i ran in to this girl few days after val. She looked very nice and full of fun to be with. I asked her out few days later and she complied, it was there that I declared my good intentions. She agreed though we stay far apart, we headed to my apartment we spent some time together. She disclosed to me that she in he final year and also a virgin. This i didn't want to hear, I simply told her that I didn't believe her. At the end of that day I dropped her at her uncles place, gave some money for her transport fair and offered to drop her off at the park where she could board a bus back to her school. She got back to school the following day after I dropped her and didn't remember to tell me that she got back to school safely until I called, later at evening she flashed me and I called her back. After exchanging pleasantries, she told me that her phone was bad and I promised to assist her with a phone, she told me that I won't know her choice of phone that she would prefer I sent her the money so that she can get her choice of phone. I didn't object to her opinion. I started filling like I was about to be Put in her friend zone. I called up the discussion about her virginity and what my fate was, she told me bluntly that I can't have her even in long while and i said ok but I won't like the idea that I'm working somewhere and I can't get the benefit of the the relationship and I sad no problem. She called the next morning asking me about the promise I made as regards her phone, I bluntly told her that I have change my mind. She was like your reason for liking me was for sex and that was the only picture that I'm painting. I told her that I have learnt a lot from my past encounter with some ladies, I will like to ascertain my position before I start putting in my had earn money and she wasn't happy at all.

Was my approach to this matter rude?

Thats the best approach.
G

iceberylin:
Thats the best approach.
G

The best ever

U haven't found a gal. U sud even curse her for takin u thru the hassle.

Is High Time Some Ghuys, Get Themselves Brains


"No More Stvpidity, Never Again"


#TeamWiseUp



@Op You Ain't Stingy, Rather You Wise

Enegod:

Oga Boss


Whazzup

She is a virgin and I'm not. I don't do any lady in skirt. I stick to one girl and I explain my self to her but she is self centered.

JayKayMaybachz:



The best ever

Am 70% sure that punny has been screwed

I wouldn't use the word 'rude'. Your approach reeked of immaturity and insincerity.

I keep saying this, sex isn't the benefit of being in a relationship. We should all understand that.

There are way better reasons to cling to a woman.

You claimed that the lady is fun all through and you love her company, isn't that a good reason to hold on to her and forfeit the idea of having sex already?

We should be able to decipher that we really need in the opposite gender and got for it. Don't let the notion 'Failure to phuck your girlfriend means you're a failure' becloud your original intent of moving into a union.

I bet if she had collected d fone

U Don turn maga be dat

Your approach is legendary..

She want to ATMlise u.. sharp move to avert pocket vandalization..

JayKayMaybachz:


Oga Boss


Whazzup

chief... am okey
what about you?

iceberylin:

Am 70% sure that punny has been screwed

Bros you so right.. .



She thinks the Op is a learner



Naaaa.... The Niggy don wise up



Na so ah teh wan bae.... She temme sey, she no wan sex for our mata.. . Though she ain't a virgin oooo


Me tell am okay... but no funds

She vex

not bad

You approached exactly d way Barcelona approaches d goal post. "sharp and fast, tactically"

kellsV:


Was my approach to this matter rude?

Yes it was. Assist her with the money you promised, Never promise what you cannot fulfil. Sex or not

JayKayMaybachz:

Bros you so right.. .



She thinks the Op is a learner



Naaaa.... The Niggy don wise up



Na so ah teh wan bae.... She temme sey, she no wan sex for our mata.. . Though she ain't a virgin oooo


Me tell am okay... but no funds

She vex

No sex no fund....
Thats how a real G roll z

kellsV, its your money and you worked for it. Thats the right thing you did

AirborneLacer:
I wouldn't use the word 'rude'. Your approach reeked of immaturity and insincerity.

I keep saying this, sex isn't the benefit of being in a relationship. We should all understand that.

There are way better reasons to cling to a woman.

You claimed that the lady is fun all through and you love her company, isn't that a good reason to hold on to her and forfeit the idea of having sex already?

We should be able to decipher that we really need in the opposite gender and got for it. Don't let the notion 'Failure to phuck your girlfriend means you're a failure' becloud your original intent of moving into a union.

If op can't ask for sex, why is dt idiot asking for money? Since her believe in God makes her keep her virginity, she should pray to God to provide for her instead of lukin 4 a maga to dupe.

StealthIdeals:
If op can't ask for sex, why is dt idiot asking for money? Since her believe in God makes her keep her virginity, she should pray to God to provide for her instead of lukin 4 a maga to dupe.

She didn't come knocking on the door of the Op remember.

The Op made his move, a move that was propelled by a geniune motive - to be with the girl 'cause she's fun filled.

If spending to get the fun he craves is all that's required, then he should deliver a fortune to the girl.

I would only support the action of the Op if his original motive of dating the lady was to have sex.

and u want me to read all diz!! No no no!!! Delete dat post nd summarise it!! I hate reading stories!!

I like d guys wey dey comment here. Una head correct.
Seems like dis rise in dollar is giving men brains afterall.
Op, call her n tell her d same thing all over again...

gud point sir.

Why would you make a promise to assist her with a phone in the first place? You just met this girl. What's the sense in that?

If i can't feel her heart beat then she can't feel my money. Trust and believe!!

iceberylin:

No sex no fund....
Thats how a real G roll z

Naso broda


No time to fall prey to 'em leeches

Enegod:
chief... am okey
what about you?

Am okay sir


Hope ya ministry is going well

When a girl makes money and gifts the first thing in relationships, the guy inevitably sees it as a transaction and for every wise businessman, you need to know the feasibility of returns for your investment.

Take note, the guy said everything was fun before the issue of money for phone came in.

AirborneLacer:
I wouldn't use the word 'rude'. Your approach reeked of immaturity and insincerity.

I keep saying this, sex isn't the benefit of being in a relationship. We should all understand that.

There are way better reasons to cling to a woman.

You claimed that the lady is fun all through and you love her company, isn't that a good reason to hold on to her and forfeit the idea of having sex already?

We should be able to decipher that we really need in the opposite gender and got for it. Don't let the notion 'Failure to phuck your girlfriend means you're a failure' becloud your original intent of moving into a union.

ITbomb:
When a girl makes money and gifts the first thing in relationships, the guy inevitably sees it as a transaction and for every wise businessman, you need to know the feasibility of returns for your investment.

Take note, the guy said everything was fun before the issue of money for phone came in.

Did you miss this?

She disclosed to me that she in he final year and also a virgin. This i didn't want to hear, I simply told her that i didn't believe her.

The Op's reaction isn't driven by the fact that the girl is demanding, he dropped off his reaction cos he was never gonna get sex.

JayKayMaybachz:

Am okay sir


Hope ya ministry is going well

our ministry will always move forward

Enegod:
our ministry will always move forward

Amin ooo

Call that bbitch and tell her if she wants a phone she should drop her pants for you. Virgin puccy dey sweet. I doubt she is one though.