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5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by 360ng: 8:04am On Jul 10, 2015
Going out on a first date is an energizing background for some individuals. Be that as it may, in any case, you ought to figure out how to keep yourself in control in spite of all the energy you feel. You ought to be uncovering a few things about yourself to your date. In any case, there are additionally a few things that you ought to attempt to abstain from saying, particularly on a first date. Here are some of them.

Religion or Politics

Discussing religion and legislative issues ought to be evaded on your first date. It can without much of a stretch reason divisive strain amid the date, particularly if both have negating stands about such subjects. There is no point making your first date as a venue to air your political connection or religious convictions. You ought to abstain from making them a player in your first date discussion.

Money related Standing

Whether you are rich or poor, abstain from attempting to concentrate on discussing your funds. Cash ought not be the center of your dating discussions, unless the time it now, time to pay for the eatery bill. Notice that you are rich, your date may begin to end up intrigued by you as a result of your cash. Tell your date that you are poor, you may encounter inside and out dismissal on your first date. Figure out how to speak all the more about your identity, qualities and different things beside cash.

Your Critical Side

Amid your first date with somebody, verify that you abstain from letting your basic side out. Simply on the grounds that you don't care for something you see on your date does not so much imply that you have to say it out loud amid the first date. Generally, attempt to concentrate all the more on the great things that you do see and notice it. Be that as it may, abstain from censuring your date no matter what.

Wellbeing Problems

There are sure things about your wellbeing that is fine to say amid a date, particularly in the event that it is connected with your initially meeting with one another. Be that as it may, avoid specifying your wellbeing condition or issue however much as could reasonably be expected.

Past Relationships

Abstain from uncovering any of your past connections amid the first date. It may not be the opportune time to impart such things to somebody you as of late met. Notice of exes and past relationship can without much of a stretch make the date feel clumsy.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by INTROVERT(f): 8:04am On Jul 10, 2015
grin
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by KELVINXY: 8:06am On Jul 10, 2015
INTROVERT:
u too much joor.
sharp sharp u don spread mart.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by SPG4U(m): 8:06am On Jul 10, 2015
So please list those things to be discussed....you can discuss all this things with maturity and without sentiments and biasness

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Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by kossyablaze(m): 8:07am On Jul 10, 2015
What if I tell her the size of my bulala...is it awkward?

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Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Nobody: 8:12am On Jul 10, 2015
I tell chics 'am broke' on a first date(even though am nt) nd they seem to get along wit it...works 4 me.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Beesluv: 8:14am On Jul 10, 2015
Good
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Kenndall: 8:15am On Jul 10, 2015
Op I agree with all your aforementioned points except the first.

Of course religion can be discussed on a first date. A first date is that time when a couple get to know each better. Where they kindle that spark needed to start off a relationship.

During a first date, a couple is free to have discussion on a lot of subjects, of which religion can be part of it.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by fatdon2(m): 8:15am On Jul 10, 2015
You haven't dated or had sex in a long time.


If you tell him you've been out of
circulation for a long time, the next
question will be "Why?" And there's
never a good answer. It will reflect
badly on you and your value as a
dateable woman.


Family secrets


We all have issues with our families.
You shouldn’t bore your date with
incendiary revelations about your
parent’s rocky marriage, sordid tales
of your licentious sister or about
the
brother locked up in Kamiti maximum prison for murder. The thought of
having your brother sticking the
barrel of a Ceska in his mouth in the
event he breaks your heart is enough
is to make him vanish.
It’s only okay to
share about your family secrets after he earns your trust;
not on the firstdate.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by HENSEXIE(f): 8:15am On Jul 10, 2015
Jst hia to read commentz
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 8:16am On Jul 10, 2015
Depends on d kind of lady am on a date wit..
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by missbehave247(m): 8:20am On Jul 10, 2015
Op is trying to be ahead of her game

One thing op don't understand is that what works for her doesn't work for others and this is a public forum.
SPG4U:
So please list those things to be discussed....you can discuss all this things with maturity and without sentiments and biasness
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by biznus: 8:20am On Jul 10, 2015
*Sips tea*

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Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Tallesty1(m): 8:32am On Jul 10, 2015
I put these things first to avoid disappointments in the future
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by funlord(m): 8:59am On Jul 10, 2015
grin So op in other words you are encouraging people 2 act like SCAM artists then? Or be sneaky like serpents? Anyway I'm not suprised since the thread was created by a woman!
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Ragner(m): 9:22am On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
Depends on d kind of lady am on a date wit..

Se why You never get Girlfriend angry
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 9:31am On Jul 10, 2015
Ragner:


Se why You never get Girlfriend angry
abeg explain...
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Ragner(m): 9:36am On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
abeg explain...

You no dey gree Follow simple Rules From Masters of the Game.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by CUM4WHAT(m): 9:39am On Jul 10, 2015
Why

Is
It
A
First

Date??

If i cant say any of these aint we supose to know each other
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 9:41am On Jul 10, 2015
Ragner:



You no dey gree Follow simple Rules From Masters of the Game.
lol wah are d simple rules
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by RaDaZaBaNa(m): 10:35am On Jul 10, 2015
Can we discuss who will pay for the date no too ...
Holl up Holl up gerra out ta here mehn shii
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by Sexxkillz: 11:38am On Jul 10, 2015
Hmm.
Re: 5 Things You Should Never Reveal On A First Date by priscasmart(f): 10:36pm On Jul 18, 2015
Hmmmmmmm

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