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Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Vuitton(m): 9:33am On Jan 29, 2009 |
Kini big deal Yeah am single but i wudnt mind a nice girl tho On vals, id prolly wanna hookup with a desperate girl and take advantage of her needs for cash or company. Alternatively, red label, jack daniels or some cognac will be most welcome. Vals is jus hype and very misinterpreted in 9ja, i could catch up on sleep that day since its a saturday. |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by nzeaji(m): 10:41am On Jan 29, 2009 |
Most single men will take a single lady out but at the end of the day will end up "firing down" you know now |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Vuitton(m): 11:06am On Jan 29, 2009 |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by whitelexi(m): 11:14am On Jan 29, 2009 |
Hopefully i'll be working on Val's day. . . However, in the past, i remember sitting at home having a drink + some meat, and watching nice movies on val's day if i was single. In the evenings i'd lie in my bed with the lights off and curtains drawn, listening to kenny G and yanni. . . Instrumental music has a unique way of opening the mind up, and it helps with my reflections on the past and what the future holds. I like to console myself with the thought that if a girl is not presently with me, then she probably doesn't deserve me |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by ladej(m): 11:46am On Jan 29, 2009 |
well i guess u can love someone if u are single, it could be a young cousin, mum, dad, friend, neighbour. it is a made up date by people years and years ago. though i dont necessarily agree with it u still have to show love to a partner when the day comes if u dont want wahala |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by otokx(m): 12:03pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
its just like any other day for now. |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by amaikama(m): 12:58pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
so, all of una na only val day una dey show love to una girlfriend, boyfriend, motherless, widows etc? shame for una? |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by kufreabasi(m): 1:08pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
it is a personal decision day between you and the one you love |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by topup: 1:44pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
I don't think I even acknowledged Valentine's day, until I started dating, as a single woman, it really isn't a big deal either, unless you wish you had someone to share it with badly, and though a lot of us are hopeless romantics, we're pretty sane too, but the media makes Valentine's day (in the UK anyway) into such a big thing, I went to the supermarket 2 weeks ago, and there were Valentines cards, teddy bears and a section was dedicated to all the memorabilia. Seeing those teddy bears and cards and chocolates, it kinda made me wish I had a reason to get some, but. . duh! you need a guy in your life to get one don't you? So you Well, you know what? I'm going back to the store, but this time, I'm gonna get some cards and chocolates for my dearest. . . mum. |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by ebonie(f): 2:05pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
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Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by cvibe: 2:09pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Topup, Are those words from a woman who is single and loving it, or so sad she can't bag a man? |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by ymme: 2:11pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
For many people double-dating,val is a day of many excusies, i will be busy at my office too, |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by topup: 2:35pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
cvibe: Lol, even if I was 'so sad' would I admit it?? Well, I used to wish I could have romance and a relationship, but then I realised that I actually cannot fulfil the romance at this stage in my life. First of all I am still studying in University, and my course is extremely competitive, I never have money to waste, so I can't be galavanting from his place to mine, it's almost a miracle that my last relationship ended before Christmas and definitely before Valentines, don't get me wrong, I'm not broke, but all the ideas I have for a successful relationship and how I would love to be in one, I actually don't have the means currently. Yeah, if the guy was in the same situation it would be fine, but I am not interested in students as much anymore. I won't lie and say I'm loving being single, because there are times when you have had enough of 'girl-time' I live with 5 other girls and we've pretty much talked about everything there is to talk, and we are super close. Then you want the boyfriend you can watch movies with, and go to dinner with etc. . I am sensible enough to accept that a relationship just doesn't fit into the equation of my life right now, but to be honest, no guys that I've been interested in have come my way, maybe if a dashing, young, smart, ambitious, guy approached me I would be saying something different, but as for now, the guys in my university are pretty average, and 'just wanna have fun' - types. That's okay with me, I'm gonna have my fun too - And that's my brief answer ! |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by bluaces: 3:20pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Funny how the ideology of Val's day not making sense draws emotions from those who call it just another day. Anyways,it's just another day but not just another day, its another day to escape the mob crowd mentality and think for me, But certainly been neo-colonial mentality or not, its kinda kool for folks who forget abt showing love daily to discharge from their love tanks a little, but this val, would be taking an exam, |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by danedrol: 5:06pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by sinaayo(f): 5:12pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Lovelace: Vuitton: Vuitton: |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by springss: 6:09pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
topup: It appear Valentine's day expectation is a case of the 'Abilene Paradox', in which a group of people collectively decide on a course of action that is counter to the preferences of any of the individuals in the group. Guys don't give much of a hoot and ladies like don't really care that much, but we believe the other party expects us to do something, which we do and then expect something back even though we really don't care. Doesn't really make sense, So why don't folks tell their partners that Valentine's day does not hold a special significance and end the pressure? |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by cvibe: 9:39pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Topup You need to go out to places of interest you hope to bag your kinda man. Just out of interest, which part of the UK are you in? |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Busybody2(f): 9:57pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
C2H5OH: Answer H202 na, you don't wanna leave a gentleman like him hanging Cvibe back off |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by cvibe: 10:04pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Busy, r u campaigning for h2o2? |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by DaPhoenix(f): 10:06pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
I don't think that day matters much to them. |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Busybody2(f): 10:13pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
cvibe: Yeah He is a very shy, nice, gentle, caring and patient guy with such a good heart who cannot say boo to an ant, he deserves a good woman like top-up who would boost his confidence so that he can speak up more for himself |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by sleekdoc: 10:53pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
@ topup I feel u girl, seems we share the same ideas, hola n lets give it a twirl, who knows we may jus hit it off, |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by cvibe: 10:56pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Busy No woman likes a wussy guy. |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Busybody2(f): 12:16am On Jan 30, 2009 |
cvibe: Glad I am not the only one who can see that H202 is a wussy guy |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by agaba123(m): 12:19am On Jan 30, 2009 |
busy_body where have u been? |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Busybody2(f): 12:30am On Jan 30, 2009 |
hey boo, i have missed you die, i thought you dumped me for danke glad to have you back |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Busybody2(f): 12:31am On Jan 30, 2009 |
Where were you, i even chased you into the auto section and saw where you called another woman babe I don vex plus you |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by agaba123(m): 12:33am On Jan 30, 2009 |
baby no way. My location has never chan ;Dged. I enjoy it there. you are the best may be the person I called babe is under 10. You are baby not babe. |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by agaba123(m): 12:36am On Jan 30, 2009 |
Baby please no vex you hear |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Busybody2(f): 12:42am On Jan 30, 2009 |
agaba123: I don vex I don turn to stalker because of you, i wrote you poems, love letters, etc and you did not even acknowledge it i even followed you into kaypinchi's thread in the auto section today I want a divorce and thats not because i have always wanted 75% of everything you own |
Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by Nobody: 12:45am On Jan 30, 2009 |
Iyalode, na wa for u ooooooooooooooooo @post LOL, men don't care much for valentines jare. And valentines is mostly for the ladies When ppl think valentines, they automatically think love. It's not always the case, abeg, friends give each other gifts, go out together, party, and go shopping. What I love about "here" is that valentines is not always about buy me buy you stuff. It's about being together Y'all should see the valentine parties they throw and valentine grams they give out. Can't wait for this years Def staying on campus with friends this time. |
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