heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
12 yrs old don dey chop ogede

Tranngirls:

we have all have our hearts broken so what makes her so special that it cant happen to her? Well i had my first heart break by nine so i dont see want the big deal is. She is growin up to become a woman so stop lookin at her as a little girl anymore

I Agree With u she is growin up but don't let her have sex else!!!!Na u know ohhh

thats where we get it wrong, we always think they are to small, so u dnt wanna hear it, the truth is this is the best time to correct alot of wrongs that may happen in the future. you need to sit her down and tell her the ABC of relationships/heartbreaks and why its so wrong for her to get involved too early. tell her the right time,and things she needs to watch out for.

what u say to her today will go along way to help her in life, if only our mothers and fathers did the talking thing, most of us would have still been virgin till marriage, and most of the abortions, std's, heartbreaks, wld have been avoided.

lets be sincere, who can say they werent in some form of ''thing'' at age 12. even if it was playing mum and dad with the 10 year old girl next door. we need to educate the young ones early so they dnt make our mistakes. God knows i still regret sex, and i am sure most of us so. somethng a little lesson from mum/dad/big sis wld have avoided. poster pls play your role in your sisters life.

ask her if the guy had ever slept with her,if yes introduce her to condom its safer

lwise:

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
12 yrs old don dey chop ogede

LMAO. . .  E gba mi oooooh! Una nor go kill person 4 NL oooooh!

@ poster,

I totally go with what 'prittigrrr' has said.

Too bad, But to be sincere with you guys,its there is nothing like young age nowadays,at least i have myown experience at the age of (below 9).So its a normal thing in our world today.

Men i dont know wat to tell her, again as you guy have made laugh out my advice, wel please try and sit her down to talk, i mean she is too young to go into any relationship now, cos relationship is for mature minds, and she can kill her self if care is not taken cos of love, as you all know that love affects the Juvenile than the adults!!!

If I were 12 years old and my brother tried to give "sex talk" advice, I would piss on his face and run away. If my parents ask later, I would deny it like no man's business.

My point? I would be utterly embarrassed if my brother found out I had a boyfriend at that age so OP, if your sister still lives with your parents, I suggest your mum takes over the sex advice talk. Its embarrassing either way but I think its better if her/your mother took over from here.

spikedcylinder:

If I were 12 years old and my brother tried to give "sex talk" advice, I would piss on his face and run away. If my parents ask later, I would deny it like no man's business.

My point? I would be utterly embarrassed if my brother found out I had a boyfriend at that age so OP, if your sister still lives with your parents, I suggest your mum takes over the sex advice talk. Its embarrassing either way but I think its better if her/your mother took over from here.

the 12 year old in question, seems more matured than u were @ 12, she is open to that kind of talk, remember she opened up to her sister first, and the sister can do the talking better than her parents cos she seems comfortable talking with her sister. i think she mentioned how close they are. secondly she will be able to relate to her well as the age diff isnt that much, unlike parents who forget they were once young and faced these same challenges.

smooooooth:

the 12 year old in question, seems more matured than u were @ 12, she is open to that kind of talk, remember she opened up to her sister first, and the sister can do the talking better than her parents cos she seems comfortable talking with her sister. i think she mentioned how close they are. secondly she will be able to relate to her well as the age diff isnt that much, unlike parents who forget they were once young and faced these same challenges.

Is it possible for you to ignore me on nl?

spikedcylinder:

Is it possible for you to ignore me on nl?

Ehmmmmm, No. Next question?

watched STV last yr and an advert ended thus

"if 12 yr old pikin carry bele hw e wan take born am? ABEG USE CONDOM"

dont think u need any more
shock isnt a solution. face reality and tackle the issues at hand. times are changing and ur lil sister needs a new boyfriend (or rather a lover) fast and that should be u cos the next guy could be a disaster. show ger the love she needs and other guys wont have a space to fill till ure ready to let go of her

You guys are just overeacting gosh. she was obviously not in a "relationship" like someone put it. When I was in J S 2 we had valentines that we exchanged gifts with. we had crushes though we never acted out on it. I remember that my valentine who was supposed to be my boyfriend also gave another chic a valentines day gift and I threw out the stuff he gave me and cried and cried. It's not like I saw this boy outside of school. In school we exchanged notes and I had him listed as my boyfriend in my slum book but it was just puppy love. You guys are sounding like the girl just revealed that she is 8 months pregnant. Encourage your sister. Tell her that she will forget about him in a few weeks and that it is not a big deal. This is all part of growing up.

Eeewo!!!
olodumare oooo!!!

.

Uche2nna:



Ehmmmmm, No. Next question?

Lol. Are you one and the same as that "smooooth" person?

Nough said. . .the world is coming to its end

Na wao  at 12yrs she should still be playing with her barbie dolls and toys and not a mans rocket   


make u observe am well if she start to vomit in d morning u go know say kasala don burst 

Its very possible, because it has happened 2 me b4, there was dis guy i use to have feelings for. i was at this age too then (if not a bit younger self). The good thing about it is dat i never made it known to him,neither did he noticed too.
whenever i remember those days, i will just be smiling to myself, . very funny

thats where we get it wrong, we always think they are to small, so u dnt wanna hear it, the truth is this is the best time to correct alot of wrongs that may happen in the future. you need to sit her down and tell her the ABC of relationships/heartbreaks and why its so wrong for her to get involved too early. tell her the right time,and things she needs to watch out for.

what u say to her today will go along way to help her in life, if only our mothers and fathers did the talking thing, most of us would have still been virgin till marriage, and most of the abortions, std's, heartbreaks, wld have been avoided.

lets be sincere, who can say they werent in some form of ''thing''  at age 12. even if it was playing mum and dad with the 10 year old girl next door. we need to educate the young ones early so they dnt make our mistakes. God knows i still regret sex, and i am sure most of us so. somethng a little lesson from mum/dad/big sis wld have avoided. poster pls play your role in your sisters life.

I have to agree with this poster on this one. These kids are watching things far above their age, what with digital satellite tv and they are getting ideas. The other time, my nephews, 8 and 10 were watching Casino Royale, I wanted to change it to a more age appropriate channel and they brazenly told me they had watched it with their dad. What was I to do? This generation are far more exposed than we were at that age.

The best thing you can do for your sister now is to be her best friend and her brother at the same time. Listen to her. But give her constructive advice. You are in a very good position to direct her correctly.

Abeg she's too young to be worrying about any yeye boy! Tell her to focus on her studies, that man can come and go anytime, but her books will lead her to be somebody great!

@ Obelomo

you are right

Try talking to her (that if you are well composed to do such, or better still inform your mother), let her know there is time for everything, but this is the time for studies. It will be hard for her, so once in awhile check up on her and reassure her that the whole Family loves her and that God loves her most. Concerning sex education, I think that should be your Mums job or sister.

After imagining how come she has a broken r/shhp at 12,i think the next question should be if she also has a broken virginity.Her answer will bring a reflex answer from you!

12yr old in love? its no more new nw, abi y are we actin like

abeg poster, all u need do is advise her, let her realise u r a guy as well, n u know wat guys out there are after, tlk sense into her, she should face her studies first, den after guys will run after her like sugar to ant

@poster.av u forgotten dat we are in d 21st century anything can happen, summary im not suprised at all just try 2 make her undastand d results of such action at atender age *NOT DAT SHE DOSEN'T KNOW*

could this thread be real 12years old already in a relationship?

errr, i doubt the girl's still heart broken
illd suggest u let her know boys will always be there
and to focus on her books now
'tleast thats what my folks told me

We all experienced a crush at that age, so it's no big deal.

By the way, she had a fast education. Secondary school?!

Goodness. To fall in love at 12 is awfully young. . . She will grow out of it am sure. Tell her not to fall in love so young . She will regret it espcially after engaging herself in sex that young The best time for anyone to date is when you are 19. Thats my personal opinion