nonono,hat can never happen,she must have seen it somewhere or someone done it to her,and she enjoyed it.shits happening i can't believe it,pls anytime such happen,first is to report to police,or call unicef in lagos immediately,then parent. have those traites in them from birth, I cn rememba vividly back in secondary school I had a family frnd whom I alwys visit soo everyone in that house knew mi, den his younga sista who was stil in primary school used2play with mi as usual bt all of a sudden her closeness with mi grew stronga n anytime am alone in the room she'l want2 hold ma dick and insert in her vagina wch I was soo scared of cuz dis gal was a kid I can rememba wen dey gave birth to that girl and she'l close the door each time she finds mi alone in the room soo I started avoidin her[/quote]

Then pls do me a favour by reporting by yourself to the police,either father or coursin must face the law,and you earn your own reward in heaven.
Am curretly on a CASE of INFANT MOLESTATION..

whereby a 7 month old baby is involved.
I beckoned on the MOTHER to involve the POLICE.
She said she can't because she leaves her CHILD with her HUSBAND and COUSIN.

The baby girl was messed up[/quote]

This is very serious report her to her mum [color=#990000][/color]

you just feel like writing ehn,you are such a fool,a guy came here teling his ordeal you are calling him a molester.

may God punish him for such statement.]

Shame on you[/quote]

Abio imgine, i can't even sleep,past2 am.ck question, when you spanked her, did she cry? @ Masquellett

When you see either of the parents, go "Oga/Madam did Anita tell you I beat her very well the other day and even sent her out of my flat? Come, we need to talk... and you go inside/somewhere private and let the parent know. Na so e dey start. I am already feeling for the poor baby[/quote]

Yes he might be arrested immediatelyfor safety pourpose,but as investigations goes on they get to free him and know the truth.

Well spoken. I don't know how op can ever narrate this story and come out smelling like roses[/quote]

What is happening to baby is pure developmental stage in human life. All our lives are shaped by sexuality and those are atom from which our personality is built upon. Please read, Sigmund Freud psycho sexual stages of human development. We passed through five different stages in life and are all embedded in sexuality. All children pass through that stage including you! Please kindly Google oedipus complex for little boys and Electra complex for young girl girls of maybe 2 to 3 years.

Oedipus complex :denotes the emotions and ideas that the mind keeps in the unconscious, via dynamic repression, that concentrates upon a child's desire to have sexual relations with the parent of the opposite sex

Electra complex:girl compete with her mother for possession of her father which she normally displayed erotically.

In the absence of the parents. It is possible to display this behavior to any adult available. The kids will soon pass this stage and stop this behavior and come to another.

Caveat : parents should be with their kids to give them love and care and understand some of their strange behavior as it will come to pass. It is all natural
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olamydey:
See Gobe!

I have a 2yr old daughter and cannot bear the thought of her being molested. Please inform her mum. I pray she will handle it sensibly. Chai, people are mean o

Most likely, she learnt that from her mother/parents while they play "husband-and-wife" kind of play! It is also very likely that her mother keeps her by the side while doing a similar thing elsewhere.
Some people (especially those living in one room apartments) do not know how to protect their children before having ssex.

Meanwhile, a three-year old is old enough to understand intimate issues, and therefore should be protected jealously.

uplawal:
Abeg carry your own go,i have three years old baby too,,they dnt have such knowledge.as no case of sexual molestation or abuse. What is happening to baby is pure developmental stage in human life. All our lives are shaped by sexuality and those are atom from which our personality is built upon. Please read, Sigmund Freud psycho sexual stages of human development. We passed through five different stages in life and are all embedded in sexuality. All children pass through that stage including you! Please kindly Google oedipus complex for little boys and Electra complex for young girl girls of maybe 2 to 3 years.

Oedipus complex :denotes the emotions and ideas that the mind keeps in the unconscious, via dynamic repression, that concentrates upon a child's desire to have sexual relations with the parent of the opposite sex

Electra complex:girl compete with her mother for possession of her father which she normally displayed erotically.

In the absence of the parents. It is possible to display this behavior to any adult available. The kids will soon pass this stage and stop this behavior and come to another.

Caveat : parents should be with their kids to give them love and care and understand some of their strange behavior as it will come to pass. It is all natural

I like your kind of person, especially your ability to study wide--unlike the average Nigerian.

However, Oedipus Complex, coined from the Greek drama, Oedipus Rex (where the man unknowingly kills his father and marries his mother--from where Ola Rotimi, I think, adopted his "The Gods are not to Blame" is about the love of a child for the opposite-sex parent, and not necessarily touching pen.ises and handling them, or manifesting erotically like you said.

I have children. Non of them has shown signs of playing that kind of "expensive" joke.

I will check out the book you talked about!

Abio,yes a child can touch but not caressing erotically,the one poster said is erotically,the childmust be controlled,he should just try and look out for the molester,and also get words from the child mouth asking where and who hae been doing that to her.a child dnt le she will tell him everything she remembers.

Ndeewonu:


I like your kind of person, especially your ability to study wide--unlike the average Nigerian.

However, Oedipus Complex, coined from the Greek drama, Oedipus Rex (where the man unknowingly kills his father and marries his mother--from where Ola Rotimi, I think, adopted his "The Gods are not to Blame" is about the love of a child for the opposite-sex parent, and not necessarily touching pen.ises and handling them, or manifesting erotically like you said.

I have children. Non of them has shown signs of playing that kind of "expensive" joke.

I will check out the book you talked about!

i dnt write this,i mistakenly quote this post and it came on my name.am not this poster.

uplawal:
What is happening to baby is pure developmental stage in human life. All our lives are shaped by sexuality and those are atom from which our personality is built upon. Please read, Sigmund Freud psycho sexual stages of human development. We passed through five different stages in life and are all embedded in sexuality. All children pass through that stage including you! Please kindly Google oedipus complex for little boys and Electra complex for young girl girls of maybe 2 to 3 years.

Oedipus complex :denotes the emotions and ideas that the mind keeps in the unconscious, via dynamic repression, that concentrates upon a child's desire to have sexual relations with the parent of the opposite sex

Electra complex:girl compete with her mother for possession of her father which she normally displayed erotically.

In the absence of the parents. It is possible to display this behavior to any adult available. The kids will soon pass this stage and stop this behavior and come to another.

Caveat : parents should be with their kids to give them love and care and understand some of their strange behavior as it will come to pass. It is all natural

It mostly happen by close people around them,the best is to calmly ask the glittle baby.

dalass:
You can do a mini investigation by asking her some questions as to who puts her on the laps and does that to her.. It may even be her family member or close friend or neighbour.. Poor little girl!

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the 3 year old girl probably doesn't even know what she's doing.

y'all are just making a mountain out of a molehill..
who amongst you can remember what you did when you were 3? ✘

I think you should report to the mother,but don't be too open,or else you will look foolish;you can just say:you suspect something fishy about the kid.[color=#006600][/color]

stonecoldcafe:



Oh for God sake get over yourself. Apparently the parents kiss her lips or something. So cos she kissed your lips she wants to make out with you? She is a child for God sake. At that stage, you should have said a firm ''NO'' or ''DON'T DO THAT!'' that should be enough to pass the message. You didnt have to slap her. Maybe na the hunger dey worry you sha.

Then going to tell her mum - dude that was sooooooooooooooooooooo lame.

Oh I forgot to add that she crossed her hands over my neck! The new what she was doing!

ChappyChase:

Oh I forgot to add that she crossed her hands over my neck! The new what she was doing!

How old are you please? Lol @ she knew what she was doing. So are you trying to say she wanted to seduce you and have sex with you? A 3 year old child? Dude, you've lost it. No wonder the mum told the older kids to steer clear. How did that make you feel? If I were you, shame won't allow me visit that house for a long long while.

Unfortunately that tag the mum placed on you will continue. Dude, you handled the situation badly. Your niece did not set out to screw you!

angrybull:
I have read the write-up but have the feelings that baby has no case of sexual molestation or abuse. What is happening to baby is pure developmental stage in human life. All our lives are shaped by sexuality and those are atom from which our personality is built upon. Please read, Sigmund Freud psycho sexual stages of human development. We passed through five different stages in life and are all embedded in sexuality. All children pass through that stage including you! Please kindly Google oedipus complex for little boys and Electra complex for young girl girls of maybe 2 to 3 years.

Oedipus complex :denotes the emotions and ideas that the mind keeps in the unconscious, via dynamic repression, that concentrates upon a child's desire to have sexual relations with the parent of the opposite sex

Electra complex:girl compete with her mother for possession of her father which she normally displayed erotically.

In the absence of the parents. It is possible to display this behavior to any adult available. The kids will soon pass this stage and stop this behavior and come to another.

Caveat : parents should be with their kids to give them love and care and understand some of their strange behavior as it will come to pass. It is all natural

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Ndeewonu:


I like your kind of person, especially your ability to study wide--unlike the average Nigerian.

However, Oedipus Complex, coined from the Greek drama, Oedipus Rex (where the man unknowingly kills his father and marries his mother--from where Ola Rotimi, I think, adopted his "The Gods are not to Blame" is about the love of a child for the opposite-sex parent, and not necessarily touching pen.ises and handling them, or manifesting erotically like you said.

I have children. Non of them has shown signs of playing that kind of "expensive" joke.

I will check out the book you talked about!

Yes, Our behavior were shaped by sexuality which the little kids are directed to display through animalistic part of mind called id. Phallic stage of Sigmund Freud psychsexual human development explains this all. ( plz kindly copy phallic stage and paste on your google browser and read it yourself).

In this stage all kids don't display their sexual urge the same way. Some can be mild while some can go extreme by going erotically. We are not same, that why there is this concept of individual difference. Even Plato said it more than 2000 years ago:
No two persons are born exactly alike; but each differs from the other in natural endowments.

This little girl should not be scorn upon by their parents but should support her to help her to develop balance personality otherwise she will become fixated at that stage and thus can cause sexual abnormalities in behaviour in adult life. Parents need to distinguish between natural occuring behavior and immoral behavior among their kids. This is very necessary for proper upbringing of your child.

masquellett:
I don't know if this is the right room to post this, but am really disturbed.

I was watching "This morning" on TVC this morning when this little girl and her siblings walked in. She will be clocking 3 this year as I heard. They usually come around like that and most times I joke and play with them.
Today, when this little girl came in. She jumped on my legs, so I left her to sit on my laps while I watch my program.

Before I knew what was happening, I felt a touch on my joystick. At first, I was confused. I looked at her to know if she did it on purpose or not. I removed her hands to be sure, then I continued to watched my program. Then again. She started rubbing my joystick!

At that time. I knew something was wrong. I didn't know how to caution her, because I never believed a girl of 3 would know what a joystick is and not to talk of rubbing it with her hand.

Then, I dropped her on the floor and used a pillow to cover my laps and joystick. I was watching what her next step would be. To my greatest surprise, this girl came again, removed the pillow, sat on my joystick and starting making some funny moves. I was dumbfounded! I had to spank her hard and I sent the whole kids outta my flat. It was embarrassing.

So right now. Am still confused, I think someone around the neighborhood is molesting this little girl, the mother is not around, only the dad. I intend reporting her to her mother when she comes back. What' do you think about this?

i guess she saw it done in porns video in handset or on TV set, & try to practicalise it.
so parents should beawere of what they veiw in their houses with under aged children.

Next2Bezee:


Did they just transport you recently from the village? Stop commenting like a cow abeg.

What's wrong with carrying a 3 year old child on your lap? Do you think its every1 that has paedophilia on their mind like you?? Rubbish.

Op is free to tie towel in his house if he want to. The small child must have been molested by feeble minded perverts like you.

As a matter of fact, I don't carry female children on my laps. It's not about having a perverted mind. It's about taking precautions. Many of those animals naturally don't have paedophilia on their minds.

As a matter of fact too, we (I and my brothers) don't let males carry our kid sisters who are less than 3 either on their laps or otherwise for nobody is a paedophile until they are caught.

masquellett:
I don't know if this is the right room to post this, but am really disturbed.

I was watching "This morning" on TVC this morning when this little girl and her siblings walked in. She will be clocking 3 this year as I heard. They usually come around like that and most times I joke and play with them.
Today, when this little girl came in. She jumped on my legs, so I left her to sit on my laps while I watch my program.

Before I knew what was happening, I felt a touch on my joystick. At first, I was confused. I looked at her to know if she did it on purpose or not. I removed her hands to be sure, then I continued to watched my program. Then again. She started rubbing my joystick!

At that time. I knew something was wrong. I didn't know how to caution her, because I never believed a girl of 3 would know what a joystick is and not to talk of rubbing it with her hand.

Then, I dropped her on the floor and used a pillow to cover my laps and joystick. I was watching what her next step would be. To my greatest surprise, this girl came again, removed the pillow, sat on my joystick and starting making some funny moves. I was dumbfounded! I had to spank her hard and I sent the whole kids outta my flat. It was embarrassing.

So right now. Am still confused, I think someone around the neighborhood is molesting this little girl, the mother is not around, only the dad. I intend reporting her to her mother when she comes back. What' do you think about this?

[size=17pt]OP! Tell her mother these things or else that kid would be in big trouble as she grows[/size]

--Tell her mom, not dad. It might be that her dad is the molester
--Keep her from hearing adult or sextual talks.
--Movies that have adult content in it is bad.
--Her friends. Check who she walks with (boys or girls). If something's wrong, keep her off from seeing them.
--Her parents should be more careful and privative when having any sexual move.
--Keep her from roaming freely around the neighborhood.
--Her parents should talk more of the risks and disadvantages of premarital sex or adultery in her presence.

On the contrary,pls,pls,pls just stay away from the children,keep mute about it and pray that it ends just like that.A friend of mine had been set up just like this and he ended up loosing a lot of money to the police and parents.Be warned,someone sent her.

Pls sir, the right thing to do is quickly report the incidence to the mother and steer clear off the children until the situation has been properly handled. Chaiiii, people are bad. 3yrs, what is that person looking for?

stonecoldcafe:


If the father is the one molesting her nko?

I thought along that line too but we're not sure, that's y I said u should inform d Dad pending when her mother returns back. Just do d right thing n leave d rest to God. If he's dad is d one, he ll get to understand how bad he has impacted on her little daughter. (but I doubt if a biological father of a little gal would engage in such silly n shameful act.)

Do not report to the parents plz cuz of the nature of our society today.Stop them from coming to ur flat period.

Aitee1:





Who taught her

Chaiii...e no go better for the dickson wey spoil that kid!

Amen

A lot of clowns on this thread telling OP to tell the mother..
Most parents want to believe their daughters are Angels and can do no harm.. and when confronted with proof their daughter is not as chaste and innocent as they think they immediately become defensive and unpredictable...
I will arrest anybody that tells me my daughter was rubbing his thing.. In fact, you will rot in the cell.. I will believe you probably molested her and you are just telling me that story in case she tells me...

kindnyce:
AND NASS REDUCED THE JAIL TERM FOR THESE gays

NAIJA EEHN

They are referred to as paedophiles not gays

Call the attention of the parents, thats how it starts, @her age, she craves 4 bigger d1cks, that baby needs to be checked up on

stonecoldcafe:


How old are you please? Lol @ she knew what she was doing. So are you trying to say she wanted to seduce you and have sex with you? A 3 year old child? Dude, you've lost it. No wonder the mum told the older kids to steer clear. How did that make you feel? If I were you, shame won't allow me visit that house for a long long while.

Unfortunately that tag the mum placed on you will continue. Dude, you handled the situation badly. Your niece did not set out to screw you!

I won't border explaining cause you won't understand, I know what she did was not childish, she was fully aware of what she was doing...