Don’t be a Google doctor
Yes, the window to the world is always by
your side, but going by the internet data
each time is not useful. Certain stories and
myths can send her pulse rate up. You
need to rely on your health practitioner for
the well-being and comfort of your baby
and wife. Your wife will be really happy
when you make it a point to accompany
her to the gynecologist visits. Also, take
the doctor’s advise to learn how you can
keep her mentally and physically at ease
during her pregnancy.
Let her know she is gorgeous
Stress, mood swings and low energy
comes hand in hand with the child-bearing
phase. Simply letting her know that she
looks great during her pregnancy months
can help her ease off to an extent. As her
bump is growing bit by bit, she will wail
about her size. She will have certain
insecurities about her looks and whether
you are still attracted to her or not. So,
next time when she is sulking in front of
the mirror about her pre-pregnancy weight
and looks, you should just go close to her,
hug her softly, place a loving peck on her
cheek and whisper “you’re beautiful”.
Drive safely
We know you love her, but you tend to
extend your concern to your cars as well.
Travelling with your spouse during
pregnancy should be one smooth ride,
literally. You are a father-to-be and equally
responsible for that new life. It is required
that you should keep the car’s speed
under check. Also, ensure that your
brakes, tires and suspension are all
running smoothly. Just make it a priority to
make sure you drive safely and smoothly
when she is riding with you.
Take her calls
Since she is already at the end of her
nerves at most times, you definitely don’t
want to rub her the wrong way by ignoring
her calls. Even when you are absolutely
busy, just text her that you will call her
back… and then do call her back as soon
as you are free! She would feel at ease
when she knows you are there for her
even when you are not at home. Also, you
should be extra careful about this during
the final stages of the pregnancy. There
could be an emergency call anytime then!
Pamper her
Oil massages, relaxing hand and foot rubs,
or hair treatments are a blessing during
the period of physical and mental stress.
The pampering rituals will leave the
mother-to-be relaxed and rejuvenated.
Give her some soft foot and back
massages at home or book her a sessions
at the parlour. The benefits will be
countless and bringing relief to every part
of her stretched and aching body. This will
definitely earn you extra merit of being a
perfect husband and caring father-to-be.
Help her around the house
Take over some of her household chores
and responsibilities. Well, at the least ease
her burden of taking care of you when she
is supposed to take care of herself and her
child. Do the grocery shopping, pick up the
dishes after you eat, make occasional tea
and breakfast for her. If you already have
kids then take on the responsibility of
dropping them off to their classes, etc. Go
out with her to buy things that you need
for the new kid and plan things with her.
Surprise her
During this time, she may not feel or look
attractive all the time, but it is your job to
make her feel special at all times. Bring
home her favourite flower or a small gift,
take her out for a shopping spree or an
evening stroll as all this will definitely be
relished by an expectant mother. Just
because she is pregnant doesn’t mean you
two can’t go for dates or movies. Also,
keep a note of things that she craves to
eat or drink during this time and make
sure you get her all that.
Calm her nerves
Nightmares of looking after a baby,
morning sickness or body swelling can
become extremely daunting. You should
be aware that all this makes her mood
swing violently. The key here is to ease up
her anxieties and doubts, and give her a
happy pre-natal stage. Just listen to what
she says and try to cheer her up. Having
someone to bear with her complex mind
and health condition will be a boon for her
after all.
Pregnancy has thrown up changes and
challenges your wife has never
experienced before. Use these tips to
show her your love, support and care
at all times!

Hmmmm

well said

Gr8 words of wisdom for the men folks!


But will they take it??

DuchessLily:
Gr8 words of wisdom for the men folks!


But will they take it??

Na this one una dey like?

1miccza:


Na this one una dey like?

Yels ke!! Na who no like better thing?

The truth is bitter, but must be said

Nice. Any/every normal thinking man would do these.

DuchessLily:


Yels ke!! Na who no like better thing?

The truth is bitter, but must be said

Ok your bf fit do one quarter of that one?

Emhicee:
Nice. Any/every normal thinking man would do these.

Bros seee your teeth from there you nor go talk true now oo

1miccza:


Ok your bf fit do one quarter of that one?

Well.......... He can try

But datz d reason I asked "will they take it?"

1miccza:


Bros seee your teeth from there you nor go talk true now oo

why you look my teeth? :/ make i dey suspect you?
Btw, na true i write put. Reasonable guy suppose fit do those things as time allow am.

Emhicee:


why you look my teeth? :/ make i dey suspect you?
Btw, na true i write put. Reasonable guy suppose fit do those things as time allow am.

If i hear abi na when she get belle sef away match dey sweet seff,,, oya how many u fit do or don do now...

DuchessLily:


Well.......... He can try

But datz d reason I asked "will they take it?"

*in your voice* he can try which kain try *whispering* so you don't know that away matches are sweeter when the wife's pregnant?? wait sef you even get bf??


You don ruuuunnnn??

1miccza:


If i hear abi na when she get belle sef away match dey sweet seff,,, oya how many u fit do or don do now...

away match no go sweet. Na warped thinking be that. No be me put the belle there? Make i dey top am till she born abeg make the pikin fit resemble me wella. btw, i can do all things through christ that strengthens moi. :p

Emhicee:


away match no go sweet. Na warped thinking be that. No be me put the belle there? Make i dey top am till she born abeg make the pikin fit resemble me wella. btw, i can do all things through christ that strengthens moi. :p

Hahahahahahahahaha *falls off chair* Christ don dey strenghten those wey dey play away match too??

1miccza:


Hahahahahahahahaha *falls off chair* Christ don dey strenghten those wey dey play away match too??

lwkm. Make christ come tear you better slap for there o. But really, away match ain't cool when wifey get belle na. Iwo padi yi gan. . .

Emhicee:


lwkm. Make christ come tear you better slap for there o. But really, away match ain't cool when wifey get belle na. Iwo padi yi gan. . .

Wa o maa make e sensible gaaaann aaann kikikikikiki... Ma da mi lohun jare,but you know it's good to change your diet sometimes you know haahahahahaha...

1miccza:


Wa o maa make e sensible gaaaann aaann kikikikikiki... Ma da mi lohun jare,but you know it's good to change your diet sometimes you know haahahahahaha...

diet bawo? If you never marry you fit change diet once in a while. If you don marry, maintain that diet. E good for you na why you choose am. Except you get anoiting to chop egusi and okro together. You're on your own from there though.

Emhicee:


diet bawo? If you never marry you fit change diet once in a while. If you don marry, maintain that diet. E good for you na why you choose am. Except you get anoiting to chop egusi and okro together. You're on your own from there though.

Hahahahahahaha oya if u reach buka na only one food you dey chop?

missclasssy:
Op, nice points, just paragraph your write-up for better reading

Everyone is complaining of lack of front page worthy threads on romance section....
Okay guys, here is a front page worthy thread
I just hope the everyone pay cognizance to that, instead of giving traffic to insignificant _bullshit.

Yh i cant even b bothered to read it .. No structure

1miccza:


Hahahahahahaha oya if u reach buka na only one food you dey chop?

yes na. How many things i wan chop? Hehehe. . .
Btw, no let people think say na you and i get this thread o.

1miccza:


*in your voice* he can try which kain try *whispering* so you don't know that away matches are sweeter when the wife's pregnant?? wait sef you even get bf??


You don ruuuunnnn??

Away matches sweeter dan the wife's preggy??

Eyahh.. If u will continue wt dis ur mentality, den permit me to say ' I pity ur wife'

Whether I get bf?? Hmmmm.....If only u knew ....

Kikikikikikiii

DuchessLily:


Away matches sweeter dan the wife's preggy??

Eyahh.. If u will continue wt dis ur mentality, den permit me to say ' I pity ur wife'

Whether I get bf?? Hmmmm.....If only u knew ....

Kikikikikikiii

*whispering* oya tell me nobody go hear.. I was just catching my fun i'm sure i had both of you fooled there right??That's the beauty of the social media...

Emhicee:


yes na. How many things i wan chop? Hehehe. . .
Btw, no let people think say na you and i get this thread o.

Nooo we be three Duchesslily don join..

Emhicee:


yes na. How many things i wan chop? Hehehe. . .
Btw, no let people think say na you and i get this thread o.

Nooo we be three Duchesslily don join..

1miccza:


Nooo we be three Duchesslily don join..

toor. Greet her for me o. Infact no worry. Hi duchesslily

Emhicee:


toor. Greet her for me o. Infact no worry. Hi duchesslily

She nor dey hear you nooowww,na only if i call her she go hear.. Duchesslilly!!!! Oya come make we negotiate!!

1miccza:


She nor dey hear you nooowww,na only if i call her she go hear.. Duchesslilly!!!! Oya come make we negotiate!!

okay o. Greet her then.

Woa! Can't wait for that special time

Kudos OP.

Emhicee:


okay o. Greet her then.

Where you come dey go now?

1miccza:


Where you come dey go now?

oya i no go again. Na me be this. Wetin dey?