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Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 5:36pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
omonnakoda: Well I am very sorry for the irrelevance of my post, but just to buttress the fact that a woman can have her own money, the husband can have his own money and both husband and wife can have joint money and investment. And a man should not think he can and must do it alone in this age and time, and real men support the progress of their wives and must not be parasitic on their wives' money. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 5:38pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
ekoboy: I had and i still have financial issues, but with planning, prudence and discipline one can easily overcome money issues in the family. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 5:41pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
ebonflex: If a hardworking and disciplined graduate of about 20 years cannot have some of the basic things outlined, what then is the essence of our education. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by omonnakoda: 6:11pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
manie:That is a good point to make I am not sure how your biography helps to buttress it.. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 8:06pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
omonnakoda: The the husband of the OP uses the wife's money and even depleted the savings which the wife wanted to use for her graduate studies, and another person used his own family's case study to show that a man and his wife can both have their personal money and investments, they can also both own assets together and you are still a loss about the relationship of the OP's case and how another family have devised a formula that works for them. Although what works for family A may not work for family B, but I guess the OP can learn one or more things from the scenario described. OP is a good woman, who needs to educate her husband on financial discipline, financial planning, financial independence, savings and investments, these are the strategies that can solve money issues. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by omonnakoda: 12:39am On Jul 22, 2015 |
manie:A rehash of the facts are unnecessary we all read them the issue is why it is necessary for you to tell us how many houses you and your wife own or how many houses she inherited and how that further illuminates the debate. I am unsure what value that serves for us it may serve some obscure purpose for YOU but it is unnecessary.Everybody has a story no doubt bu there is a time and place for everything. On this occasion we do not need to hear your biography or family BALANCE SHEET |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 6:18am On Jul 22, 2015 |
omonnakoda: I guess it is also unnecessary for the OP to share her family issues, challenges and successes with us, if one is to go by your own belief of what is necessary. It is a free world, nobody stops you from sharing your story. The OP shared her story and I learnt somethings from her relationship and her family, I also shared my story with her and not with you. Since the OP never said my story and case study are unnecessary, I will not dignify your with a response again. Have a great day. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by omonnakoda: 7:06am On Jul 22, 2015 |
manie:That is exactly the point if you want to tell your life story create YOUR own thread or write a book THis is the OP 's thread and it is not clear how telling us what your wife inherited blah blah blah is relevant |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 7:17pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
enoqueen: It is not a mistake if you tell your husband what you have or own, provided the man is hardworking, independent, focused and he is very sure of his own ability to make, manage and multiply wealth. But if the man is lazy and parasitic, it will not a bad idea if you do not disclose your finances and investments to him. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 8:08pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
nochildsplay: I totally agree with you, I learnt some husbands require their wives to submit all their earnings to the husband. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by nochildsplay(m): 8:14pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
manie:that's a total rubbish ....... Even when am not financially bouyant the next source shouldn't be my fiancee |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by manie(m): 8:34pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
nochildsplay: Well a lot of rubbish and stupidity happens in the name of love, my sister sold the shares of Nigeria Brewery Plc which my father bought for her 35 years ago and the husband wanted to get 80% of the windfall. |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by nochildsplay(m): 8:38pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
manie:jesus!!!!!!!!! That man must be a gold digger |
Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
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