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Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by dalyricist: 8:05am On May 14, 2015
BrainnewsNg:
Hmmmmm!

Am i a side chick?

Before nko
U wan b main chick wen prettythicksme is d main bae

Wait MA she Bleep up

I will kick her out
Den u go b main chick
cheesy
BrainnewsNg:
Hmmmmm!

Am i a side chick?

Before nko
U wan b main chick wen prettythicksme is d main bae

Wait MA she Bleep up

I will kick her out
Den u go b main chick
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Bollinger(m): 8:07am On May 14, 2015
holicalpha:
please, this is nairaland... Home to all Nigerians, we don't care abt your age, we're Here to have fun and we're having it...if you didn't like the thread why bother opening it.?

Which is exactly the point. The topic is always captivating until you open it. And don't let advertisers hear you say seun does not care about the age group of the members of his site.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Sunbellar: 8:11am On May 14, 2015
Cryxtal:
Hmmmm.True talk. I knw a lady of marriageable age who says she can never date young men because of heartbreaks. So she dates married men n doesn't mind becoming a second wife. undecided
Maybe that's her destiny!
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by bengems(m): 8:13am On May 14, 2015
It is simply because of low self esteem....they don't know their worth, they don't know what they want and finally they don't respect themselves.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Bollinger(m): 8:15am On May 14, 2015
BUTCHCASSIDY:

Wow!
I had to laugh at that shiny coin bit though


Have you seen the topics on NL lately. Don't be surprised to see a topic like that soon.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Cryxtal(f): 8:17am On May 14, 2015
Sunbellar:

Maybe that's her destiny!
Nah. This is no destiny. It's totally her choice. When young single guys come around, she says too tall or too short, too fat or too thin. Very satisfied. But when she sees someone's fiancé, or husband, she takes keen interest in them. This ain't no destiny. Strictly choice or wat u might call preference
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Tobilastik(m): 8:17am On May 14, 2015
czarr:
guy....dem bar ur line too?...I de load card....network no de gree am go later I c say dem done bar my line....werrin de happen..... e go unbar?

Yh... wait till like 24hours sha
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by legacyint: 8:32am On May 14, 2015
slinkman:
this space is not for sale
everyone has a price,so whats's ur price? smiley
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Nobody: 8:32am On May 14, 2015
Bollinger:


Have you seen the topics on NL lately. Don't be surprised to see a topic like that soon.

Ive seen worse bro.I know what U mean
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Skmoda360(m): 8:32am On May 14, 2015
holicalpha:
The bitter truth is some(most) girls are stup.id. Now girls don't Jump on me,I said "some" not "all".

If a guy likes/loves you,No matter how the guy tries to hide his feelings,it'll be as plain as it can be ever be and if a guy guy doesn't like you it'll show. Girls know this but still they'll decide to stick and be a side chick hoping for a better outcome which ain't gonna happen and after the guy drops them they'll start bashing him with how wicked he was,how he used and
Dumped them, how E NO GO BETTER FOR AM, we've heard of cases where the girl commits suicide. The nigga ain't at fault ,the girl knew yet she stuck by him.


My advice is, Girls please be reasonable, He ain't the only dude that can make you Cu.m, there are many dic.ks out there and to those who still choose to be side chicks, well good for we sharp niggas... We'll keep em and drop em later like we was dropping Bars.
Same goes for foolish guys who wants to kill emselves on girls that are already in relationships

[/b]A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE[b]


- Valar Morghulis
you are so much on point, some guys are found of this...they can go to any length to snatch other guys gf but it will later backfire
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Keyana(f): 8:41am On May 14, 2015
Tobilastik:

Yh... wait till like 24hours sha
even less than. I waited for about 3hrs
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Nobody: 8:55am On May 14, 2015
And the problem is that, one guy can have up to like 5-10 side chicks and some others don't have chicks at all,there is need to be even distribution of chicks cry
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by anthoniaz(f): 8:57am On May 14, 2015
Some choose to be side chicks hoping the guy would dump the main girl for them.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by holicalpha(m): 8:58am On May 14, 2015
Skmoda360:

you are so much on point, some guys are found of this...they can go to any length to snatch other guys gf but it will later backfire
yeah
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Yemiolads(f): 9:03am On May 14, 2015
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by MrsAnyanwu(f): 9:12am On May 14, 2015
lilmax:
Hope grin they never learn. Smh
u wicked , I swear, hahhhhhhhhhhhhhaa
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by InesQor(m): 9:40am On May 14, 2015
Any write-up about Side-guys? Not everyday side-chicks.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Revolva(m): 9:45am On May 14, 2015
Nigerian babe's r the fakest babe's ave ever seen not all but a large count of them are not really loyal n loveable


See this babe here is a high class olosho..prostitute....she can do every kind of bangin lol dem plenty everywhere today for naija

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Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by ferguson17(m): 10:13am On May 14, 2015
[i][/i] that's the fact bro
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Nobody: 10:22am On May 14, 2015
dalyricist:


Before nko
U wan b main chick wen prettythicksme is d main bae

Wait MA she Bleep up

I will kick her out
Den u go b main chick
cheesy

Before nko
U wan b main chick wen prettythicksme is d main bae

Wait MA she Bleep up

I will kick her out
Den u go b main chick
hehehehehehe dat babe on ur dp na ur side chick while i am ur main chick.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by dalyricist: 10:48am On May 14, 2015
prettythicksme:
hehehehehehe dat babe on ur dp na ur side chick while i am ur main chick.


No, she's my wife
You are MA main chick
And BrainnewsNg is d side chick

That's it wink
prettythicksme:
hehehehehehe dat babe on ur dp na ur side chick while i am ur main chick.


No, she's my wife
You are MA main chick
And BrainnewsNg is d side chick

That's it
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by lexib(m): 10:48am On May 14, 2015
Erm, sometimes u wanna be a side chic to ur friends guy because the fear of being caught n ur antics to avoid being caught can be very exciting... in such, u seek notin but the pleasure of eating the forbidden fruit... lolz
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by unphilaz(m): 12:41pm On May 14, 2015
DanceVille:
Many of Nigerian girls don't even suspect that they are Side chicks.Then there are some of them that know their real role, but agree to continue such unhealthy relationship..
Here are my Top 8 reasons on why Nigerian girls become Side Chicks..
1.Just To Show It Off:
Some Nigerian girls prefer to be in a relationship just to feel like they belong.Maybe they see their friends in relationships and want a boyfriend of their own.So they agree to become a mistress even if they know that a guy is in serious relationships.They keep the guy around, only to drain some material things from him.
2.Fear Of Loneliness:
Many girls can agree for less, just so they would not feel lonely.So to escape it, they will date even a guy with a wife.Actually they can jump at any guy who comes their way.
3.Too Much Attention:
It could happen that a girl could love a guy too much to let him go, even if he already has a girlfriend.
Such obsession can force her to become a side chick.
4.Pressure:
Some families insist that their daughter should bring a man and to get married.So some girls are forced to look for a man anywhere and at any costs.
5.Desire:
Some girls become side chicks just for the fun of it.She probably find the idea playing with people's feelings exciting.
Some Nigerian girls think that it's cool to sneak around with a guy while he's already in a relationship.
6.They Like The Attention:
Some Nigerian girls agree to be another chick because they adore being special.If a guy pamper them and makes them feel desired, they don't care whether he has a girlfriend.
7.She Thinks That She Is Not Good Enough:
A guy can tell a girl that she is not good enough to be his girlfriend.But she can be his side chick.
The girl then agrees because she thinks that this is an only variant and it starts to think that she is undesirable.
8.Hope:
Some Nigerian girls hope and believe that one day, they would become official girlfriends or even wives.
So she will agree to be on the second place, but she will do her best to win his heart permanently, which might leads her in becoming a side chick

gals talks. Why are men the sustainer of chicks? Rejoinder
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Mt1st: 12:50pm On May 14, 2015
Nice one Op, some ladies prefer being the side chick because they tend to believe they have the man @ their beck and call especially when it comes to finances. while some guys prefer to spend more on side chick than their main chick cos of the d satisfaction they believe they get from them
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by MRBrownJ: 5:47pm On May 14, 2015
holicalpha:
when it comes down to Women mentality, everyone of em is a victim.....even the educated Folks.

Damalex4luv:
Are you for real! You must have started dozing off before typing this garbage undecided undecided undecided

mekybabe1:
My dear, it doesn't really follow. A typical example is Funmi Iyanda's case with Segun Odegbami. She knew he was married, yet gummed her body to him and even went ahead to have a baby for him hoping that he will divorce his wife for her sake but the guy broke up with her and it became a problem. Some ladies are just daft.

Truckpusher:
Another lie

johhnnie:

Ur current minister of petroleum is a 2nd wife despite all her education. I guess she must have been a child chick at a time before she was promoted to being a wife.

kai, see all these people who are confused about this issue...... ok let me school you for a minute then:
see the problem with all you people is that you have a small mind, and therefore when i wrote educate your kids, you simply believe that, as long as you pay for a child's education, you have done your job. WRONG!!!!!!

this is just ONE part of that child's education, the second part is to educate that child AT HOME so that:
- this child knows the rights and wrongs of life;
- this child has high self esteem and is proud of him/herself;
- this child has good manners, high morals and class;
- this child is honest, polite, considerate;
- this child is respectful, caring and kind to others;
- this child is humble, fair and determined;
- this child is patient, hardworking and responsible;
- this child should have integrity and be accountable for his/her actions;
- this child stands for what they believe regardless;
- this child fully uses his or her brain properly to make their own judgment;


but most importantly that this child knows their self worth, the mechanism of life and LOVE... and therefore knows that (just like in mathematics) if someone loves you then they couldnt possibly cheat on you.

teach them that....NOTHING worthy can be built from a cheating r/ship, the foundation of that disrespectful and unfaithful union is already messed up, and we certainly shouldnt raise our children to be in such union. Upgrading oneself from a side chick to the main chick is the epitome of failure, the same way someone cheated on his ex (to be with you), is the same way he will cheat on you (to be with someone else), when he is tired of you, duh!

sadly, in Africa many consider these unions proper, thanks to the failed upbringing of many (to each their own), and some even end up as 2nd/3rd/4th wives etc. how LOW has a woman fallen that she would accept to share her husbands/home with another woman in holy matrimony? how DESPERATE has a woman fallen that she would gladly decides to be the who.re tool that would destroy a marriage? yes, many would say that the husband is guilty too (and yes he is) but that in no way makes this cheating gal's action any less WRONG. many women would say that they embrace the idea of having co-spouses.... lol, they are just a bunch of brainwashed obedient sheep. but again, some people are willingly killing themselves for love so, i guess, being a co-spouse is a piece of cake on the scale of desperation.

so yes, a person can be educated in the best schools around the world and still have low self esteem, and foolishly decide to A) be a side chick or B) be a second wife (or 3rd/4th/5th etc)...... SO EDUCATE your children!

PS: let us not make it a debate on whether polygamy is right or wrong (on this thread), we can do that on some other thread, and i will be glad to educate you further. MBJ

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Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Youngpo413: 6:00pm On May 14, 2015
Side guy!
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by Sunbellar: 7:06pm On May 14, 2015
Cryxtal:
Nah. This is no destiny. It's totally her choice. When young single guys come around, she says too tall or too short, too fat or too thin. Very satisfied. But when she sees someone's fiancé, or husband, she takes keen interest in them. This ain't no destiny. Strictly choice or wat u might call preference
Destiny is that innate thing that makes her abhor single guys for married men. It makes her have preference for the abnormal instead. I strictly suggest she goes for deliverance as someone's husband is sacred.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by BrainnewsNg(f): 9:43am On May 16, 2015
dalyricist:


No, she's my wife You are MA main chick And BrainnewsNg is d side chick
That's it wink

No, she's my wife You are MA main chick And BrainnewsNg is d side chick
That's it
Tah!
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by mgizzle007(m): 12:21pm On May 16, 2015
wen dey hav alil taste of dat gud dicck ,nutin counts anymore.lol
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Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by dalyricist: 2:05pm On May 19, 2015
Re: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by jpphilips(m): 2:23pm On Aug 27, 2015
Sammyblake:
And the problem is that, one guy can have up to like 5-10 side chicks and some others don't have chicks at all,there is need to be even distribution of chicks cry


lol

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