urgent advice my 3yrs girlfriend want us to have a love oath what should I so?
Pls I need ur advice actually this arises as one of her friend was dumped abt 3 week's to her wedding, my girlfriend was shocked when this happened to her friend as she alleged that both her friend and her fiance has been dating for 5yrs, so now she insisted we have a love oath to be sure she's secured especially now that she's has lots asking her hand in marriage.
Pls I love this chick bur I can't just do what she requested though she suggested we use the Bible but yet i can't, now she feel I don't love her. She has been paranoid abt me over some days now

FTC . @ op, do not take an oath all in the name of love. Who does that?

pls,can some1 help me ask the person before me if he us using 6G network,cos I don't know why he shud be FTC...
anyways,cncerning the topic,I will comment base on two things:
1. when the person before me finish commenting
2. When this thread enter FP....

Follow you heart.

Dont make an oath with anyone, no one can predict d future, so u dont drag ursef into hell.

Keepshining:
Follow you heart.

are you presently following your heart as per your present relationship?

DTOBS:



are you presently following your heart as per your present relationship?

yes.

where una plan take the oath,is it shrine,church or confidental one(between u guys)?..and what's the essence of taking the oath

Kingsley1000:
where una plan take the oath,is it shrine,church or confidental one(between u guys)?..and what's the essence of taking the oath

All the questions u a asked were provided an answer if only u can read the post

Ure askin for help because u knw its stvpid to swear any oath because u think ure in love... Better grow up

Abeg no do any oath o biko. Oaths attracts problems to the relationship then something happens maybe a breakup.just continue to assure her that you love her

op don't take any oath
the last time I checked,oath taking is no sign of true love,there are other ways 2 reassure her, sit her down and talk some sense into her,don't forget to do that gently and politely.Goodluck man.

Look,there's no greater oath than the one you make at the altar which starts with "I....do solemnly swear to take this woman.... to be my lawful wedded wife?"
If you aren't ready for that,then don't go into any other form of oath. Oaths are covenants which are binding on you forever wherever you may go. They are not to be taken lightly.
But why would you date another man's daughter for 3years without marrying her? What more are you looking for in her? Don't you children of this generation fear God at all?

She does nt trust u. I wonder hot a relationshp without trust stands

Keepshining:
yes.

hmmmm.....

Don't try it

Take her to ur pastor/mentor for marriage counselling. Oath is a NO-NO for moi

Since when did taking an oath with your partner become a sign of true love








I say bullcrap!!!!!!!