SAMBARRY:



Not just nigeria. African women as a whole.



I was watching tv yesterday night and they showed the zambian culture and how they groom the bride for her husband so he will not run away, how she has to kneel to serve him food and I was wondering whether they shot the documentary in 2015 or 1851.when I saw it was 2014, I didn't even wait to finish watching everything before I turned off the tv to go and sleep. The whole ishh was just irritating me

Guuuurl! I can never live anywhere in that DARK continent, where slavery is still being practiced!
Tufiakwa!!!!!!!!
The mothers that teach their daughters such things nko?

SAMBARRY:




Some of them are looking for the proverbial virtous woman in proverbs while they sleep and jump from Jane to adaku


when I saw that thread I laughedD


she wakes up in the morning to tend for her family bla bla bla
She makes her husband happy all the days of her life I was like wtf


which kain lifetime job be that one? How much will i be paid for that


if that's so who will then make me happy


if that's the life of a virtous woman I don't envy her neither do I want to be like her

You mean "virtuous ASSSSHAWO"!
While you are busy "serving", he is busy phocking all the housemaids under your nostrils while you can them both in action abi?

KanwuliaJara:


You mean "virtuous ASSSSHAWO"!
While you are busy "serving", he is busy phocking all the housemaids under your nostrils while you can them both in action abi?

KanwuliaJara tun boroje. Ewotuni virtous ashawo

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KanwuliaJara:


Guuuurl! I can never live anywhere in that DARK continent, where slavery is still being practiced!
Tufiakwa!!!!!!!!
The mothers that teach their daughters such things nko?

like mother like daughter things



she has to cover her face with a wrapper and not say a word
even when the husband removes the wrapper on her face she still has to be on her knees whilst the husband is sitting on a cushion till he asks her to sit down with him. According to theirs tradition if she does this it means she's humble and submissive. I'm just remembering the whole bs and I'm so disgusted




na wetin this ones too for NL dey find be that

SAMBARRY:
like mother like daughter things



she has to cover her face with a wrapper and not say a word
even when the husband removes the wrapper on her face she still has to be on her knees whilst the husband is sitting on a cushion till he asks her to sit down with him. According to theirs tradition if she does this it means she's humble and submissive. I'm just remembering the whole bs and I'm so disgusted




na wetin this ones too for NL dey find be that

The day wey wan "money-miss-road", sugar-daddy tell me dis bullshyte ehn? E nor believe wetin happen torrrrrahn! He still dey shout my name for im sleep ke!

I just wear my pant abandon for im bush azzzzzze for im hotel room jeje! E call me taya soteeeeey, I nor h-ansarrrrrhan!

E get to call my mama and sister for NAIJA, from New York to beg me to come back o! After I don go rent my own hotel room jeje! I tell am make im take taxi come meet me for my room o. . . AND HE DID!!!!!

E say my presence dey shrink im BLOKOS!

KanwuliaJara:
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The day wey wan money miss road sugar daddy tell me dis bullshyte ehn? E nor believe wetin happen torrrrrahn! He still dey shout my nallme for im sleep ke!

E say my presence dey shrink im BLOKOS!

You no tell am say respect is earned not demanded for

SAMBARRY:



You no tell am say respect is earned not demanded for

E pay BIIIIIIIIIIIIG money as FINE o!

In DOLLARS!!!!! I come phock am WEH-WEH, baff and message am till e come sleep like baby h-insai my toto.

Shioooooooor!

E still dey talk am till today.
Im say NO WOMAN don tok torrrrahn like that for im life ke!

KanwuliaJara:



E pay BIIIIIIIIIIIIG money as FINE o!

In DOLLARS!!!!!

Shioooooooor!

SAMBARRY:

I sabi deal with dem ke!
My husband knows better ke!
Im go go im village go try am na!

Muchechecheche

SAMBARRY:
KanwuliaJara tun boroje. Ewotuni virtous ashawo

Ehen na!
Virtuous for house, asssshawo for "pastor" kain Nigerian wife, wey nor dey wia paihnt go "SSSSSHURSSSS"!

Duplipost!

KanwuliaJara:


Ehen na!
Virtuous for house, asssshawo for "pastor" kain Nigerian wife, wey nor dey wia paihnt go "SSSSSHURSSSS"!

o . you mean awon anti ushers aka yes pastor, give it to me pastor


Abeg no let me blasphem

and the vicious cycle continues

KanwuliaJara:


I sabi deal with dem ke!
My husband knows better ke!
Im go go im village go try am na!

Muchechecheche

SAMBARRY:


and the vicious cycle continues

Not in my compound o!
In fact I juss cuss one foolish NAIJA man this morning wey we exchange pissssshures of "privates" to do phone "sessss"!

The same WAHALA! Just text me dis morning start wahala!

Na so-so cuss fit dem o!!!!

no go get belle for phone o

KanwuliaJara:


Not in my compound o!
In fact I juss cuss one foolish NAIJA man this morning wey we exchange pissssshures of "privates" to do phone "sessss"!

The same WAHALA! Just text me dis morning start wahala!

Na so-so cuss fit dem o!!!!

Begonia:


Seriously, I have a problem with this. I constantly read comments about Nigerian women being dependent and all. My mum was never dependent on my dad and I don't know any Nigerian woman that depends on a man as her source of livelihood... I'm not saying they aren't there. In Nigeria, there are some jobs that are predominantly done by females. From the elementary school teachers to the counsellors to the tailors, hair stylists, cashiers, receptionists, librarians, bankers, nurses etc. Yet you guys keep going on and on about this. It's only on this forum where virtually all Nigerian women depend on the men and all Nigerian men are capable of taking care of their women and by extension, family.
Does propagating this falsehood make you guys feel good?

Eating free meals is one of the perks of being female in Naija

I know this is coming late and i dont know if any1 broke down the concept of dependency to U later on but let me explain this to you so u can properly understand the notion of 'Female dependency



U just made mention of some jobs which Nigerian ladies partake in. The question is how much do they make daily - monthly ?.... The problem really is that though 99.8% the guy mentioned are actually working but they spend far more than what they make daily-weekly! Most ladies are waaaaay into expensive gadgets and accessories ! How do U expect some1 spending close to 100grand a month to survive on a salary of 50grand?'

I can still remember how my LGI was selling female shoes for as high as 5Gs to corp members receiving 9.8Gs @that time, the shocking thing was these female corpers were falling all over themselves to be the 1st to buy them.

Its not that Nigeria ladies don't work its just that they don't make the kind of money to sustain their lifestyle , therefore they have no choice than to depend on others (Most likely their BFs).



So, the dude wasn't actually wrong when he made that statement.

iPopAlomo:


I didn't see anything Ooo... but if you think you were wrongly banned... mail a mod... Goodluck if you get a reply... or wait it out... like I do... and if you've got scratchy fingers... open another account...

Ok thanks.

netizenbuzz:


Taa! See ur moth like taking responsibility for your life you cannot take responsibility for common food. Do you have a vagina? Baba sit down because you know nothing about feminism. The beinganigerianwoman is not even feminism really, it is pure common sense. You really think I'm saying all this because of likes? Lmao. Maybe you do that and expect everyone to be like you. Hope you don't have kids yet because me thinks you still need some growing up to do. If you wish me sorrow, just wait till your wife gets to the labour room mumu +1

I can now confirm that there is a large hole in your rotten brain impeding you from thinking right.Are you married?The emotions that colour your lines assert you as brainless kid.Goodluck,slowpoke!

apolonius:


I can now confirm that there is a large hole in your rotten brain impeding you from thinking right.Are you married?The emotions that colour your lines assert you as brainless kid.Goodluck,slowpoke!

And you that is married, how different are you from me? Nigerians be flaunting marriage like it's an achievement. This is why ppl should not rush into marriage. The kids marrying these days ehn. Naso you go dey teach ur pikin to dey insult like this? I already know the kind of father you'd be

ebosse:



I know this is coming late and i dont know if any1 broke down the concept of dependency to U later on but let me explain this to you so u can properly understand the notion of 'Female dependency



U just made mention of some jobs which Nigerian ladies partake in. The question is how much do they make daily - monthly ?.... The problem really is that though 99.8% the guy mentioned are actually working but they spend far more than what they make daily-weekly! Most ladies are waaaaay into expensive gadgets and accessories ! How do U expect some1 spending close to 100grand a month to survive on a salary of 50grand?'

I can still remember how my LGI was selling female shoes for as high as 5Gs to corp members receiving 9.8Gs @that time, the shocking thing was these female corpers were falling all over themselves to be the 1st to buy them.

Its not that Nigeria ladies don't work its just that they don't make the kind of money to sustain their lifestyle , therefore they have no choice than to depend on others (Most likely their BFs).



So, the dude wasn't actually wrong when he made that statement.

Those were examples of jobs predominantly done by females in Nigeria. It doesn't mean every single Nigerian woman is involved in one of those professions.

What you're saying is that there's virtually no Nigerian woman that's capable of living within her means. So, only 0.2% of Nigerian women can do this. Interesting.

As I said, I'm yet to come across a Nigerian woman that depends on a man for her source of income. Call me a liar, if you please.

Also, with the economic issues in the country, how many Nigerian men can actually take care of their families without financial support from their wives? I'll tell you. 0.2%. Yeah, since we're throwing figures around.

Oh!... and I completely understand what dependence and independence is all about. I don't need any more "breakdowns."

iPopAlomo:


it depends... from insulting someone to spamming... your ban could vary... let me help you... click on your profile and you might see why you got the ban... scroll towards your signature...
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luckily... you were just banned in the section you erred... otherwise... you won't be able to quote or like any post here...

Experience is the best teacher..lol

Begonia:


Those were examples of jobs predominantly done by females in Nigeria. It doesn't mean every single Nigerian woman is involved in one of those professions.

What you're saying is that there's virtually no Nigerian woman that's capable of living within her means. So, only 0.2% of Nigerian women can do this. Interesting.

As I said, I'm yet to come across a Nigerian woman that depends on a man for her source of income Call me a liar, if you please.

Also, with the economic issues in the country, how many Nigerian men can actually take care of their families without financial support from their wives? I'll tell you. 0.2%. Yeah, since we're throwing figures around.

Oh!... and I completely understand what dependence and independence is all about. I don't need any more "breakdowns."

@bolded, U still not getting the point are U?.. Its not about making money its about spending it.Im close to a lot of well-to-do ladies ( Mostly relations) who r getting 6 figures monthly salary yet ironically most of them are driving cars bought by their husbands for them. Do a bit of fact finding to see how many ladies ( in Nigeria) actually bought the cars they drive with their OWN cash.

Btw I'm a strong advocate of "Female Independency" , wouldn't it be nice to have a GF for once who spend as much as I do, call as much as I do n contribute as much as I do in a relationship?..but really U girls don't want that . forget all these internet trollings and pretending. The facts speak for themselves!



Btw why will I call U a liar?? I'm not one of those male trolls on here.. And I love and respect women! How can I not, when the Three MOST important people in my life are women?

ebosse:

@bolded, U still not getting the point are U?.. Its not about making money its about spending it.Im close to a lot of well-to-do ladies ( Mostly relations) who r getting 6 figures monthly salary yet ironically most of them are driving cars bought by their husbands for them. Do a bit of fact finding to see how many ladies ( in Nigeria) actually bought the cars they drive with their OWN cash.

So, it's no longer about a woman's (Nigerian) salary being inversely proportional to her needs (what you implied in your previous post) but rather about refusal to spend it.
You know ladies that......
In the end that's your personal experience and you shouldn't use it to defend some silly stat. Okay, that's your choice.

Btw I'm a strong advocate of "Female Independency" , wouldn't it be nice to have a GF for once who spend as much as I do, call as much as I do n contribute as much as I do in a relationship?..but really U girls don't want that . forget all these internet trollings and pretending. The facts speak for themselves!

Trolling and pretending? You don't know me so let's just push that aside.
What facts? I'm sure you mean personal experience.

Btw why will I call U a liar?? I'm not one of those male trolls on here.. And I love and respect women! How can I not, when the Three MOST important people in my life are women?

I'm glad. We should always appreciate the wonderful people in our lives. They make our world better

Begonia:


So, it's no longer about a woman's (Nigerian) salary being inversely proportional to her needs (what you implied in your....

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If U read through from my 1st post again U would notice that it was about 'Dependency' not Salary.

I really don't care if he/she is a millionaire! And can afford everything in life, If he/she has to wait for ppl to do things for him/her then he/she is dependent. simple!


I still maintain my stance! Go out there and check how many (Nigeria) ladies bought the car they drive with their money.


In fact, car too big to use as example. Go out there and check how many girls bought the phone they Use ( 50Grand and above) without financial assistance from some1 else.

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that I'm just saying ppl should say it as it is!... Don't try to sugarcoat it.

ebosse:



I really don't care if he/she is a millionaire! And can afford everything in life, If he/she has to wait for ppl to do things for him/her then he/she is dependent. simple!


I still maintain my stance! Go out there and check how many (Nigeria) ladies bought the car they are driving with their money.


In fact, car too big to use as example. Go out there and check how many girls bought the phone they are Using ( 50Grand and above) without financial assistance from some1 else.

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that I'm just saying ppl should say it as it is!... Don't try to sugarcoat it.

Sugarcoat what exactly?
Mr Ebosse, tell me what exactly it is I'm sugarcoating so that I can "un-sugarcoat" it, if necessary.
Do you want me to lie about my personal experience on the women I grew up around? I will not.
Do you want me to agree with the silly, unfounded statement that 99.8% of Nigerian women are dependent on some man? Again, I will never do that.
Let's just end this because I'll most likely not agree with any of your comments.

netizenbuzz:


And you that is married, how different are you from me? Nigerians be flaunting marriage like it's an achievement. This is why ppl should not rush into marriage. The kids marrying these days ehn. Naso you go dey teach ur pikin to dey insult like this? I already know the kind of father you'd be

Stop hiding under tiny keyboards to console your wretched life. Marriage is not an achievement, yet your agonizing prayers are staying unceasing.Be adult enough to attract a spouse; you are aging fast!

apolonius:


Stop hiding under tiny keyboards to console your wretched life. Marriage is not an achievement, yet your agonizing prayers are staying unceasing.Be adult enough to attract a spouse; you are aging fast!

Buahahahahahahahahaha! Dude you wish o. You wish. Baba I still dey school o. Rushing to where ke? Unfortunately you are talking to someone who thinks marriage is overrated so wetin you talk no pain me now, e still no go pain me in 10 years time. Idiots be flaunting marriage cert kiri and will come and be telling us stories that touch on NL. I'm still trying to understand how a responsible man will be arguing with a girl on social network. Are you that jobless?

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netizenbuzz:


Buahahahahahahahahaha! Dude you wish o. You wish. Baba I still dey school o. Rushing to where ke? Unfortunately you are talking to someone who thinks marriage is overrated so wetin you talk no pain me now, e still no go pain me in 10 years time. Idiots be flaunting marriage cert kiri and will come and be telling us stories that touch on NL. I'm still trying to understand how a responsible man will be arguing with a girl on social network. Are you that jobless?

Kid,I hope you think better and learn to respect people when you grow up.All the best.

obowunmi:
Do not follow the advice of many of the women ranting. The ones that are married kneel down to serve thier husband, cook and clean for him and only have power on twitter. They can't try the rubbish they're saying on twitter at home with their husbands.

What is wrong with kneeling and serving your husband or cooking for him....does it make u less human or less "feministic"....

Some naija men sha

apolonius:


Kid,I hope you think better and learn to respect people when you grow up.All the best.

Respect? Did you just say respect? Taa! Dude, I hope you realise that respect is earned and reciprocal when you eventually grow up