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7 Signs It’s Lust Not Love by nKay448(f): 12:05pm On Jul 21, 2015
Certainly, they ignite fire within you and you cannot breathe for the passion that keeps you up at night, but is that what it is? Passion? Love? Or instead, just one of the baser emotions? Could it possibly be lust?
A relationship based on lust is great if you know what you are getting yourself into and do it with your eyes wide open, for a good romp in the hay. But what’s important is that you don’t delude yourself. Here are some signs that what you share is lust, and not love.

1. You’re dressed to impress
You are always looking your best with them. You eyebrows are waxed, you are invariably dressed to advantage, and your Brazilian is immaculate. Whether you’re a man or a woman, the point is that you take particular care in your appearance each time you meet them. In a relationship that is based on more than just the superficial, you and your partner wouldn’t care if your hair wasn’t perfect some day because your relationship is much more than all that lies outside.

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Re: 7 Signs It’s Lust Not Love by MznAirA(f): 12:07pm On Jul 21, 2015
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Re: 7 Signs It’s Lust Not Love by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jul 21, 2015
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Re: 7 Signs It’s Lust Not Love by kossyablaze(m): 12:18pm On Jul 21, 2015
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Re: 7 Signs It’s Lust Not Love by nKay448(f): 12:32pm On Jul 21, 2015
2. A dearth of meaningful conversations

“Love is friendship that has caught on fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.”
-Ann Landers

When you’re in love, and I mean well and truly in love, you are comfortable with your partner and all that they are. Which means you are also comfortable talking about most things with them. Your partner is your friend, unlike lust, in which case friendship and the meaningful conversations that come with it are lacking. Conversations making up your problems, your hopes, your dreams, and your life in general are missing from your interactions.

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