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Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 9:41am On Jun 17, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: you are a fool! stop quoting me if you don't have the required intelligence to read & understand my post. if the laws of your stupid country does not recognise marital rape, why would the readiness or the unreadiness of the woman be an issue?
the women were charged with murder & sexual assault. a woman cannot legally rape a man in nigeria. yet you call yourself a graduate and you are not even aware of your rights as a woman in nigeria. how would you know when 99% of your brain cells have been eroded with owambe fried rice & bokoto..... 5 Likes |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 9:42am On Jun 17, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Don't mind the girl, she was just grunting like Serena Williams at a grand slam final. Of course, she was in a good mood by daybreak 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by 5minsmadness: 9:42am On Jun 17, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Take it easy ma. I'm not among the mob fighting you You spoke your mind and cos it didn't tally with the angry women's association opinion they went all out to attack you. Who knows your family better than yourself? But no, they won't listen to that. They would be much happier knowing every wife in nigeria is being beaten by her husband. It's nothing new on this section. The funny thing is that if you ask all the married ones among them if their husband or even boyfriend have ever beaten them they will respond with a vehement NO! MY HUSBAND "SERENADES" ME DAILY. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by SAMBARRY: 9:43am On Jun 17, 2015 |
It's a lie! You are speaking from both sides of the mouth after exposing your hypocrisy. Kontinu coogar: |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 9:45am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou: and do you not think this happens a lot in nigeria? men believe their wives must always be ready & available for sex when they want to. the law backs them up as well. a woman cannot go to the police and say she's been raped by her husband in nigeria - there's no law that would bring such hubby to any form of punishment. SAMBARRY: you are a fool - with the intelligence quotient of a pubic louse. timbuktou said he doesn't not agree abuse is as high as 80%. i said it should be around that figure. i said the law even backs some of that abuse as there's no marital rape in nigeria. i went on to say the women don't even know they are being raped as no such laws exist. so whether she wants sex or not, she must bow to her husband's wish. how is this double/speaking if you have any iota of intelligence in your obese body? |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 9:48am On Jun 17, 2015 |
coogar: Coogar, nobody does this in Nigeria, well, almost nobody. Only an extremely tiny percentage would ever do this. Believe me, not many men even know it's not a crime. Juts because the law encourages it doesn't mean Nigerian men routinely rape their wives. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by 5minsmadness: 9:53am On Jun 17, 2015 |
You know, sometimes it's more fun to just sit back and watch you guys tear each other apart. **sits down, crosses legs, grabs a martini and a cigar and chuckles*** |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by thorpido(m): 9:53am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou:I'll disagree on this one.Actually many men have the sex they want when they want and expect their wives to understand it's their rights as a husband. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by funlord(m): 9:54am On Jun 17, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Damn! Little girl still getting smacked off camera as always! Lmfao! 1 Like
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Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 9:55am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou: i may agree slightly if you are speaking of our generation of husbands.......but the ones before us must have done it in leaps & bounds. back then, women are considered properties. some culture in nigeria even loan their wives to visitors to use for the night. she simply has no say when it comes to sex. she must obey! thorpido: that's the way i see it too. a husband that has been made to jump several hoops including paying an exorbitant bride price feels entitled to get sëx anytime he wants. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 9:56am On Jun 17, 2015 |
thorpido: How did you come by this information? |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by 5minsmadness: 9:56am On Jun 17, 2015 |
thorpido:If this were true there'd be fewer cases of cheating in marriage. Most men will simply look for a willing woman outside instead of forcing their way on an unwilling wife. Do you demand to have sex even when your wife disagrees an then go ahead to do it? Did you dad do it? Your uncles? Brothers? Forget social media jazz and be honest now. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 9:59am On Jun 17, 2015 |
coogar: Of course, I'm talking about our generation. Women haven't always been self-deterministic in the history of the human race. Every society, at one time or other, has had misogynistic laws. We're talking about today's Nigeria, or we may as well be talking about ancient England. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 10:00am On Jun 17, 2015 |
5minsmadness: that he's not doing it does not mean millions of men don't do it. he's educated, more exposed. he probably belongs to the top 10% of the exposed nigerian men. what about the men in the remote areas, the stark illiterates, the semi-illiterates, etc who are completely ignorant about the rights of a woman? Timbuktou: as we speak, there's no marital rape law in the nigerian constitutuon. a husband can tie his wife up & use her as he pleases and no form of arrest or punishment would be meted to him by the law. if you run into a bunch of jezebels tonight and they rape you live on camera, they would not be brought into any form of justice too. you are a nigerian man - the law in the country does not recognise you can be raped by a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by SAMBARRY: 10:02am On Jun 17, 2015 |
If marital rape is illegal why where the women charged to court. I'm done arguing with you since you have nothing sensible to say the rest of your post are like a clanging cymbal or the barking of a dog coogar: |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 10:05am On Jun 17, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: you are a fool! the man died - so murderers shouldn't be taken to court? do you even exercise your brain at all everyday? do you do any form of mental development? at least, do some research yourself and check if marital rape is illegal in nigeria. go on google, read books and stop acting like you never saw the 4 walls of a school. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by funlord(m): 10:05am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by thorpido(m): 10:07am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou:From hearsays(I hang around women a lot),from the media,from statements made by women in divorce cases in court. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 10:09am On Jun 17, 2015 |
funlord: she probably sells fat red pepper & onions in nigeria. i am not convinced she's formally educated. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jun 17, 2015 |
coogar:Doesn't still mean men go about raping their wives, bruv. Are you aware that the Nigerian constitution promotes wife-beating by using a rod not thicker than the thumb? How many men go cut cane for their wives? . Nigerian men are angels, we don't harm our women. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by thorpido(m): 10:11am On Jun 17, 2015 |
5minsmadness:That's not true.Abusers who are also cheats sleep with their wives as a form of exercising their dominion.It doesn't stop them from still keeping girlfriends. As to your questions,go through my posts.You will find your answers there. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by SAMBARRY: 10:12am On Jun 17, 2015 |
funlord:very funny that I forgot to laugh Your sense of humour is dead |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by eyinjuege: 10:14am On Jun 17, 2015 |
coogar: In conflict resolution, violence should NEVER be an option. Yes, I'm talking of physical violence. VIOLENCE is not the answer. Whether against women, children or men. Such relationships are toxic where physical abuse seems justifiable, and often only because the perpetrators are much stronger than the victims. I don't even want to think about it that in this day and age, young people are justifying it for whatever reason. The more responses I read about any form of support for this act of barbarism, the more it seems to burden my soul. Your wife has a caustic tongue, why not walk away? If I'm in an argument with someone of same sex and things are getting tense, I walk away.... Simple. It happens regularly to people at work, but they would appear simply mad if they start fighting. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 10:15am On Jun 17, 2015 |
thorpido: 1. This medium has maybe a 40% chance of truth 2. This one has like 5% 3. Don't bother. 1% You don't know women. A guy in the building next to mine was recently arrested by the police for attempted murder for attempting to strangle a female neighbour. By the time, both sides were heard, it turns out he was only trying to collect her own share of NEPA payments of which she owed about 4 months, and she only made up that story because she felt embarrassed. Check out the trajectory, NEPA bills to attempted murder. Women's tales should be taken with a sack of salt. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 10:17am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou: you see it as räpe, they don't see it so. they don't even know they are committing any crime. that's the angle i want you to view it from. i will buttress my point with this article.....
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Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by 5minsmadness: 10:18am On Jun 17, 2015 |
coogar: I have uncles and aunties in the villages and I know most of thier dirty little secrets. NONE of the men force themselves on thier wives as a routine. The only uncle that tried that 'once' out of frustration told us about it and resorted to having a very willing side chic on the side since his wife continually refused to give it to him without a fight. I asked thorpido cos I wanted real facts not social media sensationalism. On to you then. Do you personally know anybody that as a routine forces himself on his wife? |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by Nobody: 10:18am On Jun 17, 2015 |
eyinjuege: You have to understand the society's psychology. Is it really a tenable excuse to walk away because one's wife freely rains him with invectives? People expect a man to man up and accept it as a woman's way. The percentage of unprovoked wife battery would be about 5% if critically assessed. Let me tell you a story, a cousin of mine was constantly complaining of battery by her husband. Eventually, both families had a meeting to resolve the issue or take away their daughter. The man complained of constant verbal abuse from his wife and she retorted by saying he's not a man if he cannot take abuse from a woman, she's a woman and she's free to say whatever she pleases. My uncle was speechless. Some men would do nothing at provocation, some would box the wife. Fact. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by funlord(m): 10:22am On Jun 17, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: SAMBARRY: Its not suprising that its dead madam! Its a side effect of having a "louse sized I.Q ". Mr coogar diagnosed you were suffering from it earlier remember? You should change your moniker to "arithmetic woman!" Because you only add trouble, subtract pleasure, divide attention, and multiply ignorance! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 10:24am On Jun 17, 2015 |
5minsmadness: the people you know or may not know does not constitute the majority. sex is not even an issue most couples would willingly discuss in the public.
personally, i dunno any woman that has been räped in nigeria, i may as well conclude rape does not exist in nigeria. i also dunno any drug mule in my family or in the villages - so there are no drug dealers/peddlers in nigeria. |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by SAMBARRY: 10:28am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Smh. coogar:It is your own state of mental development i should doubt. I will read the 1999 constitution of federal Republic of Nigeria. Buy it and grow sense small so that your misinformation will reduce chapter 4, section 34 subsection 1 says every individual is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person and accordingly no person (man or woman) shall be subjected to inhuman or degrading treatment So if you have any brain left in your head you should know that whether marital or un marital rape rape is rape and they constitute inhuman or degrading treatment so to answer the question 5minsmadness asked what would she charge him for. I said plenty. She will charge him for section 34 sub section one. It's there. I'm not the one that wrote the constitution .air head! |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by thorpido(m): 10:28am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou:So you don't think 40% is high a figure? I know women lie to cover up some things but if you are someone who listens to women a lot like me,you would know when they speak from the depths of their hearts. Read coogar's last article he quoted.if it were possible do an online survey asking men if their wives refused them sex,what they would do,you will be surprised many of them will say,didn't I pay dowry? |
Re: Nigeria: A Nation Of Wife-beaters? by coogar: 10:29am On Jun 17, 2015 |
funlord: 1 Like |
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