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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Drabrah(m): 7:42am On May 30, 2015 |
DollyParton1:Naaaa! Guess u're mixing Introduction wt [b]Engagement. Engagement is the single most important part of the wedn process. Introduction is jst family reps coming 2 know one another. It is what it is______[i]INTRODUCTION[/i]!!! |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by DollyParton1(f): 7:48am On May 30, 2015 |
Drabrah:errrm really? If the introduction wasn't successful, how will the engagement and the other ceremony take place. You might wanna ask the elders around u. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Chinoble(f): 7:52am On May 30, 2015 |
peedeeasobie:Sorry,ddnt mean to insult. Like u said, introduction is not marriage but remember that after introduction u will be expected to go to his place and start doing the duties of a wife to him. Everywhere you go, people will call you his wife, ur family, ur friends, everybody will call u his wife. U can no longer be friends with ur old boyfriends which means you cnt get anything from them. If u cal ur brothers, ur cousins, ur uncles, ur aunts to give u somtins they wont give you like before cus they will be like 'this girl i tut u r married' and she cnt openly and boldly ask u for things. U see dat after introducton, u ve placed the girl in a very tight corner. No body is forcing you to pay for her fees but if u ve dignity and you are finacially owk, why not offer to pay her fees? Cus as far as i knw, dat will earn you more respect frm her family. Then it's left for her family to either accept or reject ur offer. I cud still remember wen my big sis was getting married, her husband nd his people came wit the dowry but my father only touched the money nd gave it back to the husband saying that he's not selling his daughter. That does not mean the next person dat is coming to marry frm my family shd come without dowry. What i'm saying is that once you r ready to introduce youself and ur family to my people as my husband, be ready for any responsiblity that will come wit it. DO NOT PUT ME IN TIGHT CORNER. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Drabrah(m): 7:53am On May 30, 2015 |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by 400billionman: 7:57am On May 30, 2015 |
Poverty nah disease shaa. Both sides should not be bothered about money. They are not yet married.. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by olu77(m): 8:00am On May 30, 2015 |
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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Drabrah(m): 8:02am On May 30, 2015 |
Chinoble:This is themost bias analysis I've ever seen. Dowry u said (Bride price, actually) & it's different frm paying her sch fees. Introduction comes b4 payment of bride price & it's after the payment of bride price dat he is seen as d hubby. Dat takes place @ engagement, not at Introduction. I'm glad u said ur big sis hubby came wt d (dowry) bride price, not her sch fees. Hence i wudda bn disappointed if ur dad collects it. Buh even if he collects the bride price they brought, no big deal. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Drabrah(m): 8:07am On May 30, 2015 |
DollyParton1:Same point we're making. Jst like many relationships don't result 2 marriage. So, imagine u paying d sch fees of evry gal u've dated (wen u no be ATM). At Introduction, u're telling her family u wanna marryher. They know u, & probably agree. Buh they avn't given her 2 u, so they may still change dia mind. @ Engagement, they giv her 2 u & she's practically ur wife, jst awaiting other formalities. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Chinoble(f): 8:09am On May 30, 2015 |
Lexusgs430:Lol |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Dekatron(m): 8:12am On May 30, 2015 |
What is introduction? No be for just : FAMILIARITY?? If i pay her school fee after [b]mere[/b]introduction, then i can simply dictate to her when she comes and cook for me or when i invite her to straff her. Lobbish!! |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by blakky97(m): 8:13am On May 30, 2015 |
rich dudes wont mind though. but I no go pay oh. make I no lie. b4 dem go add her junior brother own with that he big head. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Chinoble(f): 8:14am On May 30, 2015 |
Drabrah:Owk. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by DollyParton1(f): 8:22am On May 30, 2015 |
Drabrah:When two people do their introduction ceremony, there is no probability anymore. Both families have sat down and agreed and given their blessings. Thats the ultimate. Even marriages get dissolved too. Introduction, Engagement, court wedding, church wedding, and Nikkah can be dissolved. The differences are the ceremony and maybe the mode of carrying out. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Bigsteveg(m): 8:29am On May 30, 2015 |
versashee: And wait make dem snatch her, are u sure of the girl's age? Ask questions b4 u conclude on someone personal life! No need to thank me, ure always welcum |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Bolosiye: 8:39am On May 30, 2015 |
Thanks 4 dis thread oh! My eye don open. I intend marring my oldtime galfriend in august dis year who is only in her 200 level now, studing medicine. Will ve to wait till she round up studies. Though am 41 now |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by cannanland(m): 8:39am On May 30, 2015 |
Her father's and relatives |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Sampunk(m): 8:40am On May 30, 2015 |
[quote author=versashee post=34149290]a wise man would engage her in school and marry her after she graduates! [/quote/] Lol í ½í¸ I dey tell you |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nobody: 8:44am On May 30, 2015 |
The girl is responsible |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by sneak3(m): 8:49am On May 30, 2015 |
All the attendees at the introduction.. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by NeduLuiZ(m): 8:50am On May 30, 2015 |
DrGroove:she opens her legs on her on consent |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by adenlemmanuel: 8:51am On May 30, 2015 |
that depends on under whose authority the girl is after d introduction,....if after d introduction she moves In with d man then its d mans responsibility to pay her school fees but if she still lives in her parents house then her parents will be responsible for her fees provided she is not yet pregnant for d man,....cos prgnancy b4 marriage can make parents go crazy mehn! |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by UjSizzle(f): 8:55am On May 30, 2015 |
If they are cohabiting after the introduction then she's his problem. Otherwise, she's her parents responsibility. I just typed that and realized how biased this world is. Why do all these unmarried boys and girls cohabiting complain about footing a girl's bills/becoming a domestic help? I swear the world has gone mad.
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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by VUVUZELA10: 9:05am On May 30, 2015 |
marcondo13:The best submission. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by pomsky: 9:35am On May 30, 2015 |
Keziehenry: [size=14pt]........just thinking out loud now; So let's assume the guy is on 100k monthly salary, and his fiance is an undergraduate with one of the more expensive private universities that averages 500k as school fees. Both the guy and girl want the marriage, so i beg advise me, who continues to pay the school fees, the fiance/husband-to-be, or the girls father?[/size] |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nicepoker(m): 9:36am On May 30, 2015 |
Blackett:what if the girl is not cohabiting with u. |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Jahbles93: 9:40am On May 30, 2015 |
The parents of course,the prospective suitor can only support if he really want to show his cheerfulness.... 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Oluwafreshing(m): 10:49am On May 30, 2015 |
Abeg Job comes before Romans. She should complete her education, get a Job before thinking of the marriage process |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Diane93: 11:23am On May 30, 2015 |
Blackett:. Thank you ohhhhh, I wonder. Its only when it is time 4 expenses that they distinguish between marriage n introduction .......mstchw |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by todayguest(m): 11:34am On May 30, 2015 |
I'm ready for marriage and being married are two different things. For me, I'll marry a babe whose parents have paid all the fees. No cash for school girl when there're lots of young working spinsters. To your question: you can help, if you want to. It's parents job and not intending husbands' |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by wayodude(m): 11:40am On May 30, 2015 |
Marry into this kind of situation and you don enter one chance be that |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by ricsman(m): 11:54am On May 30, 2015 |
[quote author=BlissB post=34233935]Just introduction??...its stil d parents responsibility but u cn still give her money like u use 2[/quote Lol. sure! I didn't hear from u again |
Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by ricsman(m): 11:55am On May 30, 2015 |
BlissB:I didn't hear from u again |
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