repentance? Then genuinely confess your sins to God and apply the blood of Jesus over your error, because He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse us from ALL unrighteousness.

Then, take steps to cease ALL forms of communication with that ex! I am not really a fan of confessing your sins to pastors, I mean, is it to get counselled or what?

As for wifey, I don't think it is wise to tell her because you will just open an endless tap of suspicion. Being that she is very emotional, it could lead to everlasting distrust.

Next time, tell her when you meet the ex. Be open about your relationships with others, that is one way to check yourself from falling.

Evina:


That is out of context. It is, and you remember that your brother has something against you.

Meaning that, someone is offended with you. In thus case, the wife is NOT offended because she is NOT aware of any offense against her. Infact, going by your quote, there is NOT even any issue that the wife is aware of.

Also, you ARE wrong to state that one must make it right with man before God! NO! You make it right with God first and ask for grace to make it right with man.

Finally, not telling the wife is not because he wants to cover his sin, but because he needs to apply wisdom, as the wife may not be emotionally mature enough to handle the confession.

Omotolu:
...being alone with an ex,that alone is an invitation to treat. Kissing or seducively blessing her injured tummy is WOW,I mean it's a Zap.I.n.g deal.so tell me if a serious guy does that.anyway,go and sin no more...

signor11:

Id accept that my comment was offline
thanks for the correction

i wont say your wrong. you have a right to your opinion.

Although i beg to differ
in many ways we offend all. she dont know but He knows(if i habour iniquity in my heart the lord won hear me). how do we expect God to forgive us when we havent made our way right with men (hidden sin). emotionally matured or not the truth be told and soon as possible. when matters like this are hidden only a long line of WHYS come up later. let her be the one to decide. dont forget what the Word says if she wont forgive call someone and have them help you plead and if she still doesnt forgive then let it alone.

Evina:


You made really strong points.
It is a dicey situation.