ebony r u a mother?

I think she spends a lot of times with kids.

~Sissy~:

ebony r u a mother?

Me? lol, nope

Tgirl4real:

I think she spends a lot of times with kids.

You thought right

@ Sissy, Tgirl and others:

1. How do you potty train a child?

2. What can you do if your baby starts brawling and catching an attitude in public.

(Age: Less than 5 yrs old)

Ebony-Silk:



1. How do you potty train a child?

first every child is unique so this might or might not work. patience and guidance is the keyword, so here is what i do

1) take him/her with you inside the toliet and demonstrate with them. for example during the time for my little niece, i did the demonstrating. i kinda squatted on it and she was watching me and repeated it after me cox they sometimes learn by imitating, just to make her feel ease with it. maybe do the gender thing. boys with the father and moms with the daughter.
2) recognize the signs that they need to go or help them recognize the signs of knowing when they are wet etc and encourage to talk any sensation of wanting to go they might have. my niece her face changes when she wants to go or she just stand still, all i do then is to help her sit.
3) i'd suggest keeping some toys around there, just to keep them busy while they do their thing. or maybe some cheerios as a reward each time they do it right and praise them too. like Good job! David, or high 5 just to get them going
4) let them practice by themselves how to pull up and down their pants, and maybe have them flush the toilet for you, as to get them familiar with the whole process and maybe bring their potty chair in the toilet which the child may sit, only if the want to, they may if they see you doing it.
5)just make them to sit on the potty chair if even nothing happens it just gets them familiar and comfortable with it.


5

You said all I've said on the other thread except for number 3. Knew I was going to learn sth new.

Thanks

Ebony-Silk:



2. What can you do if your baby starts brawling and catching an attitude in public.

i'd suggest maybe try to settle the whatever the matter is mutually and if it doesn't solve the issue i wouldn't mind dragging them in a corner and spanking them.

~Sissy~:

i'd suggest maybe try to settle the whatever the matter is mutually and if it doesn't solve the issue i wouldn't mind dragging them in a corner and spanking them.

And let them call the cops on me?

I've tried this, and I've been advice not to.
Fact is, some kids thinks you won't beat them just because you'r ein public, which they are right, so they take advantage and use the opportunity to get what they want.

I took my cousin to walgreens to "sth". we got to the cashier, and you know that's where they love tho keep their candy.
He pointed to a candy right, so I bought it for him. He pointed to another, I told him no.
So he started crying and kicking. I was about to give him a "small" sroke on his buttocks, but the lady was like "awww, don't do that. He's just a kid". I told her if I walk out of the store without paying for the candy, she better not call the cops on me.
There is no way, a two year old can know why he's being spanked.
But then, how else do you hush them and not spoil them in public?


_{Hope say you're not tired of hearing me talk about my cutie pie. But he's the best example for this topic. Not that he's a bad kid, but he gets out of hands sometimes}

Ebony-Silk:


I took my cousin to walgreens to "sth". we got to the cashier, and you know that's where they love tho keep their candy.
He pointed to a candy right, so I bought it for him. He pointed to another, I told him no.
So he started crying and kicking.  I was about to give him a "small" sroke on his buttocks, but the lady was like "awww, don't do that. He's just a kid". I told her if I walk out of the store without paying for the candy, she better not call the cops on me.
There is no way, a two year old can know why he's being spanked.
But then, how else do you hush them and not spoil them in public?


_{Hope say you're not tired of hearing me talk about my cutie pie.  But he's the best example for this topic. Not that he's a bad kid, but he gets out of hands sometimes} 

haha
that one, i will never buy it for him, let him cry for all i care.  by the way i haven't heard where they said crying kills som1. so if it was me, i'd let him scream, candy is not good either so that one is even a bigger no 4rom me. after crying we enter the car

tired ke? nah, you help keep the topic flowing jare . keep them coming

~Sissy~:

haha
that one, i will never buy it for him, let him cry for all i care.  by the way i haven't heard where they said crying kills som1. so if it was me, i'd let him scream, candy is not good either so that one is even a bigger no 4rom me. after crying we enter the car

tired ke? nah, you help keep the topic flowing jare . keep them coming

LOL, abi o. Drag am out of the store and let him cry.

But it's embarassing


Infact, let me show you his pic. Tell me when you're ready. . . .

ready, set,  go!

i'm ready

Okay, will remove it shortly.

The one in the pink is not me o 

That's my cutie pie 

You saw it?

yes oh, i saw it.

oh my, he is soooooooooooooooo cute awww

oh yea, i sure do know what u r saying, at this stage, thats where the wahala start

he is really cute

~Sissy~:

oh my, he is soo cute awww

oh yea, i sure do know what u r saying, at this stage, thats where the wahala start

he is really cute

Na me he take resemble
lol joking

Ebony-Silk:

Na me he take resemble
lol joking

hahahaha

you got one cutie pie there baby

~Sissy~:


hahahaha

you got one cutie pie there baby

One naughty troublesome handsome pie
Sadly, I'd be leaving him to live on campus


Okay, now at topic,

What's the best age to have a baby?

Ebony-Silk:

One naughty troublesome handsome pie
Sadly, I'd be leaving him to live on campus


Okay, now at topic,

What's the best age to have a baby?

how sad

hahaha

my teacher once said 15-20 but i dont believe her. for me i'd say 15-28 cox after 30, many things start changing and i wanna grow old with them, so i'd start early

~Sissy~:

how sad

hahaha

my teacher once said 15-20 but i dont believe her. for me i'd say 15-28 cox after 30, many things start changing and i wanna grow old with them, so i'd start early

28 sounds pretty good. . . .

15-20? Was she high? So they can provide for them with our tax money?

You should have sent her this song. Explains a lot about having kids

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGIp3gVuslY&feature=channel_page

Ebony-Silk:

28 sounds pretty good. . . .

15-20? Was she high?  So they can provide for them with our tax money?

You should have sent her this song. Explains a lot about having kids 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGIp3gVuslY&feature=channel_page

hehehe like the octomom

i like that song but how many folks today actually wait?

~Sissy~:

hehehe like the octomom

i like that song but how many folks today actually wait?

I knew you would

Octo mom? She's mentally ill. How can you have babies and not have any ways/means to take care of them. Yet, still wants to have more? .

It's not that they don't want to wait, it's lack of prevention. Lack of proper judgment, just having unprotected sex up and down.

Ebony-Silk:

I knew you would

Octo mom? She's mentally ill. How can you have babies and not have any ways/means to take care of them. Yet, still wants to have more? .

It's not that they don't want to wait, it's lack of prevention. Lack of proper judgment, just having unprotected sex up and down.

octomom na case oo, she is obsessed with kids and i really pity those kids

me wait? rofl

~Sissy~:

octomom na case oo, she is obsessed with kids and i really pity those kids

me wait? rofl

*grabs her leg* Ahhhh, you, madam, come here now!!

Wetin dey laugh you? Come and explain ooooooo

Ebony-Silk:

*grabs her leg* Ahhhh, you, madam, come here now!!

Wetin dey laugh you? Come and explain ooooooo

me and waiting cant be in the same sentence ooo

~Sissy~:

me and waiting cant be in the same sentence ooo

Why?

Are you. . . .P?

Ebony-Silk:

Why?

Are you. . . .P?

hahaaa

wot's a P?

am in a relationship so waiting is not me ooo

so are you waiting?

~Sissy~:

hahaaa

wot's a P?

am in a relationship so waiting is not me ooo

so are you waiting?

Oh okkk, I was talking about you waiting for the right time to have a baby.
Then you said you won't. . . .ahhh, you scared me o

_{I'm waiting because I don't want to get into one and Naija men here are NOT my type jare.
You know, I don't understand why ppl say Ghanaian men are ugly, the ones on my campus are so fynnn.
Gosh!}

Ebony-Silk:

Oh okkk, I was talking about you waiting for the right time to have a baby.
Then you said you won't. . . .ahhh, you scared me o 

_{I'm waiting because I don't want to get into one and Naija men here are NOT my type jare.
You know, I don't understand why ppl say Ghanaian men are ugly, the ones on my campus are so fynnn.
Gosh!}

Ghanaian men?, not sure if i have seen any of them , the ones in my sch. are mostly from Ethiopia and they
continue waiting my dear, as they say good things come to those who wait

~Sissy~:

Ghanaian men?, not sure if i have seen any of them , the ones in my sch. are mostly from Ethiopia and they
continue waiting my dear, as they say good things come to those who wait

You haven't?
Them say they're ugly, but the ones I've seen so far are cute.
The naija men here, some are fyn, but they try too hard to be westernized. Not my cup of tea.
I'm Nigerian to the core

LOL, time is still on my side, baby. Not waiting, not looking

I have never seen Ethiopian men o. . .

so na Ghana man Ebony dey look eh  the ones on my campus no fynn at all  unlike the ladies.
ummm, na soso kenke you go dey cook. pickin go dey cry ebony no go mind am because she dey pound plantain for her ghana man

all this ya kweshion no go get tail anymore because ghana man must chop

they eat more than naija man o. but na plenty pickin you go get

no look for ethiopian man o. they are not fynne unlike their ladies few sha ok