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1. Nigga didn't ask/beg for your forgiveness from the story above

2. Nigga really feeling the new lady

3. Nigga took new lady to his sister's wedding

4. You are the pest in your relationship

My advice : continue at your own risk...but then, you might like the status of a "side chick"

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Kentrasso:


You are a st.upid man for saying that. So she should give him sex in exchange for his loyalty. People like you are a danger to the world

Calm down hun

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I just want to thank you all for taking out time to reply this broken hearted girl, thanks all for the advise, insults and love, God bless u all for us, and may nairaland keep soaring.

Tashaamania:

I tell you, two years or less is enough to know to where a relationship is headed to.

what if u started dating in part 1 or say part 2 in uni.
U still av years before u, nd d guy didn't mess up till part 4.

Princess4eva:


Sorry bout ur boo. A man who will cheat, will cheat regardless of the distance. In my opinion any man who does dat to me can as well kiss d relationship gudbye. If he is really that into u, he won't do dat nd evn if he mistakenly did it (like they always say) he shdn't av told u, what effrontary! What the eyes did not see, the heart doesn't grieve about.

Just walk away. If u forgive him now, he'll do it again cos your pardon for him is like a license to cheat. He'd be like: She'll fall for any story. Once again, am sorry.

I av said it on this forum countless times, any man who cannot take an oath of not cheating on his gf, not oath of not breaking up o, I mean oath of not cheating, such men are useless....its not easy not to cheat, buh agreeing to take an oath will always caution u.

Cutehector:
dats not what I mean.. He already came out straight by his constant silent treatment. He evn told her he was seein someone else.. So what r u nw sayn

nothing...just saying

Classicman47:

Sorry about dat.

apology accepted u are really matured

My dear I know what u going tru been there before .
My advise to u is to try and sort things out no man is an angel. there is no way u will open Nash that u won't see small shit or smell shit. .
The devil u know is better than the angel u don't know...
As long as he accept his short coming give him a chance.

Lady am not forcing u to go bak to him juz trying to make an honest contribution u see tins like dis happen everyday nd everywhere around d world so don't tink ure. Alone in dis or u r super unlucky. D tin is if u really love him nd ure sure of his love for u den I don't tink u shuld just turn ur bak nd move away. U have to tink really hard my dear. 5 yrs, I mean 5 good yrs in no joke. Are u willing to throw away 5 good yrs of ur life nd start all over again bcuz of one bad incident U have to think lady. Wat do u really want am not telling u to take him bak or walk away. Am just saying u shuld b careful in wateva decision u take. Regret is not pretty nd I hope u make d ryt choice. Goodluck

skyfullofstars:
Hello sexytemi. I believe that we, the human beings, were born to contribute to this world, to make life more pleasant, not to ruin other people lives. If our parents gave birth to us, if God wanted us in this world, it's for a reason.

No man or woman has the right to hurt you or anybody, or to disrespect you or be rude to you, in no aspect of life. Be it friendship, love relationship, in your job, school, nowhere.

I don't why the ladies, including myself, we tend to accept as normal that guys will or could cheat on us. And it's not normal, it's not acceptable, as we would not accept any other form of lack of respect towards us. So why do we think that cheating is "OK"? Why when we see that our boyfriend is cheating, consider forgiveness?

As long as a man loves you, there should be no reason to cheat. If love is strong, he shouldn't even cheat in the distance. Isn't life after all, about making efforts to succeed? That includes love.

The way this man treated you is unfair, do not give him another chance, because a relationship is based on love and respect, something I can't see here.

If you are looking for a partner for life, make sure you meet someone that is heading the same way, and looking for the same. Take your time to get to know the guy before going to bed, make sure you two are compatible, and when the moment arrives get married.

Why do we waste our time with people that hurt our feelings? Hurting feelings is equal to being a bad person.

Make up your mind, you are valuable, don't call him again, do not pick his calls, start a new life from today, free yourself from this burden, life is too short to waste time on things that don't matter.

This is just pointblank.
I love this.

MrTeymee:
Don't you ever refer to niccurs as fishes again, EVER!!

Buh you can refer to ladies as bitches right ?

IYANGBALI:
yes o

I don't have a driver's license, do you?

MsBliss:


Buh you can refer to ladies as bitches right ?

@ Sexytemi Happy birthday to you sweetheart, may God grant you all your heart desires. You are a pretty girl, so don't settle for less

MrTeymee:

Are you speechless ? OK I gerrit ....you've suddenly gone dumb ? you now have difficulty speaking with both side of your mouth

MsBliss:


Are you speechless ? OK I gerrit ....you've suddenly gone dumb ? you now have difficulty speaking with both side of your mouth

*sighs*. Guys are niccurs, girls are bitches. That's just the way it is now take a chill pill

Dollyak:
@ Sexytemi Happy birthday to you sweetheart, may God grant you all your heart desires. You are a pretty girl, so don't settle for less

waooo, tnx so very much, I really appreciate it.

MrTeymee:

*sighs*. Guys are niccurs, girls are bitches. That's just the way it is now take a chill pill

with the exemption of myself and any Lady I know.

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

Ma'am,work on ur written English..abeg..

mapist:


Ma'am,work on ur written English..abeg..

Irrelevant contribution

distance iz a killer of r/ships darl, ..iv had me fair share nd twas indeed hurtin...let him go k,, ةwt time d pain wl heal nd if hez rightfully urz thn God wl bring hm bac 2u..
...i pray he dznt regret loosin yaa..
b happy gurl..cheerzZ

your answer pls

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

you don't have to forgive him. there are better guys like me that are capable of doing you the way u want

He cheated on you, and this is even the only one you know of. What's to say he event do it again?
TRUST is an important part of every relationship.
And when that is broken, then there is a problem.
Holding on to him means that if you guys eventually get married, you will have to keep looking over your shoulder.
Its sad to put everything into a relationship and get nothing back in return.
Iet him go, he dosent deserve you.

Jose35:



you don't have to forgive him. there are better guys like me that are capable of doing you the way u want

lol, tnx ooo

Sexytemi:

lol, tnx ooo

some people don't realize what they have until they loose it

Jose35:


some people don't realize what they have until they loose it

yea

younghartz:

Lol I've bn tru many patches,I have had bad relationships In da past

that's true. remember not everyday is Christmas.

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ginawest:
abeg leave d guy jawe!!he told u he was having sex wit anoda lady,u did d normal tin n he started blaming u..was he not supposed to apologize first?bae,dre r many fishes in d river.

I like the guys breakup technique,very smooth...kudos to him at least let him start hunting for a fresh pusy,one pusy is not good for a real man

ammyluv2002:
And he was very proud of what he did...u can imagine *smh*

The guys did nothing wrong...remember men have every right to fuckkk around...too many b!tches to be sampled anyway.