KarmaMod:

Uh not sure what part of New York you live but half black half asian are many in the city so obviously one is sleeping with the other

Hmm KarmaMod, I guess I'm blind. I've only been here for a year so who knows. I'm in Manhattan and Queens. I'm just saying in general, MOST Asian women I see are with white guys (if not with other Asians). In Boston (where I was before), most Asians were also with white guys. And like gabryl said I'm also focusing more on the Chinese and Japanese. Not really sure about others.

There is one Asian girl that goes to my church that grew up in Jamaica, Queens and basically "acts" black. I hate saying that, but can't figure out a better way to say it at the moment.

MRbrownJAY:

my experiences are with CHINA/JAPAN and i will have to disagree on that one and say that the only reason is down to LOOSING FACE and the way they are viewed by their peers, not only old folks but everyone especially asian MEN. Most women LOVED foreigners (black or white) but due to the way they are look upon by the society, they prefer to keep their attention to foreigners as a 'dream", or hide their relationships indoors.
family is very important in Asia and most parents have the OLD mentality that view a foreign marriage as bound to fail due to different cultures therefore they dont approve of them but it rarely stops them. also Japanese/chinese are very shy and do not show their feeling in the open like most westerners. it's very difficult to see a japanese woman holding hand with a man PERIOD, let alone a foreigner.
the new generation of asian have no care in the world about it and they date whoever they fancy. lets not forget that in China, until a few yrs ago, we were seen (black or white) as the devil from the west. The stigma with the black man and his big cock can turn the petite asian women away from the black man by fear of being mess to death, many blacks will tell you stories of women running away from their home by the look of the guy's cock.
in Japan, Roppongi is the place to go and see japanese be themselves around foreigners. almost 50% of entertainment businesses are owned by africans and women are going there in the sole purpose of meeting foreigners, in other places they are more reserved but EVERY Single 9ja man that i met in Japan was married/dating a japanese woman.
in China, Beijing, blacks had a bad reputation of being JUST DRUG DEALERS due to a place called SANLITUN(the entertainment district) and you have to really fight to prove them wrong but if you moved away from there then it was no problem to meet and date chinese women, as long as you could speak mandarin, but move to Shanghai and there is no more problem and chinese dating blacks is seen EVERYWHERE. i have yet to meet a "DECENT" black guy who had problem dating chinese women.

Am sorry but im referring more towards the malaysian/ singporeans. Its more towards skin colour especially from the elderly people. Their perceotion is more towards skin colour and yeah partly its also like what you said. Afraid of their peer judging them. Am facing the same problem as well but my family is in support of me its because my aunt is married to a Jamaican so its cool

MRbrownJAY:

the asian community abroad is very small and they tend to stick to their own, move in clicks, i remember being in San Francisco in a Asian club, and just to talk to women there was a battle. it was more like a gang thing, this group was with this one and vice versa. while in Australia, i lived in Chinatown and had no problem dating asian women AS LONG AS THEY WERE AUSTRALIAN BORN. for some reason, the ones who just arrived from asian country were running away from me like the plague!

That is correct. . . Even when i was studying in suisse before. i noticed that only the Asians stick with Asians. I had a bad time with Asians there its because I was born to mix with various people didnt matter what they race was as long as their personality is not wogly. The asians were thinking that I was trying to be someone im not and that Im embarass being an Asian but its not that at all. I just dont know why I just happen to converse with simply anybody. if I were to say Im embarass of Asians, I have a few good friends from Korea and China. . . but anywayz, I cannot satisfy everyone.

fs:

Hmm KarmaMod, I guess I'm blind. I've only been here for a year so who knows. I'm in Manhattan and Queens. I'm just saying in general, MOST Asian women I see are with white guys (if not with other Asians). In Boston (where I was before), most Asians were also with white guys. And like gabryl said I'm also focusing more on the Chinese and Japanese. Not really sure about others.

There is one Asian girl that goes to my church that grew up in Jamaica, Queens and basically "acts" black. I hate saying that, but can't figure out a better way to say it at the moment.

I can understand Boston cos that's true but in NY especially the city ESPECIALLY Queens and Brooklyn, many are with black dudes. Black and white guys. hardly with their own, esepcially the younger generation, kinda weird

*Hauwa*:

karma

you are right. well, i don't really mind but no way for asian their mouth too smell

Lmao. when they eat live octopus n ko?

Such marriages create gorgeous kids though. God's probably trying to say something

KarmaMod:

I can understand Boston cos that's true but in NY especially the city ESPECIALLY Queens and Brooklyn, many are with black dudes. Black and white guys. hardly with their own, esepcially the younger generation, kinda weird

I'm going to be more vigilant now! lol. I know I've seen them mixed young'uns on the train. I'll pay more attention now. I admit most of my view is based on the Asians in Boston, and there are many over there.

One good thing about the asians though - they can be very loyal and are more subservient than even nigerian women. 
Nobody mentioned Indians by the way, some of them are equally cute and small.

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davidylan:

One good thing about the asians though - they can be very loyal and are more subservient than even nigerian women.
Nobody mentioned Indians by the way, some of them are equally cute and small.

yeah right. . . Come ask your fellow brothers here see what they will tell you about Asian woman.

yea subservience, that's the most important thing in a spouse. lol.

LOL, am not shocked

David did use that word eh lol typical

fs:

yea subservience, that's the most important thing in a spouse. lol.

*Hauwa*:

LOL, am not shocked

David did use that word eh lol typical

that is the key to a successful marriage. Get ready to learn its use.

tpia hahahaha, that is naija man for you that's always on the back of their mind.

indian ha! i saw one dating an AA. maybe for the shag though.

well, i will try my best @ David

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KarmaMod:

This is why black women especially black american women still have "bfs" at 56. Unnecessary loyalty and the fact that black men like to make them believe that other races arent attracted to them which isnt true.

Black men are hardly loyal to their race, dont know why the women feel like they need to be even if it's a loser, just as long as he's black. It's kinda sad.

I know. I wish I could explain why the heck I can't find anyone else attractive enough to date. I need tips on how to find other races attractive.

@ gabrywyl,

I honestly wasn't trying to be racist to Asians or anything of that sort. I am just trying to figure out if it's just me or there's someone out there like me.

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1 : useful in an inferior capacity : subordinate

We should pray that David finds someone who fits this to a tee

Da Phoenix, why dont you ask "Monica" for advice or Robin Thicke's wife. Lol

fs:

yea subservience, that's the most important thing in a spouse. lol.

ahahahah what a nice word, me too i would prefer SUBMISSIVE to categorize the women in Japan/China but the new younger generation mostly throw all this at the window, especially the ones born/raised abroad.

tpia:

the hair could be a factor.

that quote reminded me that one reason why men were turned off by women in China/Japan was their pubic hair, most women never shave or trim all their lives due to the Asian men loving hairy women so for a foreigner it was "difficult". only the extroverted ones would shave. i had never seen that before until i moved to Japan. my first experience was a eye opener because when i lifted the girls skirt, the bulge in her underwear made me think she had a penis until i realize that it was just the amount of hair!!!!!!!

try telling them to shave and see the look on their faces. as a proud member of the "going down" men, i had to stay away from eating toto with most women in Asia. it's just not clean!

DaPhoenix:


@ gabrywyl,

I honestly wasn't trying to be racist to Asians or anything of that sort. I am just trying to figure out if it's just me or there's someone out there like me.

Come to think of it, I dont think its just you. i think its called preferences. You just happened to prefer Dark Choc guys. I dont blame ou. Besides, they are indeed HOT!

MRbrownJAY:

ahahahah what a nice word, me too i would prefer SUBMISSIVE to categorize the women in Japan/China but the new younger generation mostly throw all this at the window, especially the ones born/raised abroad.

that quote reminded me that one reason why men were turned off by women in China/Japan was their pubic hair, most women never shave or trim all their lives due to the Asian men loving hairy women so for a foreigner it was "difficult". only the extroverted ones would shave. i had never seen that before until i moved to Japan. my first experience was a eye opener because when i lifted the girls skirt, the bulge in her underwear made me think she had a penis until i realize that it was just the amount of hair!!!!!!!

try telling them to shave and see the look on their faces. as a proud member of the "going down" men, i had to stay away from eating toto with most women in Asia. it's just not clean!

OMG! Thats sooo true. . . . Its like Hello? Are you keeping a national forest or sumthin? SHAIT! that beyond dispicable. . . I cannot tolerate a national forest down there ooo. . . . . Just looking at it makes me vex. . .

I could never marry any other race.
say who die?
Proper naija babe were always my desire. Inter wetin

davidylan:

that is the key to a successful marriage. Get ready to learn its use.

Good for you David, I hope you find what you truly want in a spouse. I've found mine and we're content with the way things are. Thanks.

KarmaMod, that's a nice looking couple
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KarmaMod:

Da Phoenix, why dont you ask "Monica" for advice or Robin Thicke's wife. Lol

KarmaMod:

Da Phoenix, why dont you ask "Monica" for advice or Robin Thicke's wife. Lol

lol I know right.

Goal for 2009: Date a non-Black dude.

Benu soun.

Like you Naija dudes in the UK especially dont run after the white Brits and Jamaicans. Hypocrites.

KarmaMod:

Benu soun.

Like you Naija dudes in the UK especially dont run after the white Brits and Jamaicans. Hypocrites.

lol he likes the yardies

KarmaMod:

Benu soun.

Like you Naija dudes in the UK especially dont run after the white Brits and Jamaicans. Hypocrites.

Is Naija-Jamaican marriage now interracial?

Actually It should have been Carribeans since most of them are of a variety of races but I picked Jamaicans cos they're the worst

and who dash them marriage? do they marry?

follypimpi:

@Daphoenix

Don't do it,Reconsider

dead! I can date whoever I choose.

By the way, it actually annoys me when I see a good looking black dude with a white girl. So, Debo if I see you with a white girl, you're asking for trouble.

lol

I need to get help

DaPhoenix:


By the way, it actually annoys me when I see a good looking black dude with a white girl.

why?

Think of it as someone being mad that your mom married a Haitian and not a fellow Igbo man.

Mixing is the spice of life.

I doubt Noami would be a supermodel if she was full on Jamican. Na that her mama's Japanese eyes that gave her leeway. Lmfao

Tyson Beckford too.

KarmaMod:

why?

Think of it as someone being mad that your mom married a Haitian and not a fellow Igbo man.

Mixing is the spice of life.

I doubt Noami would be a supermodel if she was full on Jamican. Na that her mama's Japanese eyes that gave her leeway. Lmfao

Tyson Beckford too.

I can stand Jamaicans - Africans, Haitians - African, basically black and black. Yes I know that is wrong but ugh, yeah, I need help. I guess I have to watch some interracial romantic comedies this weekend and clear my head.