starlingslimnet:
Because most of the ladies think anticlockwise in relationship..... and with the kind of retar*ded mentality they got it makes it more meaningless but it will be more fun if one have someone with good mentality like the white.

Rapmoney:
That means all those things she has been doing for you is a compensation for flagrantly cheating on you?

Rapmoney:
Bro, there's no need to vent your anger on Nigerian girls. We are looking at it from different angles! You see, most guys have come to accept these stereotyped beliefs because they are too desparate to have sex or have someone to call their 'girlfriend'. I see it as lack of wisdom and emotional weakness.

Rapmoney:
Thanks bro. I know you would always come up with something sensible! . Some ladies will tell you that they can't date a guy that doesn't drive a car but ask her where she parked hers! Is it an exclusive right for guys to own cars? Can't you, as a woman, work hard and buy a car?

ronald4lif:


That's the thing. You spent years in uni. A man spent equally same years. But then you expect a man who went through same struggles you went through (or should have gone through) to have fleet of cars, estates etc before considering him. Are you handicapped? Go out and acquire those things that you expect a man who want to date you have. Success is not limited to the male gender.

TheSonOfMark:

I've never had a first date in any of aforementioned conventional places - it's too predictable.

I once took a lady to the E-library here in Uyo. I also prepared my native meal of ekpàng with a lady, grocery shopping and even house hunting.

DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY TIMES SHE'S BEEN TAKEN TO EATERIES? DO SOMETHING NEW AND ADVENTUROUS!
The visits to conventional places like eateries , cinemas and parks should come later and unpredictably too. I TOOK MY MISSY OUT YESTERDAY AND GUESS WHAT WE WERE DOING? - WE WERE PLAYING VIDEO RACING GAMES! I let her beat me twice though.

You can choose to have a relationship which isn't limited by society's stereotype.

TheSonOfMark:

I've never had a first date in any of aforementioned conventional places - it's too predictable.

I once took a lady to the E-library here in Uyo. I also prepared my native meal of ekpàng with a lady, grocery shopping and even house hunting.

DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY TIMES SHE'S BEEN TAKEN TO EATERIES? DO SOMETHING NEW AND ADVENTUROUS!
The visits to conventional places like eateries , cinemas and parks should come later and unpredictably too. I TOOK MY MISSY OUT YESTERDAY AND GUESS WHAT WE WERE DOING? - WE WERE PLAYING VIDEO RACING GAMES! I let her beat me twice though.

You can choose to have a relationship which isn't limited by society's stereotype.

Interesting experience. Learnt a thing from this.

Although I think she must be one of the exceptions who really see life differently from most of the category of girls the OP is talking about. These set of girls will still deploy other schemes to collecting money from you regardless if you don't take her to eateries or not. They have hairdos, airtime, welfare, and even tfare the op highlighted to come up with.

Hehe! I miss ekpang. Was one of my favourite while growing up in Cameroun.

ronald4lif:


Interesting experience. Learnt a thing from this.

Although I think she must be one of the exceptions who really see life differently from most of the category of girls the OP is talking about. These set of girls will still deploy other schemes to collecting money from you regardless if you don't take her to eateries or not. They have hairdos, airtime, welfare, and even tf the op highlighted to come up with.

Hehe! I miss ekpang. Was one of my favourite while growing up in Cameroun.

Nubian113:
Poverty thinking

Rapmoney:
You are very unenlightened!!! I was expecting this from dull people like you!

ronald4lif:


Interesting experience. Learnt a thing from this.

Although I think she must be one of the exceptions who really see life differently from most of the category of girls the OP is talking about. These set of girls will still deploy other schemes to collecting money from you regardless if you don't take her to eateries or not. They have hairdos, airtime, welfare, and even tf the op highlighted to come up with.

Hehe! I miss ekpang. Was one of my favourite while growing up in Cameroun.

I am sapiosexual- I'm attracted only to those rare breed of ladies who do not fall within the aforelisted stereotypes and are intelligent too.
We've been dating for over a year and she never demands things except my fidelity. ofcourse. 3 months ago, she took me out to the cinema on my birthday and I had to beg her not to pay becavse the ticket sellers were all females - it would have been embarassing .
SHE'S FROM A MIDDLECLASS HOME AND A STUDENT. SHE TEACHES ENGLISH LANGUAGE TUTORIALS DURING WEEKENDS JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE SEEN AS PRODUCTIVE.

Now Ronald, tell me why any sane man wouldn't respect and cherish her? NIGERIAN GIRLS SHOULD WAKE UP!

TheSonOfMark:



I am sapiosexual- I'm attracted only to those rare breed of ladies who do not fall within the aforelisted stereotypes and are intelligent too.
We've been dating for over a year and she never demands things except my fidelity. ofcourse. 3 months ago, she took me out to the cinema on my birthday and I had to beg her not to pay becavse the ticket sellers were all females - it would have been embarassing .
SHE'S FROM A MIDDLECLASS HOME AND A STUDENT. SHE TEACHES ENGLISH LANGUAGE TUTORIALS DURING WEEKENDS JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE SEEN AS PRODUCTIVE.

Now Ronald, tell me why any sane man wouldn't respect and cherish her? NIGERIAN GIRLS SHOULD WAKE UP!

alentyno:
the shallow minded guys are the problem but most of these girls won't just pity and let them know the truth. They prefer playing along and eating them dry only to dump them

Young03:
Snx den i decided nt to date any gal again, rather i nack and go

TheSonOfMark:



I am sapiosexual- I'm attracted only to those rare breed of ladies who do not fall within the aforelisted stereotypes and are intelligent too.
We've been dating for over a year and she never demands things except my fidelity. ofcourse. 3 months ago, she took me out to the cinema on my birthday and I had to beg her not to pay becavse the ticket sellers were all females - it would have been embarassing .
SHE'S FROM A MIDDLECLASS HOME AND A STUDENT. SHE TEACHES ENGLISH LANGUAGE TUTORIALS DURING WEEKENDS JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE SEEN AS PRODUCTIVE.

Now Ronald, tell me why any sane man wouldn't respect and cherish her? NIGERIAN GIRLS SHOULD WAKE UP!

Interesting. Lucky you, or lucky her. Her type is every man dream woman.

Rapmoney, perhaps we should beam our searchlight towards Uyo. What ya say.

ronald4lif:


Interesting. Lucky you, or lucky her. Her type is every man dream woman.

Rapmoney, perhaps we should beam our searchlight towards Uyo. What ya say.

ronald4lif:


Interesting. Lucky you, or lucky her. Her type is every man dream woman.

Rapmoney, perhaps we should beam our searchlight towards Uyo. What ya say.

daveP:
Interesting (munches away @ some chips)

Rapmoney:

daveP:
looks like a counter to mirex's thread on 10lies.

Rapmoney:
Bro, it is very hypocritical for us to copy the lifestyle of the whites but cunningly leaving out the relationship aspects! It is an irony!!!

starlingslimnet:
Not only hypocritical it's stupidity of the highest order

justmag:
I completely agree with the OP. However, I think this depends on the type of girl you date. Date a girl who
1. finds you worthy while and exciting enough to want to take you out on a date
2. Date a girl who likes you enough to find you as a getaway from all her problems, a place of comfort not a place where her bills are being paid. An independent woman is less likely to ask you for some transport fare.
3. I am a product of the idea that dates are suppose to be creative and not doing what everyone is doing for dates. For examples, most people go to resturant. I value quiet walks, date at a park, a zoo, a museum, a cultural place, a place where we have never been and we both find exciting.