This question is one of those questions Guys take a lot of time thinking about if asked
But here is my opinion

1. They're less likely to rush into things
When I say “ain’t nobody got time for that”, I could not mean it more literally: ain’t no single parent got time for rushing into shit.

2. Their purses are like survival kits
There is nothing I don’t have in my bag. No, don’t ever look in there – just tell me what you need. I’ll make it happen.

3. They’re dynamite in bed
I think we can all agree, no matter what kind of weird bedroom stuff does it for you, the most universally sexy quality in a person is confidence and openness. And single moms have both in a more pronounced way than just about any other group of women. There is a very specific kind of body confidence that can only be earned by seeing your body go through some seemingly impossible challenges and come out on the other side just as strong and beautiful and sexy as before

4. They know what makes a relationship work
There are a million different paths by which someone can end up a single parent. But for most of them, it involves experiences that taught them a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work, or can render it completely broken. Just having a child at all teaches you, holy Bleep,
everything about human connections and interactions and how to be healthy, generous but also self-preserving, committed and flexible for the sake of making a relationship last in a long-term way with another person.

Lastly

They understand selflessness
I mean, that doesn’t mean every single parent you date is going to be selfless with
you, but chances are, they are at least capable of it, and very few people genuinely are.

share your opinion.

A big NOOOOOO

Sure.

No, i can't stand another Mans' child running around my house.

There's nothing wrong in marrying a single mother. Some of you forming I can't marry a single mother may end up marrying fuckaholic who sleeps with every tom, dick and Harry.

Why not

Kinghay:
No, i can't stand another Mans' child running around my house.

Don't spite these people indirectly nah

sexthebestmeal:
Why is she a single mother in the first place? No be her mates dey without child/children before marriage?Whatever the reason she gives is not justifiable abeg. There is condom, there is morning after pills, there is abstinence sef. Don't intend to discriminate no one but food wey you no ready to eat, abeg no taste am.

And what about if she was raped and going for an abortion could endanger her life?

Nothing bad in marrying a single mother provided you have a good background checks . Secondly it can't be more than a child ,thirdly the child must not be more than 5 years. If you don't factor this condition into account ,it may result into unmanageable problem.
Single ladies are going from bad to worse everyday, lots of them are coded prostitutes, in addition their feritlity cannot be guarantee except you make her pregnant before marriage .
I will not recommend it for a young man because it takes maturity to maintain a single mother who is more experience and tested in all intrigue pertaining to relationship and marriage . If you are have a child already it may the best option so that one useless girl will not come into your life and destroy your kids ,don't ever trust any lady on account of Christianity on this.
The good side is that divorce or separation is rarely found in the dictionary of this set of women ,they will manage to go through it no matter the situation, and if of course ,she kicked herself out ,you are back with your kids and keep enjoying life as a single man with no hassles .

god forbid

https://www.nairaland.com/1223611/why-it-dat-guys-dont
Someone created this topic before.

I can marry a single dad with a girl child, if its a boy forget it.

jaksmillioniar:
god forbid

Are they not human beings like you?

Rorachy:
Are they not human beings like you?

so u tink I shd train a barsterd let her marry who giv her belle

jaksmillioniar:
so u tink I shd train a barsterd let her marry who giv her belle

Bastasrd or not, children are gifts from God, if you have a child outside marriage, won't a woman marry you?
In the case of women, you can't marry her. Is it not biased?

jaksmillioniar:
god forbid

See who's talking

Rorachy:
Bastasrd or not, children are gifts from God, if you have a child outside marriage, won't a woman marry you?
In the case of women, you can't marry her. Is it not biased?

am a man de woman wont train d baby. but me will now train anoda man baby KO possible

Never for me

Oyindidi:
See who's talking

wat dat

jaksmillioniar:
wat dat

You are that

Divay22:

And what about if she was raped and going for an abortion could endanger her life?

Whatever happened to morning after pill if she was raped? Its called emergency pills for such scenarios abi na everyday dem wan rape her?

why not？ Genevieve is a single mom and am going to marry her.

sexthebestmeal:

Whatever happened to morning after pill if she was raped? Its called emergency pills for such scenarios abi na everyday dem wan rape her?

And she's naive about pills....
Pls let's stop judging them, they are just victims of circumstances,it could happen to anybody...
They don't deserve to be ruled out but embrace and given a chance to be like others.

Davidgrey:
I personally have no issues with single mothers but.....I can't marry them

Not being vain, But there is absolutely no "Sane" way marrying a single mother will be acceptable to a sensible person

Just to be clear my argument is centered around "Unmarried single mothers" Not "Widows"

The mere fact that she is a "single mother" is indicative of how "Careless and Irresponsible" she is

Granted there are so many variables(How, Why, When) to be considered, The base point is "she was young and had unprotected sex," Then for whatever reasons(Religious, Personal Ignorance, Financial limitations) decided to keep the said pregnancy that in itself is "ignorance" such a person shouldn't be taken seriously

The fact that you justify such "Social degradation" for Sexual and Personal-gain shows why you are mentally inclined to find such a person appealing. #Chauvinistic social clown

Lol, baba ti close thread.

Can't

Divay22:

And what about if she was raped and going for an abortion could endanger her life?

phuck that sheet.

the answer is still no

Oyindidi:
There's nothing wrong in marrying a single mother. Some of you forming I can't marry a single mother may end up marrying fuckaholic who sleeps with every tom, dick and Harry.

Still better than single mother

Divay22:

And what about if she was raped and going for an abortion could endanger her life?

Funny rape? And she decided to keep the baby? So tell me weting she go the the baby infuture? I dont buy this lies from ladies rape ko ape ni...

that baby is a constant reminder that the other guy is around the corner. The father to the baby will always call the mother to come so they can discuss about the child's future and in the process give him some doggy.

secondly the woman is not in love with you, she's in love with her baby, all the sacrifices she's making is fr her baby NOT your baby. she's only hooking up with you so she can give her BABY a better life NOT your baby.

one day that child will grow up and will think it was your fault that his or her father is not with the mother and will be so stubborn that you won't be able to control him or her, but you won't know where the anger comes from... and the loser Dad will be brainwashing the child in one corner against you the same way the mum will be brainwashing the child that the father was a bad person.

don't take this risk, the first child that should come out of your wife's womb should be yours not anyone else's.

favourmic:



Still better than single mother

The difference is, one destroyed her foetus and the other kept hers. I see nothing wrong in marrying a single mother