KanwuliaJara:


Errrrr,

Dun be h-annoyed sah!

*na who sen me message? Fact! Toto dey smell tooooooo musssssh!!!!! I really can't stand mine. . . . Phuuuuuuuummmmm!!!*

edwife:


Lol,you can say it again.

It strange how my little comment turn to something else all of a sudden....

edwife:

It's like someone saying married women are cheats, why should i feel offended when i am not?

KanwuliaJara:


Sorry o!
I have just thrashed your breakfast, lunch, dinner and bed-time snack!
No wonder ya mott and fingers dey smell sosototototo all over NL.

Ewu!!!

edwife:


When i talk about feminists my true opinion about it is that i don't see any here.That's just me and i was not even referring to Nairaland alone but Nigeria as a whole,as you can see i was referring to Freecoco post.

It's like someone saying married women are cheats,why should i feel offended when i am not?And suddenly it was no longer about marital rape but about feminists?really? Is what the topic is all about?

KanwuliaJara:


With the utmost pleasure!!!
Ijjjjjiota!!!!

edwife:


It's funny "when people" say it end here really?coco? And how does she know i don't do anything about it?So posting on NL is doing something about it? I do a lot by the way about it,and here on NL.Some young ladies who i will keep anonymous can attest to it yet i don't shout feminist everywhere.

When i talk about feminists my true opinion about it is that i don't see any here;That's just me and i was not even referring to Nairaland alone but Nigeria as a whole,as you can see i was referring to Freecoco post.

It's like someone saying married women are cheats,why should i feel offended when i am not?And suddenly it was no longer about marital rape but about feminists?really? Is what the topic is all about?

coogar:


the incidence isn't really the matter, it's the punishment that we are talking about. at least, wife beaters in the west get punished. what happens to wife beaters in nigeria? even when the evidence of wife barred by dino melayie was exposed, you people still went ahead to vote him as a senator.

it's a disgrace!

coogar:


i can boldly say up to 80% of the nigerian married men must have been guilty of this. the problem is - many people think räpe has to be violent. clothes have to be torn, undies have to be ripped apart, etc but that's just a lame way of looking at it.

a man who refuses to eat his wifey's food is using emotional warfare to force her into sëx - that is rape. a man who refuses to give his wife money cos she refuses to have sex is also räpe if the wife later succumbs to his demand.

violence isn't the only tool necessary for räpe to take place. there are also
•threats
•coercion
•fear of duress or detention
•physchological oppression
•abuse of power




you mean i can walk into your house right now & whisk you away without paying a dime?

biko, gimme your address in PH before timbuktou beats me to it.

Timbuktou:


Coogar, you're unbelievable. A whopping 80%? I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree on this. Meanwhile, I'm on a night bus to PH, dey dia dey jonse. Who no like better tin?

KanwuliaJara:




See "stroking"!

Please, carry on love birds!
Muhehehehehe

Mutaino7:
If u lots are going to talk about domestic violence abeg America should top d list *ray rice, 50cent palaver, kim and ray and many more* not to talk of the none celebrities stories dat dont make headlines.. Nigeria is still learning compare to d level of spousal violence being xperience in d west nd east(arabs).

coogar:


night bus to PH?
i can bet there's a pretty lady sat next to you with your hands in her bra.

don't go to freecocoa's house o
i have already alerted her dad that you might show up. he's waiting for you with his 12-gauge shotgun.

KanwuliaJara:



See JOLOSI O?
You CHAUVNISTIC, SCROTUMLESS BUZZZZZARDS on this NL ehn? Una nor dey taya?


If na to gang up like ABIA rapistssss to cheer brainless COWS OF DESPERADO CUCK-SUCKERS ati MENTALLY-SODOMIZED FEMALES who never knew their SPERM-DONORS tear each other apart from thread to thread. . . . . . Like your fathers watched their indentured concubines of HOUESMAIDS, only given out in marriage to increase the portion of food in the house. . . Just for your sociopathetic amusement, you are not at peace.

News for you?

Only women raised like your mothers and sisters, in THE MOST BASAL conditions of poverty and squalor would degenerate to such primordial conditions of human evolution.

We nor dey "UNA" league!

Timbuktou:

There's no pretty girl here at all o. We're all hard body travellers.

He won't see me, Cocoa and I are eloping. The signal is to throw three pebbles at her window and she pretends to come out for a stroll, and off we go. Sorry mate, the Lord will provide ya own

cococandy:
Hehehehe
Some people and adding fuel to smoking embers

Finally read through all the pages.

I must say this thread is resilient.
Unlike some others, it hasn't derailed into catfights.

Some people that get off when others fight are itching to have it go there.
See an incidence of misunderstanding or offended posters and cash in to make sure the parties misunderstanding each other don't resolve it amicably.

(Psychology of pitch them against each other.)

Now this is a snide comment.
If you know you're guilty, it's meant for you.

coogar:


if that's how you wanna play it, lemme go & wake baba bomboy....he has a proper speedboat that would get me to PH within 45 mins. don't worry, i would be waiting for you there.

Timbuktou:
Quick question: how many women, here, would look favourably upon her sister's husband divorcing her for yabbing. As in, she too dey yab me, dat na why I come divorce am. Please answer honestly.

freecocoa:
You go first ask yourself, whether these women even believe it is normal for a woman to be president. It is something still considered taboo around here.

Forget the internet, Nigeria is still very backward on matters like this.

When I try to even talk to some women on women empowerment, the response I get is saddening "babe leave o, we are in Nigeria, unless you don't want to get married bla bla bla"



Sometimes I even think, the women themselves don't want a change, many Nigerian women are intellectually lazy, they fear responsibility like mad, they just want to manage to graduate, get married, have babies and enjoy their husband's money.

5minsmadness:

Show me a single post where I have insulted anybody on this forum(apart from franchesca)!

My grievance with you and cougar is thinking that rape among the married is "widespread"! Wtf is that? But it's only the marriages you are involved in that are good? You just think all Nigerian men re barbaric illiterates?!? What nonsense! What abject generalization! What Immbroglio!

Majority of nigerian men are gentlemen and it is only the random few that will force themselves on thier wives and end up in the headlines to make sensational news for young folk like you to come up with sh1t like these!

bukatyne:


What is your definition of verbal abuse?

Timbuktou:


Loosely speaking, saying insulting and demeaning words at someone with the deliberate intention to hurt and cause pain at the intended recipient.

cococandy:
Hehehehe
Some people and adding fuel to smoking embers

Finally read through all the pages.

I must say this thread is resilient.
Unlike some others, it hasn't derailed into catfights.

Some people that get off when others fight are itching to have it go there.
See an incidence of misunderstanding or offended posters and cash in to make sure the parties misunderstanding each other don't resolve it amicably.

(Psychology of pitch them against each other.)

Now this is a snide comment.
If you know you're guilty, it's meant for you.