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Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by pTomz(m): 12:34am On May 05, 2015
1. Treat Your Promises Seriously
When you consistently keep your promises,
you justify your boyfriend that you are a
trustworthy girl. You demonstrate to him that
you never go back on your words and do what
you say you are going to do.

2. Never Act Like You Think You Are Better
Than Him
Nobody likes to be disrespected. So, never act
like you suppose you are better than him.
Never criticize, excoriate, or disregard your
boyfriend. Destructive criticism incessantly
belittles his self-worth.

3. Be Solution-Oriented
If you want to be a good girlfriend then you
have to become an efficient problem solver.
“Average Girlfriend is a Complainer; Good
Girlfriend is a Problem-Solver.”
Have you ever perceived why some humans
are greatly popular among their friends? It is
only because they have talent to resolve
problems proficiently. They go the extra mile
to resolve problems, and to assist others
resolve their problems. They are like the ‘God
Father’ of their friends. They have solution-
oriented thinking; that’s why they are, on
every occasion, surrounded by people.
That’s why, for being the best girlfriend, it’s
very essential to become a solution-oriented
girl.

4. Refer Him Professionally
Do you want to be seen as the best girlfriend?
Then, refer your boyfriend professionally. He
will, day after day, appreciate the help. This
kind and cooperative act will make you
immensely valuable for him.
Don’t be a selfish girlfriend during his rough
times. Under no circumstances explain your
unemployed boyfriend why you are doing a
brilliant job. Never compare yourself with him.
Instead, behave professionally and provide
good opportunities for him.

5. The Relationship is All About Fun,
Adventure and Emotions
The relationship isn’t a big thing; it’s a
million little things. It’s all about fun,
adventure, laughter and emotions. Researchers
found that when you produce happy emotions
in your relationship, you create a positive
psychological impact on your lover. Your lover
becomes addicted to you.
You have to become an asset in your
boyfriend’s life. You must make him laugh.
Sharing a laugh can boost gladness and
heighten the bonds of relationship.

6. Never Complain All the Time
Most of us complain all day day-to-day. We
accuse people and circumstances for just
about everything. It has become a human
style to complain about everything. According
to a research, the normal individual complains
between 10 and 25 times per day.
By complaining, we make ourselves a victim
and no one wants to pamper a victim day
long. As a matter of fact, complaining is
categorically an external expression of internal
letdown. No one wants to listen to your
complaints, apart from maybe the incurably
distressed person. That’s why complainers, in
all probability, find themselves hanging out
with other complainers.
So, fix your problems and always look at the
bright side. Be a tough woman, because it’s
your job too to improve things.

7. Getting Ignored is the Kiss of Death
When you ignore people, they feel unhealthy. It
is because people obtain their self-respect
from the approval of others. In other words,
getting ignored is the kiss of death for people.
If you want to be the super best girlfriend,
then give him lavish attention. Spend time
together, share laughs, become a part of a
club with him, or make a sport team etc.
Spending time with your boyfriend should
always be thrilling.
Pay special attention to him and spend prime
time with him. The more we share our prime
time with our soul mate, the happier we are.

8. Build an Awesome Team
Build an awesome team of friends and lead
them. It’s one of the superior traits of a good
girlfriend. In a team-oriented domain, you
consistently have more fun, and you laugh
more frequently. When people work side by
side in a team, they are likely to form bonds
between each other; they think strategically,
and they get a sense of understanding.
When you build an awesome team of friends,
you become more sociable and irresistible;
you become extremely attractive for your
boyfriend.

9. Disclose something Valuable to Deepen the
Relationship
Deepening your relationship with your
boyfriend is not easy. For being a good
girlfriend, you must need to disclose
something valuable or personal to deepen the
relationship. When you disclose/share
something valuable, you build trust; you fortify
relationship with him, and you become his
soul mate.
There are plenty of things you can do to fortify
the relationship with your boyfriend. For
example,
Try new things together.
Know what is going on in his lives.
Invite him for lunch, movie, or sporting event.
Talk about your goals and successes.
Celebrate the achievements.
Or, show up to events.

10. Be an Elite Girl
In order to become a great girlfriend, be an
elite girl. An elite girl is someone that people
consistently want to follow. She is a creative
leader and a very valuable friend/person. She
is intelligent, she is passionate, and she has a
great sense of humor. She knows very well
how to energize others. That’s why, she
radiates immense confidence.http://members.onlinenigeria.com/forums/topic/11133/ways-to-become-the-best-girlfriend
Re: Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by sonikstargirl(f): 12:49am On May 05, 2015
all this lecturers everywer lecturing people on how to do dis and do dat... angry





well all you've said has been noted
*over to d next class*
Re: Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by IamOdin: 1:11am On May 05, 2015
Op,u're in Nigeria not UAE..Do u expect this craps feeling they're Michelle Obama to do all this??.They'll do it tho,but that's when they're done jinking from one c0ck to another..You don't need to tell them these when they're ready for marriage,they know em already!
Re: Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by sinaj(f): 1:28am On May 05, 2015
we haf hear u

ur no. 9 iz a no no for me
Re: Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by Emodeee: 1:50am On May 05, 2015
sinaj:


Fvck u.
Re: Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:57am On May 05, 2015
Emodeee:



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shocked
Re: Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend by sinaj(f): 5:32am On May 05, 2015
Emodeee:


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