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Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by streetzdreamz(m): 3:00pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
shugga:preach to ya?hell no would watch u walk through the gates of hell and won't bathe a lid,keep ur sex education to ursef Dafuck r u stimulating?DAT part of a woman's body irritates me before u start telling me tongue action and all dose dirty acts,OK keep quoting then, its a free world they say. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by miketayo(m): 3:06pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
u decided already before u made this topic |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
But you love him? He actually told you he had sex with another lady. Force yourself; it isn't the worst thing you could do to someone you love but don't overdo . |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Laredojohn(m): 3:12pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi:Hmm the thing there is...he also has the mindset u likely to be cheating on him, and have a full trust in man is zero...he has done nothing for u until he get married to u, if u leave him because of this, how sure are u who is coming next will not b worse... d only option u can call it cheating is if he dis flowered u and u have never had intercourse with anyone else except him, but if u have, u have also cheated one way or the other, be it b4 or during ur relationship. Just take it easy...if u truly love him, he is being real to you that the distance in the relationship isn't helping things at all. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by creepsyme(f): 3:13pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
check out any relationship that has never had any hitches, its a disaster going somewhere to happen. its all full of pretence, lies, deceit and hypocrisy. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Cutehector:why don't they(guys) just come out straight than expect us(ladies) to have magic eyes |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by NobleG1(m): 3:20pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi: You didn't go in details, on whether he complained of something about you or whether you did something to him or gave you reason for not going to the wedding with you. You need to give good details, if you want reliable advice! Anyway, this is my advice to you: He boldly told you he has been cheating on you. I suspect you did something wrong to him. No matter what you did to him, he shouldn't have cheated on you. It's always better for one to end a relationship than to cheat. So what are you waiting for? Dump his as*s now! |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by chukzy700: 3:27pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Use your head girl.....don't let any deceive u......forgive him and move but if he there's it again then kick his hard damn ass off |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by dave2meek(m): 3:31pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
This thread is for ladies |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by stonecoldcafe: 3:33pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Stop acting like a silly girl! Have some dignity and respect for yourself! Someone is bold enough to tell you he is having sex with another and you are asking yeye questions here. Don't you know God loves you? He is showing you a glimpse of this man in time to come. 5 years is a long time to invest in a relationship but eternity is a longer time to spend with a cheat. Dude should be thinking of bridging the gap and making sure you guys are together not cheating cos you guys are no longer in the same city. Listen move onnnnnnnn! Thank God for revelation. Allow yourself heal and watch God surprise you with a man that will make you say "thank God I dodged that bullet!" 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by MrTeymee(m): 3:33pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
HizMissy: Now thats cooler .. you smart, you loyal. appreciate that |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by MrTeymee(m): 3:34pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Begonia: Whatever pusay |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by MrTeymee(m): 3:36pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Teespice: Y"all act that way sometimes tho, no pun intended |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Teespice(f): 3:43pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
MrTeymee:every pun intended in this case. you are not a man, you are one of the many fishes in the ocean. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by stonecoldcafe: 3:47pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
By the way, why did you date for 5 solid years? Listen go and read about the girl rolling on floor yesterday after her beau gave her engagement ring (the story was on front page) That couple dated October to June before dude popped the question. Now I know everybody's own will not be like that but a serious man does not waste time. 5 years is toooooooo long! ARE YOU GUYS STUDENTS OR WHAT? Please don't do everlasting dating with another dude again. Be realistic. Set goals for your life. Pray and tell God what you want. Don't be in a rush to date cos all your friends are dating. You nor know wetin dem dey carry. Be calm and ask God for THE man not all dem fake a.ss player boys. This will hurt but I'll say it: be stingy with your cookie or better still don't open the jar! Who will wife you go still wife you without sex! God bless |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by iamwrong(m): 3:50pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi: from personal experience once it's known that you are working and based in abuja as a female, what comes to the mind of most folks is the high probability of the said "female" getting loose and promiscuous in varying degrees within and outside there control. Hence most unmarried females end up heart broken and single for a long while. So back to your case, I suspect 2 things: first is some peeps must have abused and fed your boyfriend's mind with different stories and information about your loyalty to him in far away abuja and how some bigwigs may be pestering you here and there for sexual gratification etc hence giving him grounds and reasons why he should cheat etc Secondly you said he started blaming you and even got annoyed. That means there's something out there that you may have been doing wrongly and he just put up with you for the meantime. I suggest you take a sincere look at yourself and find out if you have given him any reasons to behave the way he did and as well as his emotional needs. Tho its normal for you to get angry. But like they say "whatever happens to you in life, you have 80% of the blame and other party (ies) that the remaining 20%". Cheers! |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by laykhorn(m): 3:54pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Tashamania! I really loved that lady for her mature responses. I admire your reasoning capability. Now I have to have to join the queue of wonder too. Hey! Why did you people deactivated and then resurrected with a little re-coat of their previous username? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by whodeyhere: 3:58pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
please quit the relationship and move on and don't listen to any excuse from him cos he doesn't love you anymore only if he used to love you before.please note that my submission is based on the assumption that everything you told us here is the whole truth.God help you! |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Tashaamania(f): 4:02pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
laykhorn:Lol thanks. Someone was trying something to do something funny with my old account, that was why I deactivated. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by xtervaganza(m): 4:06pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
He slept with another girl and still he was blaming you? For what exactly? And now he has ignored you? Hmmmmmmm Sorry to say,buh your guy is a class a Muppet. Ignore him too |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Sanguine77(m): 4:12pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
VickyRotex:If the person you cherish is playing with you |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by umohmfonobong: 4:16pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi, just behave as if nothing happen and move on, and i must warn you, dont let that situation make you to be in a haste for men, he wil come begging soon, just be a good girl and dont forget he wil always and must regret it |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Donnyboy(m): 4:25pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Don't mean to insult anyone... but you guys should also hear from the Guy before judging any of them... |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by solobenzo(m): 4:26pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sowie how old are you? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by JLM(f): 4:31pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
OMG its so terrible how people cheapen themselves to the point of not knowing their worth!! @Op it ladies like you that make men treat women like trash! Your guy threw all cares to the wind and had the guts to tell you point blank that he has been sle**eping with another lady, not asking your forgiveness o, but just informing you, and ur here asking this stupid question "should i leave him"? How old are you? 35? Even at 35 what nonsense is this. No dont live him, force him to marry you and share him with hundreds of other women, while he also keeps you and ur unborn children miserable!!! nonse**nse bt afta d marriage make I no c u 4 church de do all night say u dey pray for ur husbant to change oo Ladies pls have alittle dignity, and for God's sake stop tying urself to one guy!!! Keep as many male friends as u like, bt dont slip with any of them, i mean not even fore**play, the serious one will seek you out for marriage eventually, especially wen he knows u havnt been messing around. Its sex that complicates things, women in the olden days were free to have as many suitors as posible com asking for their hands in marriage, infact my mum used to say that one suitor would even brus d other suitor's shoulders on his way out, yet there were no grieviances because the girl wasnt slipin wit any, they wia all competing for her hand.. Chai nawaooo hings are just getting worse ... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by MrTeymee(m): 4:34pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Teespice:Whatever floats ur boat ma'm |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Vello(m): 4:35pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ginawest:I suspect you the guy's sex partner. ...Besides, how many fishes have you caught or more appropriately, how many hook have you swallowed? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ginawest:Lol who told u males fishes are many? Or u talking of the fish u wanna collect from another fish,abi the fish you wanna share with other fishes? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by aimuan(m): 4:37pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
VickyRotex:nice one.pls permit me to copy you. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by laykhorn(m): 4:48pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Absolutely my pleasure! You mind to tell what that 'something funny' is? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by younghartz(m): 4:49pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
mimiejacobz: Lol I've bn tru many patches,I have had bad relationships In da past 1 Like 1 Share |
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