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Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Charles4075(m): 2:14pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
I won't argue that sleeping with someone married is or is not wrong .. I think most reasonable people can agree that it is wrong. However the risk involved in doing so is definitely a sliding scale. If you sleep with a woman who is in a committed relationship to another, the risk is that her relationship with him will be ruined and it will be painful. If you sleep with a woman who is married to another, the risk is that they will have to divorce, and it will be not only painful but also potentially disastrous to their lives, as they will have to disentangle themselves from each other and their property, their routines together, family gatherings/holidays, social networks will also be impacted, etc. etc. Divorce is almost never simple and has lasting emotional effects for many years, especially when such a divorce is predicated on a cheating spouse. Be aware that, as the catalyst for a married couple divorcing, your immediate, selfish, short-term sexual gratification can have devastating consequences to the emotional and physical health of a man you don't even know. But these risks pale in comparison to the permanent trauma you would be causing their children. Those kids will learn at a very impressionable age about how families can be ripped apart, how trust can be shattered, how the two most centrally important people in their lives can become vicious enemies. They will grow up in a broken home, and statistically, people who grow up with divorced parents are much more likely to get divorced themselves. After all, they've seen that modeled for them, it's how they come to understand how marriage plays out. They will learn not to trust, and their capacity for accepting love from others can be severely damaged in many unpredictable ways. Not to mention the fact that you will have been party to their having to grow up outside of a stable, loving, two-parent household, the joys of which will never be known to them. The ripple effects of this one decision can be generational to some extent. And all because someone they never knew wanted some illicit fun with their mom when she was vulnerable, and considered himself blameless. It cannot be taken back or undone. I have a certain amount of experience with this. I'm not telling you what to do, you have to make up your own mind. But you should consider the long-term and very powerful impact your need for some convenient hanky-panky could have on other people you have never, and will never, meet. Then you decide if you think it's worth it. Thread carefully boy I hope you make the adult decision. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by obillyj(f): 2:56pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Op, are you for real? You mean to tell me that deep down u don't know the answer to your question? Don't u have conscience that speaks or is it dead? What goes around comes around. Wait for nairalanders to tell u what to do. Next u will pregnant her for her husband. Kudos. I can only say sorry to d girl in question. She indeed is not fit to be called a wife. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Nobody: 3:03pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
ladyabadi:lolz.oh l luv dz comment@op she is nt worth d risk gurls re many.millions of dem out there far more better dan her. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by lockupman(m): 3:12pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
See this lady o. You believe this kind of thing doesn't happen? I've seen two difference cases rheether: 1 Like |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Nobody: 3:14pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
BluStreak:Ok, |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by DavidSilas2015: 3:28pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Thank God u said she is married,so why are u asking us, is alreay in your heart to commit d evil. I pity u, u are playing with hell fire. If u love your life, run whenever she come to u or tell off. What u sow is what u will reap. If u want to live long and enjoy old age, run away from married woman,people wifes. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by crackhouse(m): 3:45pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Akynzodeighbour:leave the stupid guy. That's how sb will be fvcking his wife to be and the girl will be telling him that she's home alone whenever he call. Na do me i do you nah. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by olanie(m): 4:05pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
This happens more than people will want to admit. It's a case of, feelings of the heart against financial consideration. Bros, decide what u wana do..... It seems you are enjoying it more than the feeling of guilt. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by oluwhabhusola(f): 4:18pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
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Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by asadike(f): 4:19pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
drlawizle:guy, cut dat crap. She can be cajoled but not forced. If she refused, no one will kill her. marriage is forever men, y marry a man u don't love and suffer emotionally while it last? 1 Like |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by oluwhabhusola(f): 4:20pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
It means she loves ur magic stick,but don't get 2 excited cos #she might turn 2 a forbidden fruit dat could later kill u 1 Like |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by asadike(f): 4:21pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dammyjohn:thk u my brother, thk u. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by asadike(f): 4:24pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
sauceny:yet they can't stake anything to make that dick their's permanently. How selfish. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by donbabade: 4:40pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
My dear. Take a bow. Living witnesses are here on Nairaland rheether: |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by anwo247: 4:42pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
This is what almost all of them do. I am not joking. This has happened to me on several occasions. Yes you are right, at a point the conscience thing sets in as a fellow guy is being deceived. That point where the conscience comes in is when you shd stop. As for love, neither did she love you nor the husband to-be. So don't be confused. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by kilokeys(m): 5:10pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kilokeys: God bless the soul that gave me my 9000th like on Nairaland moved to tears.. joy
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Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Nobody: 5:15pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
ChEkWaSIyKe:dem offer u free kpomo u no wan chop... omo u dey dull ooo |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Pweetiebabe(f): 5:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Ray360:I wonder how people reason... it's never guy's fault but the cheap slut who is engaged and still open her legs for oda guys... Who even knows the number of other guys she's..... Anyway HIV and MAGUN are real |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by femifemoo: 5:31pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kinglekan:2 weeks bleeping dats 14k |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Melahou(m): 5:43pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kinglekan: Let him forget about the girl and advice her to stick to her husband |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by viakpan(f): 5:47pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
The best thing to do is to tell her to move out of ur house now. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by johnnychuks(m): 6:00pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
both of you are melenium fool!!! idiot set of people, that's how peole of ur calebal keey creating defferent type of problem on earth, giving birth to child with out a root. fulish wankita. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by rago(m): 6:30pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kilokeys: correct dude! |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Ajuran: 6:40pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kobonaire: You sir need to shut up, and be locked in an insane asylum: What you are saying is very dangerous and cannot be allowed to be heard by the general public. The O.P. while a crazy man, has inspired many basement dwellers on here to go out and have the courage to talk to women. Many will get rejected no doubt: I expect the police to see an uptick in report rape cases. |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by macjireh: 7:10pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
ChEkWaSIyKe: BOTH OF U ARE FOOLISH TO SAY D LEAST. I PITY D LADY MOSTLY BECAUSE D PATH BOTH OF U ARE GOING IS VERY DANGEROUS. IF SHES NOT CAREFUL, SHE WILL LOSE ON EVERY SIDE. SHE BETTER CALL OFF D WEDDING OR ELSE, DOOM AWAITS HER. MY COUSIN DIVORCED HIS WIFE IN A SIMILAR SCENARIO |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by ELODOOMZY: 7:30pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kinglekan:shit like that happens...I have witness it |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by slimfancier(f): 7:44pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Oga Emeka Diaris God O! D sex u r having..... Chai! |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
asadike: Lol...you talk like an americana not africana where you dont know that a child especially a girl refusing d whims of her parents will go through rejection thats even worse than death...pray to God she's financially or mentally independent...otherwise only few women wont succumb to such pressure...dats whats up in ds society incase you dont know... |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by kobonaire(m): 8:10pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Ajuran:hah... you are one crazy mofo |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by Sonap(m): 8:56pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Guy u no try @ all.Ur stuff go soon hang inside |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by abdillahee(m): 9:47pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Just keep fucking her till end of time but remember in the bible says what goes around will surely comes around, time shall tell and yours will be tough |
Re: She Is Married But Keeps Begging Me For Sex- I'm Confused. by dhappyking(m): 12:22am On Mar 08, 2015 |
Please, scram while there is still time. Bride price = married. SHE IS MARRIED. That is why to divorce a woman in Igbo land, the bride price must be returned by the bride's family to the groom. Read the book of proverbs chapter 7 and then go back Proverbs 6 from vs 24 to the end. |
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