| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by jamex93(m): 8:54pm On May 01, 2015 |
following |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 8:56pm On May 01, 2015 |
I am 85% sure that the Op practice contrary to every single commandment there! #Hypocrisy |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by espn(m): 8:59pm On May 01, 2015 |
Follow dis rubbish and remain SINGLE @ 60 follow ur heart abeg..what works for MR OLA might not work for Kayode! |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by EnimeBassey(m): 9:00pm On May 01, 2015 |
The rules are just too unrealiatic. If a woman loves a man, rules can be bent. Love is all that matters |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Moana(f): 9:01pm On May 01, 2015 |
youngwarlocks:
11. THOU SHALL NOT ASK THE GUYS FOR MONEY......
lata my friend will b telling me gender equality crap.
until girls begin dey woo me, notin like equality.
op...Weldone o. keep decieving d girls while u are busy doing d opposite equality does not always mean identical treatment, it can mean giving different treatment in order to achieve an equal goal. |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Missmossy(f): 9:01pm On May 01, 2015 |
The tone of these so called commandments though. Very aggressive, it sounds like something you would tell a slut whose self esteem you want to elevate. |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Missmossy(f): 9:01pm On May 01, 2015 |
The tone of these so called commandments though. Very aggressive, it sounds like something you would tell a slut whose self esteem you want to increase. |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 9:02pm On May 01, 2015 |
Rules for the ladies and almost all those commenting are men...
Looks like there are many Bruce Jenners on Nairaland |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:05pm On May 01, 2015 |
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by AmaechiLinus(m): 9:06pm On May 01, 2015 |
Pointless points |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by damseyl(f): 9:06pm On May 01, 2015 |
kilokeys:
i laff when u try creating ur version of the " Ten commandments"
as the angels above scribbles ur name with permanent marker in Hell's diary harsh!  Easy na |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by youngwarlocks: 9:06pm On May 01, 2015 |
Moana:
equality does not always mean identical treatment, it can mean giving different treatment in order to achieve an equal goal. U support gender equality too?? |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Moana(f): 9:07pm On May 01, 2015 |
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 9:08pm On May 01, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:
To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by:
10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself-
ONE
Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy
you aren’t absolutely sure is into you.
You are so on point. I love this
Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you.
TWO
Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your
boyfriend) where things are going
If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future
is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple.
THREE
Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole
If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him
your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet.
FOUR
Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit.
Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial.
FIVE
Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you.
Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to
analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re
into him…
SIX
Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch.
Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some
plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you.
SEVEN
Thou shalt not be the crazy girl.
That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry.
EIGHT
Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible.
Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be
running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at
all times.
NINE
Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar.
Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one.
TEN
Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock.
This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was
____.”
Are there any dating commandments you live by?
Share them!
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by dust144(m): 9:10pm On May 01, 2015 |
Thou shall not be fake
Thou shall know how to cook
Thou shall be clean
Thou shall be well manner
Thou shall be etc |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 01, 2015 |
another ridiculous list again... |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Truflame: 9:13pm On May 01, 2015 |
Infact, the title of this piece is stone age ideology |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by youngwarlocks: 9:14pm On May 01, 2015 |
Moana:
yes i do
we are parallel on this issue |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Dotwillis1(m): 9:15pm On May 01, 2015 |
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 9:15pm On May 01, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:
To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by:
10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself-
ONE
Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy
you aren’t absolutely sure is into you.
Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you.
TWO
Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your
boyfriend) where things are going
If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future
is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple.
THREE
Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole
If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him
your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet.
FOUR
Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit.
Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial.
FIVE
Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you.
Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to
analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re
into him…
SIX
Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch.
Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some
plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you.
SEVEN
Thou shalt not be the crazy girl.
That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry.
EIGHT
Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible.
Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be
running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at
all times.
NINE
Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar.
Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one.
TEN
Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock.
This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was
____.”
Are there any dating commandments you live by?
Share them!
Shall na the mod were put this rubbish for front page I go blame. You be wise fool |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by kinibigdeal(m): 9:16pm On May 01, 2015 |
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by wiringdpt(m): 9:18pm On May 01, 2015 |
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Ruttashobolwa(m): 9:21pm On May 01, 2015 |
They "won't listen you...they are told about these things every day...! Your wasting your precious time...when woman is in love she don listen,judge or ask for an opinion... |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Dinhodinho(m): 9:21pm On May 01, 2015 |
SEX DOES NOT MAKE SENSE AT ALL 
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by ELITE0911(m): 9:23pm On May 01, 2015 |
youngwarlocks:
11. THOU SHALL NOT ASK THE GUYS FOR MONEY......
lata my friend will b telling me gender equality crap.
until girls begin dey woo me, notin like equality.
op...Weldone o. keep decieving d girls while u are busy doing d opposite deception point, no mind am jawe. naso dem go dey preach gospel wey dem nor fit follow |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Dinhodinho(m): 9:23pm On May 01, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:
To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by:
10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself-
ONE
Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy
you aren’t absolutely sure is into you.
Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you.
TWO
Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your
boyfriend) where things are going
If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future
is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple.
THREE
Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole
If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him
your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet.
FOUR
Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit.
Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial.
FIVE
Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you.
Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to
analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re
into him…
SIX
Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch.
Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some
plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you.
SEVEN
Thou shalt not be the crazy girl.
That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry.
EIGHT
Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible.
Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be
running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at
all times.
NINE
Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar.
Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one.
TEN
Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock.
This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was
____.”
Are there any dating commandments you live by?
Share them!
FORGET ABOUT SEX 
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| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 9:26pm On May 01, 2015 |
Thou shalt not Bleep a guy who hasn't put a ring on it
Thou Shalt not beg whoever breaks up with you
Thou shalt not make any man the centre of your existence
Thou shalt have they own source of income (no matter how small)
If you have a good man, thou must respect him. 1 Like |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by koyyess: 9:27pm On May 01, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:
 Don't be puzzled. You should have expected that. A typical negro is intimidated by women who live by those 'commandments'. Nigerian men especially do not like confident and independent women. Infact, they have no clue of what they want at all. That's the simple truth. Nice post though. |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by freecocoa(f): 9:27pm On May 01, 2015 |
Arrant nonsense. |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by butanep(m): 9:34pm On May 01, 2015 |
I don't see any meaning in the write up...
Maybe because it was boring... |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by RichThug(m): 9:35pm On May 01, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:
To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by:
10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself-
ONE
Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy
you aren’t absolutely sure is into you.
Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you.
TWO
Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your
boyfriend) where things are going
If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future
is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple.
THREE
Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole
If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him
your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet.
FOUR
Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit.
Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial.
FIVE
Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you.
Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to
analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re
into him…
SIX
Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch.
Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some
plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you.
SEVEN
Thou shalt not be the crazy girl.
That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry.
EIGHT
Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible.
Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be
running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at
all times.
NINE
Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar.
Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one.
TEN
Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock.
This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was
____.” ;
Are there any dating commandments you live by?
Share them!
You traitor!!! why you dey tell them these things na? |
| Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Eniqurl(f): 9:36pm On May 01, 2015 |
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