2/10

[quote author=vivaciouzz post=31290838] 5 but with my ex..it was 11/10 [/quote
Going back to your ex won't be fun like it used to. E Don spoil. I will advice you to look for something positive in your new guy and stop hurting yourself all in the name of avoiding to stay single.
I chose to remain single coz I haven't fallen deep in lovewith anyone else like I did with my ex. Until then, stay single and happy.

Phinalphantasy:

believe it ma. Am talking from experience. There is a "first" memory attached still.
it can only be over written of the new guy can overwrite that feeling

I think that's nothing more than a of load of sentimental BS people like to spread due to their hopeless romanticism. And whose to say all these EXs were firsts?

Dunno cos it flunctuates

vivaciouzz:
M not happy

I Can make u happy

EnlightenedSoul:


I think that's nothing more than a of load of sentimental BS people like to spread due to their hopeless romanticism. And whose to say all these EXs were firsts?

Its not romanticism..its the dynamics of a relationships... So its reality....with the power/energy attached to s3x by naija ladies, and with the s3x being inevitable in relationships these days, there's gonna be leftover attachments no doubt...its reality.,experience.,,not theory/romanticism...it takes a deeply matured girl to move on, to understand/belittle the s3x/relationship as maybe a cup of coffee, cos that's what it really is

Phinalphantasy:

Its not romanticism..its the dynamics of a relationships... So its reality....with the power/energy attached to s3x by naija ladies, and with the s3x being inevitable in relationships these days, there's gonna be leftover attachments no doubt...its reality.,experience.,,not theory/romanticism...it takes a deeply matured girl to move on, to understand/belittle the s3x/relationship as maybe a cup of coffee, cos that's what it really is

Reality? Dynamics of a relationship? Nah.

Romanticism.

Whether it's a society wherein children as young as kindergarteners are encouraged to give each other valentines and flowers, and kissing and first-base are nothing short of prepubescent milestones, or one where even the most simplistic forms of adult 'sexual' or 'pre-sexual' expression are thoroughly repressed (body and mind alike obliged to be 'kept' for unknown person and/or being(s)), there is one common denominator - [High] Expectation. Buildup. In that way, it's very much unlike life's many other 'firsts', and yes, it's been romanticized well beyond the verge of quixotism. Humans have essentially taken a basic impulse, and turned it into something unrecognizable.

Whatever your chosen metaphor, one thing is for sure - immaturity notwithstanding, sex is sex (and separate from love). Whether it, for you, embodies a coffee, a chemical reaction, or a stroll in the park is entirely your cup of chai.

8/10

My hubby is not perfect neither am I but we r happy tgeda blessed wt 3kids..........8\10