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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by K9blunt(f): 11:48am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
As Tiger wood donated half of his wealth to charity ?
after he realized he should have done that before cheating on his wife. talk about medicine after death.
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 14, 2015
Justfollowit:

Sorry to disappoint you, it is not a Nigerian thing. Even in the western world, it is a fact that most is not all rich men do cheat

Yes i know men cheat .. Its in their nature no self control

But dont justify it .... Not all especially not in europe .. America yh ..
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 14, 2015
K9blunt:
after he realized he should have done that before cheating on his wife. talk about medicine after death.

Lol
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:51am On Apr 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Hehe! Calm down biko.

At first I thought the OP was trying to state why rich men cheat, doesn't necessarily mean he's justifying it. Which I made some sense out of it. You know, one can give reasons why kidnapping or boko haram keeps recruiting more almajiris for example, doesn't mean they are sympathetic to these set of idiots struggle. But I lost touch and was surprised at his response to Vicky.
lol thats what got metoo lol

Mayb i see things differently
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:53am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Strictly for young,rich, Married guys....
I am not trying to encourage cheating but lets try to make some senses here,there is nothing much to do with MONEY if you are not cheating your wife AND life is boring,under normal circumstances,a sane hard working guy will surely cheat rather than having many baby mama or having many women under the same roof like its done in the north
What am trying to say is there is nothing bad in having a SIDE CHICK as long as you are very hard working,love your wife,and you make it known to the side chick that you are just in for the fun of it
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Oahray: 11:53am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Not in a SANE world!!,i'm not talking about fiction,give me a country that tolerate Polyandry
it's still practiced in some parts of India till date.

Do you know that polygamy is illegal in the US and most parts of Europe? It's even punishable with jail time in some parts. The nearly-sane world is moving past that too.

Spend some time educating yourself bro. Having two heads doesn't make you automatically better than every woman out there, especially when you cannot justify the existence of the one your neck is burdened with.
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:54am On Apr 14, 2015
MORE REASONS WHY MEN SHOULD CHEAT 1. It’s in your nature as a man:

A healthy male produces billions and billion of sperm each time he ejaculates. He recovers within a few minutes to an hour and is again ready to produce billions of sperm. Women produce one or two eggs at a time and are only able to get pregnant mostly through middle age. Most men can produce healthy sperm till the day their heart stops beating. No biological clock for males. Biology naturally dictates that he impregnate as many healthy females as possible.

Thousands of years ago, man spread his seed freely, without the spectre of “cheating” hovering over him. Its what nature intended.
2. Your game will improve:

In general, whenever you consistently approach women with the intent of having sex with them and push your comfort zone, your skills with women will improve.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:54am On Apr 14, 2015
Now tell me how can u love ur wife and have side chic


It doesn't make SEnse

My bp don they rise ,, fulaboy abeg some kunu pls smiley
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:56am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
MORE REASONS WHY MEN SHOULD CHEAT 1. It’s in your nature as a man:

A healthy male produces billions and billion of sperm each time he ejaculates. He recovers within a few minutes to an hour and is again ready to produce billions of sperm. Women produce one or two eggs at a time and are only able to get pregnant mostly through middle age. Most men can produce healthy sperm till the day their heart stops beating. No biological clock for males. Biology naturally dictates that he impregnate as many healthy females as possible.

Thousands of years ago, man spread his seed freely, without the spectre of “cheating” hovering over him. Its what nature intended.

So because u cn produce sperm it mean u can have side chic

Oga r u ok .. Chai
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:56am On Apr 14, 2015
3. Your girlfriend already “cheated” on you:

Women have certain needs to be filled in relationships. They require a man who will be a protector, provider and companion. In the modern world, this mostly means financial security. Case in point, most women would have a problem dating a janitor or a guy who works at a fast food restaurant. Most men don’t have this problem, if she’s attractive.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by ronald4lif(m): 11:57am On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:

lol thats what got metoo lol

Mayb i see things differently

Most rich men lives very boring lives. They most often than not flex with women to counterbalance their boredom. We also have to realize that in most cases women are the ones who gives themselves so cheap to these guys. They are vulnerable to cheat so far as they are sexually fit. It takes a lot of courage to resist these temptation from daughters of Jezebel. Cheating on a partner can never be justified but we have to look at why these things happen and what can be done to tame it.
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:57am On Apr 14, 2015
4) You can get away with it:

Men cheat because we can get away with it. There’s an assumption out there that a woman always knows when you are “straying”. Its my suspicion that this is propagated by women, men who have been “caught” and white knights. There are numerous married men whose tales of infidelity and numerous children outside of his relationship came to light only when they were six feet under.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:57am On Apr 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Most rich men lives very boring lives. They most often than not flex with women to counterbalance their boredom. We also have to realize that in most cases women are the ones who gives themselves so cheap to these guys. They are vulnerable to cheat so far as they are sexually fit. It takes a lot of courage to resist these temptation from daughters of Jezebel. Cheating on a partner can never be justified but we have to look why these things happen and what can be done to tame it.

Yh but the reasons his giving doesnt make sense ..
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:58am On Apr 14, 2015
5. It could improve your relationship:

Blasphemy! Cheating could improve your relationship? Yes it could, and the truth is that it often does. Right now there are thousands of happy couples walking around enjoying the fruits of a fulfilling long term relationship thanks to that one dalliance on a business trip six months ago. Whether guilt drove you to take your relationship more seriously, or you destroyed your insecurity by proving that you still have what it takes to attract and have sex with another woman, it fixed the problem. That is the bottomline.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:00pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


Yes i know men cheat .. Its in their nature no self control

But dont justify it .... Not all especially not in europe .. America yh ..

You are joking, right? shocked. Well, this is not an African thing. It is a world wide issue that cut across race and religion embarassed. Most men hold this view and the ones that deny it are hypocrites (at least a very good percentage of them?). It is left to you and our raise our male children differently.


I am in no way justifying it, personally, if not for religious reasons I will never get married.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 12:00pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


Yh but the reasons his giving doesnt make sense ..
Its almost impossible not to cheat if you are a young guy and rich,that is the fact

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bbeckky: 12:00pm On Apr 14, 2015
It really annoys me when guys see nothing wrong in cheating on dir wives/gfs nd whn d latter do same the former sing a new song. Y r men dis unfair?
A friend to one of my best friends discovered she had AIDS when she went to register for Ante-natal, dey called d hubby 4 same test and he tested positive also. D lady in question is a full house wife, nd got married to her hubby a virgin, now d hubby is dead few days b4 she gave birth, What are her chances of remarrying wt dat status? Well unless if d guy doesn't her frm adams nd she too wudnt tell d guy abt it. She is now alone in her world going around wit d stigma. Thank God dey were able 2 save d baby
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by ronald4lif(m): 12:02pm On Apr 14, 2015
Justfollowit:


You are joking, right? shocked. Well, this is not an African thing. It is a world wide issue that cut across race and religion embarassed. Most men hold this view and the ones that deny it are hypocrites (at least a very good percentage of them?). It is left to you and our raise our male children differently.


I am in no way justifying it, personally, if not for religious reasons I will never get married.

True to that.
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:02pm On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Its almost impossible not to cheat if you are a young guy and rich,that is the fact

Ok .. I don tire lol wtever
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by danbrowndmf(m): 12:02pm On Apr 14, 2015
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author=Lala247 post=32708034]

Wich ladies wt thise small smal girl

I make my own money no guy cant intice with any change .. Like rlly so
now its the ladies fault


Oga abeg take a seat ..
Ur not ready for relationship just dey play dey go till u get disease go
and ask ur friends in SA nah so HIV they spread [/quote] lmao

i bet you na one of dis ur NL toaster go marry you.cheesy
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:03pm On Apr 14, 2015
danbrowndmf:
lmao

i bet you na one of dis ur NL toaster go marry you.cheesy

See curse lol i dont want
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 12:04pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


See curse lol i dont want
If i asked you out,you wont think it twice
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:05pm On Apr 14, 2015
Justfollowit:


You are joking, right? shocked. Well, this is not an African thing. It is a world wide issue that cut across race and religion embarassed. Most men hold this view and the ones that deny it are hypocrites (at least a very good percentage of them?). It is left to you and our raise our male children differently.


I am in no way justifying it, personally, if not for religious reasons I will never get married.
Lol im not saying its african its world wide guys been cheating from when they chop apple . Just saying its only naija man that would b justifying it , nah dat one they go like .
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:07pm On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
If i asked you out,you wont think it twice

Pls dont make me laugh.. I deal with men dat have self control regardless the situation .. U my friend dont fall into dat group i eould rather have flat ass than go with u .
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:07pm On Apr 14, 2015
Anyway my work here is done
grin

Have nice day
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 12:08pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


Pls dont make me laugh.. I deal with men dat have self control regardless the situation .. U my friend dont fall into dat group i eould rather have flat ass than go with u .
Lady wey get mouth like you are the easiest to catch,i would just pay 2million into your bank account and dissappear,i bet you wont be able to sleep until you find me

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:10pm On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Lady wey get mouth like you are the easiest to catch,i would just pay 2million into your bank account and dissappear,i bet you wont be able to sleep until you find me

Wt £8000 lol u know how much my morgage is abeg gerra out when u start makingpound sterling quote me
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by delishpot: 12:11pm On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
MONOGAMY IS FAILING MEN AND WHY ITS GOOD TO CHEAT
Not only is it failing them, but it's a "socially compelled sexual incarceration" that can lead to a life of anger and contempt, or so says Eric Anderson, an American sociologist at England's University of Winchester and author of the provocative new book, The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and the Reality of Cheating (Oxford University Press, $49.99).

Cheating, however, serves men pretty well. An undiscovered affair allows them to keep their relationship and emotional intimacy, and even if they're busted it's a lot easier than admitting that they wanted to screw someone else in the first place, he writes.
MONOGAMY IS FAILING MEN AND WHY ITS GOOD TO CHEAT
In his study of 120 undergraduate men, 78 percent of those who had a partner cheated, "even though they said that they loved and intended to stay with their partner." Contrary to what we may think, most men aren't cheating because they don't love their partner, he says; they cheat because they just want to have sex with others. And society shouldn't pooh-pooh that.

Monogamy's stronghold on our beliefs -- what he calls monogamism -- brings ostracism and judgment to anyone who questions or strays from its boundaries. That doesn't make sense to Anderson, who wonders why we stigmatize someone who has a fling more than couples who divorce -- throwing away a marriage rich in history and love, upsetting their kids' lives -- over something like sex.

Monogamy isn't the only "proper" way to be in a relationship, and he says it's time that society finds "multiple forms of acceptable sexual relationship types -- including sexually open relationships -- that coexist without hierarchy or hegemony." It's especially important for today's young men, for whom monogamous sex seems more boring than in generations past because of easy premarital sex and pornography.


My dear, its not monogamy failing men. I have seen alhajis with 4 wives still cheating. I believe men are making this theory up to give a reason to cheat on their wives. Even if you are allowed to marry 20 wives, you will still want to cheat.
Its the sexualisation of society that is failing humanity. Now nudity has given people oportunity to see lots of nakid bodies and to lust after them. To compare and contrast with their wives and the women in the street.
Do you think women dont also like to bang new strong men? If they can bottle up tge urge and be satisfied with the man they married, why then cant men do same? Answer is, men are naturaly selfish and will give any reason to do what they want to do.
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by danbrowndmf(m): 12:11pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


See curse lol i dont want
even Djeezy
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 12:12pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


Wt £8000 lol u know how much my morgage is abeg gerra out when u start makingpound sterling quote me
I don make it don return home to invest,follow me i will send you my name to ask about me in southend on the sea and i bet you cant save 8000pounds in 6 months
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:

Lol im not saying its african its world wide guys been cheating from when they chop apple . Just saying its only naija man that would b justifying it , nah dat one they go like .

I still disagree

Actually, the first time I heard that justification it was from a source made available by a white man sad. Unlike black men, white men are hypocrites, they have the same mentality but cleverer with the how they hide their misogynistic views.

Forums like reddit for example, will open your eyes to that reality

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
I don make it don return home to invest,follow me i will send you my name to ask about me in southend on the sea and i bet you cant save 8000pounds in 6 months

Lol u must not know my family .. Neway well wtever if u like own nigeria dat wan nah ur biz .. U still cant afford me

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