I just need matured minds to comment here

I have been in a long distance relationship with this babe for Like a month plus now, we had been getting along well. Talking /chatting on a daily basis. Two days ago I told here that my parents does not approve me been in a relationship with a girl from here side, she took it well.

But asked me to give her one thing that she'll use to remember me. I asked her what she wanted and she told me to carry my child. I told her I can't do that.

Please guys I hope am not making mistake or been harsh on that decision. Cause she said she would'nt taking care of the baby alone.

All these lies on NL.. .

Get her pregnant and then start planning your wedding..

The ear hears something only once.

u must be a rich nigga

Flee

she wants to pin you down indirectly

EricRichie:
All these lies on NL.. .

Get her pregnant and then start planning your wedding..

The ear hears something only once.

Bro I do not lie.

Help her out

if u pregnant her,dude na marriage straight
d babe get plans for u

The first thing to do, is to ask her the motive behind her request. Least to say, some girls can be very dangerous and unavoidable. Maybe she wants to birth your child so that she could later use it as a weapon against you in forcing you to marry her. Or for other reasons best known to her.
Don`t jump ignorantly into things that will hinder ur life.
Like i earlier said, sit her down then discuss this issue properly with her till both of you reach a compromise. If possible involve a third party (a reasonable person who`s advanced a bit in age, so that if an arguement is to ensue he/she could be used as a witness of the agreement made between you and her).
A popular parable goes thus "what you do in the morning may not affect you now but it would surely affect you in the evening."

yazz09:


Bro I do not lie.

Well if it's true then am sure you must have already impregnated her and you're just here to justify your actions

With this kind of brian, what kind of Child will the both of you produce

iceberylin:
With this kind of brian, what kind of Child will the both of you produce

Guy I said matured minds only, what are you doing here

EricRichie:


Well if it's true then am sure you must have already impregnated her and you're just here to justify your actions

I have not had sex with her yet.

Dnarvaez:
The first thing to do, is to ask her the motive behind her request. Least to say, some girls can be very dangerous and unavoidable. Maybe she wants to birth your child so that she could later use it as a weapon against you in forcing you to marry her. Or for other reasons best known to her.
Don`t jump ignorantly into things that will hinder ur life.
Like i earlier said, sit her down then discuss this issue properly with her till both of you reach a compromise. If possible involve a third party (a reasonable person who`s advanced a bit in age, so that if an arguement is to ensue he/she could be used as a witness of the agreement made between you and her).
A popular parables goes thus "what you do in the morning may not affect you now but it would surely affect you in the evening."

Thanks bro

yazz09:

Thanks bro

You`re welcome

yazz09:
I just need matured minds to comment here

I have been in a long distance relationship with this babe for Like a month plus now, we had been getting along well. Talking /chatting on a daily basis. Two days ago I told here that my parents does not approve me been in a relationship with a girl from here side, she took it well.

But asked me to give her one thing that she'll use to remember me. I asked her what she wanted and she told me to carry my child. I told her I can't do that.

Please guys I hope am not making mistake or been harsh on that decision. Cause she said she would'nt taking care of the baby alone.

....so you have been in a "long distance relationship 4 a month?" On twitter,what's app,facebook or instagram probably, and now you are thinking of a baby with your digital lover of 1 month? How old are you chief?

yazz09:


I have not had sex with her yet.

Okay my advice: think carefully about This and don't just jump ignorantly at it especially if she's someone you don't find worth marrying at the end....

DO you know what it entails to be a single mum? She's just blinded by love now. Okay let's say she accepts to take lone responsibility of the child now, how about in future? How about when her finances has gone down the drain?

You wouldn't want when you're enjoying life e peacefully with your wedded wife and children, then this lady shows up from nowhere claiming the child is yours and in a bid to scatter your marriage. ... Think twice brother...

#my2cents

Op, she won't be the one to bear the responsibilities of that child, just ask yourself, are you capable to handle when the baby comes?

yazz09:
I just need matured minds to comment here

I have been in a long distance relationship with this babe for Like a month plus now, we had been getting along well. Talking /chatting on a daily basis. Two days ago I told here that my parents does not approve me been in a relationship with a girl from here side, she took it well.

But asked me to give her one thing that she'll use to remember me. I asked her what she wanted and she told me to carry my child. I told her I can't do that.

Please guys I hope am not making mistake or been harsh on that decision. Cause she said she would'nt taking care of the baby alone.

with due respect, u don't worth being an adult unless u re less than 18..don't u knw ur left 4rm right? Grow up and decide For urself.

YUNGLURD:
with due respect, u don't worth being an adult unless u re less than 18..don't u knw ur left 4rm right? Grow up and decide For urself.

Well your opinion is your own.

But kindly read my post well, i've decided. Am just asking if my decision isn't harsh.

yazz09:


Well your opinion is your own.

But kindly read my post well, i've decided. Am just asking if my decision isn't harsh.

u need not to bother the outcome of ur decision since u deem it fit as the best.

But wait oo!! Any real nigga would know that the girl only want to hook u down..probably cos u from a rich background or so...nna flee.....

Did you have to open a thread about this? Jeez!

TrishaP:
Did you have to open a thread about this? Jeez!

Ehmmmm Yeah I guess I did. And I'll open another one for a pretty lady Like you.

funlord:
....so you have been in a "long distance relationship 4 a month?" On twitter,what's app,facebook or instagram probably, and now you are thinking of a baby with your digital lover of 1 month? How old are you chief?

Jeez, what is this one saying? Can you date someone on twitter?

TrishaP:
Did you have to open a thread about this? Jeez!

Been looking for you.

EricRichie:
All these lies on NL.. .

Get her pregnant and then start planning your wedding..

The ear hears something only once.

No mind am.. A relationship of nearly two months rotfl!

GANJAFARMER:
Been looking for you.

Why?