This long standing abnormally of men sleeping with house maids helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial home for the maid...
Who gets the blame?
Does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house?
Even allowing the maid to attending to the man's needs, while the wife plays "Madam sitting doing nothing and forgetting her wifely duties"...
Who's to blame?

D men demselves

every one takes a share of the blame
.
the men for looking at the house help twice

the madam for leaving her wifely duties to the maid

and the maid for conceding to the man's advances

We should blame the maids whose accept to sleep with their bosses...

We should blame Women whose let their husbands sleep with house maid while the have chances to avoid

We should blame Women whose can't serve their husband on bed and let the maids do so..

We should blame Men whose can't tell her wife what is missing .....

The pe.nis is to be blamed.

Men sleep with their maids is bad ke?
Isn't that what maids are for? Helping the wife in her Marital duties?

The blame is shared equally among the three parties.

Who takes the blame when madam sleeps with the driver? Mshew.. if u will blame the man. No qualms afterall hes supposed to be driving madam not ceding his responsibility even if he can afford 2 employ a driver

We need 2 stop blaming women for everything.

Do not bring temtation into my house for I may yield to it

rokiatu:
The pe.nis is to be blamed.

Oh really?...and the bu.tt in mini?

rokiatu:
The pe.nis is to be blamed.

Wise Comment

rokiatu:
The pe.nis is to be blamed.

bwahahahahahaha...

Naa..
The penis doesn't have a say,
it just obeys and rises to the task ahead..lol

Blame APC

The man that saw the maid, initiated the act and slept with her should take the most of the blame.

Women should be strong in marriage. Do not allow a maid to drive you out of your matrimonial home, because you would have failed in your duties. Play your part well, and remember that a woman plays the most important role in a happy family.

rokiatu:
The pe.nis is to be blamed.

What about the ass clapper that keeps swaying and dangling all over the house.

D1ck:
What about the ass clapper that keeps swaying and dangling all over the house.

Not to be blamed.

rokiatu:
Not to be blamed.

That's your own cognition; not mine....... Those your ass tho.

Mprex:
every one takes a share of the blame
.
the men for looking at the house help twice

the madam for leaving her wifely duties to the maid

and the maid for conceding to the man's advances

A man cheats on wife with the maid and you blame the wife? How old are you again? Why don't I kill someone, take no blame for my action and blame it on you then. SMH.

@OP, the man and the maid are both to be blamed unless it's in a scenario where the man threatens to harm the maid or send her back to poverty-stricken struggles, then I can blame the man only.

sinizia:


A man cheats on wife with the maid and you blame the wife? How old are you again? Why don't I kill someone, take no blame for my action and blame it on you then. SMH.

@OP, the man and the maid are both to be blamed unless it's in a scenario where the man threatens to harm the maid or send her back to poverty-stricken struggles, then I can blame the man only.

oga. when the woman starts leaving her husband in the care of her maid then she is asking for trouble.


we all know that you men are easily moved by what they see

Mprex:

oga. when the woman starts leaving her husband in the care of her maid then she is asking for trouble.


we all know that you men are easily moved by what they see

So if we're dating and I cheat on you, I can tell the excuse of "I was moved by the lady I cheated on"? And you'll forgive? Some women have no self-worth.

Our ist maid stayed with us for like 10 years and helped with bathing us when we're toddlers, matured into a beautiful young sexy lady. Cooked our foods sometimes, especially when my mom traveled for her business trips. Guess what? My dad never cheated with her. A faithful man, no matter how the wife leaves the maid with him will respect the sanctity of their marriage!!

Mprex:
every one takes a share of the blame
.
the men for looking at the house help twice

the madam for leaving her wifely duties to the maid

and the maid for conceding to the man's advances

Well said!

The man. The man. The man.

@ sinizia
So if we're dating and I cheat on you, I can tell the excuse of "I was moved by the lady I cheated on"? And you'll forgive? Some women have no self-worth.

Our ist maid stayed with us for like 10 years and helped with bathing us when we're toddlers, matured into a beautiful young sexy lady. Cooked our foods sometimes, especially when my mom traveled for her business trips. Guess what? My dad never cheated with her. A faithful man, no matter how the wife leaves the maid with him will respect the sanctity of their marriage.

So if your dad was cheating on your mum with d househelp, do you expect him to write it boldly on his forehead for you to know? Its always as discreet as possible and lastly, never vouch for any body cos d only constant thing in dis life is change.

DanceVille:
This long standing abnormally of men sleeping with house maids helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial home for the maid...
Who gets the blame?
Does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house?
Even allowing the maid to attending to the man's needs, while the wife plays "Madam sitting doing nothing and forgetting her wifely duties"...
Who's to blame?

Madam sitting doing nothing? Are you for real? Or you think women don't work?

Teempakguy:
Men sleep with their maids is bad ke?
Isn't that what maids are for? Helping the wife in her Marital duties?

waoooo!!! a very very strong irony.i will never forget what you just said

sinizia:


So if we're dating and I cheat on you, I can tell the excuse of "I was moved by the lady I cheated on"? And you'll forgive? Some women have no self-worth.

Our ist maid stayed with us for like 10 years and helped with bathing us when we're toddlers, matured into a beautiful young sexy lady. Cooked our foods sometimes, especially when my mom traveled for her business trips. Guess what? My dad never cheated with her. A faithful man, no matter how the wife leaves the maid with him will respect the sanctity of their marriage!!

untill they are caught,norhing happened,dont speak for your father cos these things Are done in the dark

jeffery251:

So if your dad was cheating on your mum with d househelp, do you expect him to write it boldly on his forehead for you to know? Its always as discreet as possible and lastly, never vouch for any body cos d only constant thing in dis life is change.

So that means all wives have slept with male servants, and the husbands, with all maids? So no man won't sleep with his maid? Dude, your mind is depraved. And that's not even the topic in discourse. Focus on the topic.

kuuljay:
untill they are caught,norhing happened,dont speak for your father cos these things Are done in the dark

Exactly. So stop talking trash like you caught him. Can you accuse someone without evidence?

I totally blame







Konji