She should have minded her own business. Two agbayas quarreling and she decided to make it three agbayas.

Stillfire:
She should have minded her own business. Two agbayas quarreling and she decided to make it three agbayas.

she was only defending the love of her life

sweetorgasm:
ure so unbelievable

for saying the truth

SAMBARRY:
for saying the truth

dats nt d truth

sweetorgasm:
dats nt d truth

then what is the truth

What else will you say before

MMotimo:


1 You completely misread/misunderstood the story
2 Attacking someone's MIL or mother is inappropriate, to put it delicately. As for calling her names, that's all kinds of wrong

@OP

The story is not complete - what did MIL, son and DIL say exactly? What was the argument about? You can't judge without those details. Important to ask the questions before rushing to judgement

Abeg Abeg spare me the b.s. iya iranu that's hitting more than 2 heads against each other is what.



What's an elder there for if not to quell roforofo and ensure there's peace in her children's home but she's the one aggravating it





and as for that scoundrel rapist and incestuous fool who derives pleasure in sleep in with his mother, dinachi, koniye. Omaserukuni.omo iya.omo lasan ikeji aja




any body wey im mama na 2ten naira ashawo should quotemme for nonsense




if they see dog sef e go rape am.

MMotimo:


1 You completely misread/misunderstood the story
2 Attacking someone's MIL or mother is inappropriate, to put it delicately. As for calling her names, that's all kinds of wrong

@OP

The story is not complete - what did MIL, son and DIL say exactly? What was the argument about? You can't judge without those details. Important to ask the questions before rushing to judgement

sweetorgasm:
she was only defending the love of her life

Not withstanding, she shouldn't have taken sides in their arguments, she should have remained plain sailing. Siding with her hubby against her MIL wasn't a wise move...

AzeD1, awayu?

SAMBARRY:
Abeg Abeg spare me the b.s. iya iranu that's hitting more than 2 heads against each other is what.



What's an elder there for if not to quell roforofo and ensure there's peace in her children's home but she's the one aggravating it





and as for that scoundrel rapist and incestuous fool who derives pleasure in sleep in with his mother, dinachi, koniye. Omaserukuni.omo iya.omo lasan ikeji aja




any body wey im mama na 2ten naira ashawo should quotemme for nonsense




if they see dog sef e go rape am.

Kulyie, your werey is top notch o, read the story again, na mama and her son dey fight and the man wife come put mouth, no be husband and wife fight.

elantraceey:
Yes she did wrong , In such issues it is wise for the woman to be on a neutral ground else they will both bring her to the center of their quarrel .

Lol, u act as if you don't know how the typical African extended family behaves, tomorrow they will be like "a whole mama of ur husband dey quarell with ur hubby, u just stand there for one corner, u no fit put mouth" Aju nwanyi! Aluuuuuuu!!! Hehehe

freecocoa:
Kulyie, your werey is top notch o, read the story again, na mama and her son dey fight and the man wife come put mouth, no be husband and wife fight.

worefa

Did the wife say

Mama please don't be angry,don't let us quarrel over these. I believe we can settle amicably or atleast come to a compromise.

Or did she say

Look here woman,don't you come to my house and raise your voice at my husband. If you are not comfortable with the decision we have taken in our own home then you better excuse yourself. which?

freecocoa:
AzeD1, awayu?

I'm good madam

AZeD1:

I'm good madam

Good to know, just saying hi.

freecocoa:
Good to know, just saying hi.

zeb04:
Did the wife say

Mama please don't be angry,don't let us quarrel over these. I believe we can settle amicably or atleast come to a compromise.

Or did she say

Look here woman,don't you come to my house and raise your voice at my husband. If you are not comfortable with the decision we have taken in our own home then you better excuse yourself. which?

I'm sure it doesn't matter, it's a lose-lose situation for her.

If she supports the husband, she is in trouble with the mil
If she supports the mil, she is in trouble with the husband
If she supports neither and takes a middle ground, she is in trouble with both of them.

The main grouse is that a "common wife", a common property aka family slave is daring to have a say in family issues.

God help women!

Me against my Brother, My brother and I against the Intruder- Word, go figure it out.

Some people just have no sense.
Everything is gra gra and one way
It has been said a thousand times, to study your husband and the family you are marrying into before you totally go off on the wrong tangent.
Assuming you want peace o!

Mummy and son fighting and you started to side one person
no diplomacy
no trying to smooth things over
no soothing words
no aajo
so you are happy that they are fighting abi?
Mother and son o! not husband and neighbour or some random driver on the road.
Did your husband ask for backup?
You think the son is happy that you are figthing his own mother? . . . when things settle down you are on your own. . .or are they going to fight forever?
Elenu razor. Silly woman.

MMotimo:


1 You completely misread/misunderstood the story
2 Attacking someone's MIL or mother is inappropriate, to put it delicately. As for calling her names, that's all kinds of wrong

@OP

The story is not complete - what did MIL, son and DIL say exactly? What was the argument about? You can't judge without those details. Important to ask the questions before rushing to judgement

MMotimo:


1 You completely misread/misunderstood the story
2 Attacking someone's MIL or mother is inappropriate, to put it delicately. As for calling her names, that's all kinds of wrong

@OP

The story is not complete - what did MIL, son and DIL say exactly? What was the argument about? You can't judge without those details. Important to ask the questions before rushing to judgement

That's her M.O on all threads! Don't bother with cretins!

.....I do not think she should gave kept quiet,cos she would still be blamed as usual for being around and doing nothing...as per scape-goat level either way which is the lot of lots of married women..

...What she should do have done was to try to diffuse the situation in between supporting her MIL diplomatically...This is because most men are spineless when it comes to their mother and would be looking confused while their mum runs roughshod over their wives.


..Its better to have a MIL on your side and prevailing on their son than vice versa.

She for no put mouth.

My mum usually tells me not to interfere with husband family issues. Even when asked an opinion or question, diplomatically shift it back to your husband. Not to talk of fight.

The wife was wrong to take sides. She should have just left mother and son alone.

tearoses:
Some people just have no sense.
Everything is gra gra and one way
It has been said a thousand times, to study your husband and the family you are marrying into before you totally go off on the wrong tangent.
Assuming you want peace o!
Mummy and son fighting and you started to side one person
no diplomacy
no trying to smooth things over
no soothing words
no aajo
so you are happy that they are fighting abi?
Mother and son o! not husband and neighbour or some random driver on the road.
Did your husband ask for backup?
You think the son is happy that you are figthing his own mother? . . . when things settle down you are on your own. . .or are they going to fight forever?
Elenu razor. Silly woman.

My sister don vex

When you tell them they say you're old school & championing achaic culture My dear wife please go ahead and wack your MIL's head join jare , who does she think she is waltzing into your nuclear home to fight your husband, what nerve

tearoses:
Some people just have no sense.
Everything is gra gra and one way
It has been said a thousand times, to study your husband and the family you are marrying into before you totally go off on the wrong tangent.
Assuming you want peace o!

Mummy and son fighting and you started to side one person
no diplomacy
no trying to smooth things over
no soothing words
no aajo
so you are happy that they are fighting abi?
Mother and son o! not husband and neighbour or some random driver on the road.
Did your husband ask for backup?
You think the son is happy that you are figthing his own mother? . . . when things settle down you are on your own. . .or are they going to fight forever?
Elenu razor. Silly woman.

I tired my sister.....

edwife:

I tired my sister.....

I 4LLOW U TIRE

Ewuro4:


My sister don vex

When you tell them they say you're old school & championing achaic culture My dear wife please go ahead and wack your MIL's head join jare , who does she think she is waltzing into your nuclear home to fight your husband, what nerve

Seriously some issues just sound so silly; and they start off really small and before one knows its totally escalated out of hand.
its like being uncouth is the new fashion
and when the tables are turned, and the person with the wound starts to eat the fly, they will say that they are being picked on
When MIL recovers from the attack and wages a 20 year war, no one will know what started it.

I know that mama's can be very dramatic sometimes
Why couldnt the DIL say something that will diffuse the situation.
Even if her hubby was right, she can do aajo and finish the matter with her hubby in the bedroom.
One day one day she may need that MIL o! and she may be the only one who can talk sense into her sons head.

edwife:


I tired my sister.....

Do and you are damned,don't do and you are damned.
Of course they will all say you should broker peace but truth is it depends on what the issue was and the height of emotions at the moment.Knee jerk reaction would be to help hubby,wise thinking would be to ignore them both.
Many of us like to think that even in the worst situations we would all have the text book perfect reactions..

No one knows what went on so judging would be pretty hard.

My text book response would be to ensure the ATM cards are safe,cross check that all legal documents are in order then leave them kill each other if they want.

Please, if she's supporting her husband for a right course, I don't see a problem with that.

As for hypocrites castigating the woman, I'm sure it'd have been a different whole post if husband was supporting his wife in a matter that's between wife and her mother.

TRASH!!!

FrancisTony:
Please, if she's supporting her husband for a right course, I don't see a problem with that.

As for hypocrites castigating the woman, I'm sure it'd have been a different whole post if husband was supporting his wife in a matter that's between wife and her mother.

TRASH!!!

Oga drop your post and move on
No need to call anyone names
You dont like it when people do same to you