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| How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by felifeli: 12:00pm On May 23, 2015 |
I hope this is the right section for posting this. Supposing you are divorced and have a young employee who is a hard worker and strives to please, But you find that she seems to be getting too affectionate towards you. This girl is in her late 20s and nearly 30 years your junior. You don't want to get involved with her - she has nothing that you may want except possibly sex , and the last thing you want is another child . She is a fantastic worker otherwise . What would you do? Fire her ? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by agarawu23(m): 12:05pm On May 23, 2015 |
she has nothing that you may want except possibly sex are you 100% sure she has nothing to offer you than sex ? 21 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Nobody: 12:06pm On May 23, 2015 |
pretend as if nothing is happening. 31 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by noskeybaba: 12:13pm On May 23, 2015 |
Best advice: Mind your business. If you do, she will know you are uninterested and move on. Unless you show interest, she is not a problem. You don't even need an advice on this. NB: please don't fire her its not a crime to show affection. At the extreme just call her and talk to her. Tell her you appreciate her affections but its just inappropriate for you to date her. You can tell her you don't even plan to date or remarry again, you are just focused on bringing up your kids. Tell her you don't want to loose a hard working employee, And if she continues, she will have herself to blame. 83 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Nobody: 12:15pm On May 23, 2015 |
felifeli: Ill wax that a$$ fo sho Ill fvck the living shiit out of her She'll be asking for a time out believe me. 15 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Cymbal: 12:27pm On May 23, 2015 |
I think the best thing is to call her to order. Talk sense into her head and she ll start seeing u as a father. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by jayeola391(m): 12:27pm On May 23, 2015 |
Dunno!! |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by superior1: 12:28pm On May 23, 2015 |
Quite simple Pretend you do not see, notice or get the message and make all communication with her strictly formal and within the ambient of the job, she will soon understand your disposition 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Hawlahscho(m): 12:28pm On May 23, 2015 |
You can't be 100% sure that she has crush on you Until she tells you herself because she may just be friendly type, but you concluded and gave us 100% assurance. Anyway, since it never came out of her in any form (written, recorded, or physical). Just pretend as if you don't know What's going on. She may later be desperate and tries to act funny or tell you due to her fragile emotion, since you say you don't want such to happen, you are good to fire her. You'll surely get another another employee (probably better than her). Women/Ladies can be desperate and up to ANYTHING when it gets to "what they want". MY $2 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by enigmagu1(m): 12:28pm On May 23, 2015 |
Look the other way |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Motolank: 12:28pm On May 23, 2015 |
Just ignore permanently, address her always as a superior , she will get over it, if she is not demonic. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by demandtruth: 12:28pm On May 23, 2015 |
felifeli: Take your eye away from the examination of her body Thence, you are good to go and not commit hmmm. the more you dream, the more you think about all those things you wanna do with her |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by labamo07(m): 12:29pm On May 23, 2015 |
If she has nothing to offer you other than sex then face work work............. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by akinsadeez(m): 12:29pm On May 23, 2015 |
Are you sure you aren't misreading her intentions? Since you mentioned that she strives to please, are you sure you aren't taking her efforts to please you as something else. I would advice that you ignore whatever u think she is doing and keep a strict professional distance from her. If she sees that you are ignoring her she will either desist or be forced to make a blatant come-get-me move at which you will be able to address it squarely. if you attempt to address it now and she denies having any intention of that sort, it will only make things very awkward between u and u will also end up looking like a perv for having such thoughts. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Kreamie(m): 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
Free nacks...SIMPLE 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by KAPOVee: 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
U know u really need her xo y r u asking us? 2 Likes
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| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by izuch(m): 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
Chop and clean mouth if not she'll see you as a weakling. Knack am akpako once or twice and then turn tiger  1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Spaxon(f): 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
REPORT HER TO THE POLICE asap mtcheew what else were u supposed to do?  |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Nobody: 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
[quote author=felifeli post=34020938]I hope this is the right section for posting this. Supposing you are divorced and have a young employee who is a hard worker and strives to please, But you find that she seems to be getting too affectionate towards you. This girl is in her late 20s and nearly 30 years your junior. You don't want to get involved with her - she has nothing that you may want except possibly sex , and the last thing you want is another child . She is a fantastic worker otherwise . What would you do? Fire her ?[/quote Nope , u deal with it maturedly by talking about it, draw a line between job and personal life....insobourdination of pesonal interest over oorganisational goals. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by 4everGrand(m): 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
felifeli: Let her know ur stance, and tell her to steer clear of ur peripheral............... that is if u sef nor dey consider opening her legs. But how dis one take concern me sef. Comment deleted. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Nobody: 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
Tell her she's being inappropriate and that you might have to fire her. Nonsense. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by spiralwedge(m): 12:30pm On May 23, 2015 |
focus. pay no attention. Give query as a shakara. and have a one on one discussion with her about her future prospects if she can be more professional... like counselling. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by femi4: 12:31pm On May 23, 2015 |
felifeli:O n gbona felifeli |
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| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by 4everGrand(m): 12:31pm On May 23, 2015 |
izuch: Jeez! Like seriously? |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 23, 2015 |
Hmmmmmmm baby bossssssssss  I don't know the answer o. Sorry. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by ClintonNzedimma(m): 12:32pm On May 23, 2015 |
Hmmm |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by kay29000(m): 12:32pm On May 23, 2015 |
Hmm! First thing first, if you have been very friendly and playful with her, stop it at once. You are the boss. Second thing, the reason she is probably flirting/crushing is cos u she feels u are available; u need to change that. Get a lady to come check on you at work a couple of times, and find a way to make it seem like u have something intimate going with that lady. This should work perfectly, so you won't have to fire the girl. Anyway,if you have problem lastinglong in bed, hit me up on BBM- 7C22F6EC. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 23, 2015 |
| bro, the way you are asking this question, you sound like your gonna fall for it in no time.. goodluck o 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by izuch(m): 12:33pm On May 23, 2015 |
| Re: How Do You Deal With An Employee With A Crush ? by Cymbal: 12:33pm On May 23, 2015 |
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