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|My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by JohnPortar: 11:58am On Apr 26, 2015|
Hello NL's, I met this girl about 5yrs ago and we soon started dating, I have been introduced to her parents and she to mine. Though I have a feeling the girl's father is against our union.
Few weeks ago, we came to my apartment around 9pm, she said 'she was hot and needed to be loved'. To cut the long story short, we made out that night without protection ( she insisted, claiming if I love her, I should trust her enough). She called me few days ago that she missed her period and test confirmed that's she's pregnant.
I have a job that pays well, she's almost through with her youth service. We can get married next Saturday if she wants it but the problem is that she doesn't want to keep the baby claiming she's not ready to have a child and wants to face her career.
I don't know what to do/how to convince her to keep the baby. She's scheduled for the abortion tomorrow morning and I won't be able to forgive her if she goes ahead with it.
Guys, I need quick response abeg, how can I let her keep the baby? I called her mum to report her but as it turned out, the mum is in support of her daughter's decision.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by MizTyna(f): 12:00pm On Apr 26, 2015|
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by MizTyna(f): 12:01pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Talk to her,again and again and again. If she still insists,then you got no choice
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by delishpot: 12:02pm On Apr 26, 2015|
I belive she is testing you. Or It may not be yours so she is trying to get rid of evidence.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Princecalm(m): 12:02pm On Apr 26, 2015|
What you sow, you shall surely reap.
Aborting the baby is a wrong descision by your fiancee especially when you that is responsible for it is ready to provide and take care of the baby.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by JohnPortar: 12:05pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Princecalm:what do u mean?
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by sinaj(f): 12:05pm On Apr 26, 2015|
d gurl iz crazy!
she shud b happy dat u wnt to claim responsibility
u just av to persuade her in anyway u can nt to abort d babe nd she will b grateful to you in 5yrs time.
perhaps she doesnt nt luv u nd wudnt wnt to settle down wid u
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by FLAWLES(f): 12:06pm On Apr 26, 2015|
diz is serious
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by prevail23(m): 12:24pm On Apr 26, 2015|
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by MissSlimbody(f): 12:29pm On Apr 26, 2015|
If she wasn't ready to take responsibility fot for action, why insist on se.x without protection
This matter tie wrapper o
Please, talk to her again.
And if she insist she want to abort the baby, let her be.
Karma knows how to serve the right dish
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by bustageek: 12:37pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Allow it, it may be another disaster averted
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by godsamist: 12:50pm On Apr 26, 2015|
This kind generation don tire me,read their responses,somebody in relationship for a solid 5yrs?
Must relationship or courtship takes this long without you taking a bold step as a respossible man?
Most of you makes heaven weep!
May God really rescue this generation!
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by sigmundfreud(m): 1:01pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Carrot..promise her you won't stop her career, that you will stay home with the baby if there's the need to for her to fulfill her carrier. That you are coming with your parents tomorrow to inform her father and accept full responsibility. Promise her heaven and the world.
Stick... Tell her you have informed the police ( abortion is still illegal) and have discussed with your lawyer. Tell her you have someone trailing her and if she should try it, she will be arrested immediately along with the doctor! That you will tell her pastor/imam/babalawo or whatever else she believes in. Promise her hell and damnation...
NB..sharp girl will just tell you, you are not the father!
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Missmossy(f): 1:44pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Something seems sinister here, its obvious she is definitely hiding something.
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|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Joeself1(m): 2:12pm On Apr 26, 2015|
just leave her alone
let her go on with the abortion ... . I know she would later regret doing that when she could no longer conceive again...
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Hmmm. It's a pretty tight situation you are in. Convince her that she will be equal to a murderer if she aborts that child.
Perhaps her parent are the ones pressurizing her to get rid of the child hence her mothers concurrence to her decision
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Nobody: 3:31pm On Apr 26, 2015|
I just hope the baby in question is urs.She has not taking in, in the past 5yrs (though u did not mention), u made out one night she wanted it "unprotected" and bingo; she is pregnant!
Wow, wat a story!
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Excellent7(m): 3:38pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Are you a learner?
I bet you that if the babe is truly pregnant, you are most probably not the father!!!
Shine your eyes
Something strong is cooking, I sense a wicked cover-up.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by pretydiva(f): 3:44pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Five years tym wen she eventually gets married and start looking 4 children,she wil then start blaming all d innocent witches in her village. Whereas she has forgotten wat she used her hands 2 cause upon her self
@ op wil advice u talk 2 her one on one, infact threaten her dat if she goes ahead u wil cal off d relationship. Buh if she stil insists n goes ahead wif it ,wil suggest u leave her n search else where 4 ur tru luv
My 2 kobo
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by faith551(m): 4:01pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Yhu need to talk it through with her,she said she wants to face her carrier and she is about to go for her service, married ladies with babies still go to school, so why would raising a baby for you (with 1 year intense maternal care may.) be a problem for her.
Or she might still be facing her carrier till she is 35 tho
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Guy how on earth are you sure the baby is yours? any DNA test to back you up? If No..I think you have been scammed and most importantly Jegalized by your oruebebe Girlfriend
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by 2dice(m): 5:35pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Hmnn that baby might not be yours tho
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by ednut1(m): 6:01pm On Apr 26, 2015|
i smell lies
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by cahnellven: 6:56pm On Apr 26, 2015|
That girl ain't serious
A girl that truly loves you won't contemplate aborting your baby after you've risen to the occasion, ready to take responsibility and even get married ,just because of a silly career that hasn't even taken off yet.
OP, try to convince her the more ,if possible ,let her know the social ,moral,ethical ,religious and health implications of ABORTION !
If she insists on getting rid of the pregnancy, I'll advise you dump her sorry ass
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by tpiadotcom: 6:57pm On Apr 26, 2015|
So. . . . . . . . . .
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Sparkles003(f): 7:12pm On Apr 26, 2015|
JohnPortar:Tell her if she aborts your child that means the end of your relationship with her cos five years is a long time to know if you want to start a family with a guy and if after the condition she still aborts it goes to show ur wants out of the relationship differs.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Feraz(m): 7:20pm On Apr 26, 2015|
Nwanne, check that child.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by JohnPortar: 12:18am On Apr 27, 2015|
Sparkles003:I am definitely ending the relationship if she aborts the child. I feel she's been pressurised though, because the parents (esp. the dad) don't like me. She's an Hausa Muslim while I am a Christian from Kogi state.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Jaypea98: 1:06am On Apr 27, 2015|
MizTyna:Its a done deal she already scheduled an appointment for today.
That's by the way though i hopeo ours is still intact. pls don't disappoint me
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by MrsChima(f): 1:10am On Apr 27, 2015|
Why would you have unprotected sex with someone that is not your wife and then come on this thread crying about the girl aborting your deposits
It doesn't matter of the father is against the union because you have bigger fish to fry!
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Lucasbalo(m): 1:21am On Apr 27, 2015|
The bottom line is that she is the one who is going to make the decision of keeping the pregnancy or not. Your only recourse is to break up with her. Don't sweat about it. You will be surprised how many abortions are being performed daily. My office in downtown Chicago is just 2 buildings from a planned parenthood abortion clinic and the place is just like a typical African market with ladies lining up for abortion all week long. All you can do is talk to her and leave the rest alone. No reason to get your BP up over something that is beyond your control.
|Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Abort My Baby by Jamean(f): 7:24am On Apr 27, 2015|
Eleyi gidi gan
Personally I do not support that people get married just because a child is involved.
We had dated for 5yrs..you didn't hasten marriage, but immediately a child is involved, you want us to get married. So are you marrying me because I am pregnant. Let's give it a year or 2 after baby time to be sure you reallu want to marry me.
Thereafter some men will start ranting "I saved you from shame, the bla the bla". Some women don't want that drama.
This doesn't mean I support her abortion decision either. But OP if she insists, let her have her way.
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