ilobasama:
Let her confront him first.

Gurgle:


what if after confronting him he stylishly turns the situation back on her by running to the pastor first, who he probably knows very well

ilobasama:
Thats why she should do it in a mature manner. If shes sure of what happened, whether he runs to the GO first wont matter. Confronting him comes with a warning for him not to try such again. Its not all issues we run to pastor to solve. This one can be effectively dealt with by her.

Gurgle:


Yeah I understand you. And he may appreciate it more that she went to him first

Actually I was saying the same thing on another thread this morning, I just remembered. But these things make me kind of edgy sha

tpiander:
^ are you one?

tpiander:
that's great, kudos.

misspicy:
Ara mee ri ri (wonders I have never seen)

My experience in church today was very disgusting.
The church i attend is the type that both male amd female members mingle and sit together during the service on long benches.
So I was sitted beside a fervent brother and member of the prayer warrior on one of the long benches on the last row because I was late to church.
After sitting for 1hour or so and the service was going on,it was during the announcement,I FELT SOME FINGERS ON MY BUTT AND HIPS but I did not think it to be anything so I just adjusted and sat properly.
After like 5minutes I felt the fingers again and it was turning to full hands carrassing my butt.
I was shocked and sat still, I then traced the hand to the owner,lo and behold it was that of the prayer warrior brother sitted beside me, I looked at his face and he just acted like he didn't do nothing.
I was infuriated and just stood up and left the church, I don't know whether to confront him or report him to the pastor or other members.
Who has ever experienced this sort of thing girls
Guys who does this





Cc: lalasticlala

Ishilove

mdbissalla:


Tell us how you were dressed to the church pls or better still d picture

amnesty7:
Take it or leave it: sitting according to same gender is better for everyone.

MrsPhyno:

It counts for nothing.

But in Naija any hustle na hustle any way na way.

(if i say owo ni koko later you'll say all girls love money )

But on a more serious note, why aren't there any female armed robbers. Equal opportunity employment.

tracyfemmmm:

what does how she was dressed have anything to do with this situation? so if she was wearing pant and bra that gives him the right to sexually assault her?na wa o

lefulefu:
pixtures showing the guy's hands on ur butt or.............

misspicy:

Or u bleeb ursef

Your Arch Bishop sounds like a Dictator. All these Catholic Anglican and Protestant churches Na was for you oh

donholy28:
This nonsense no dey happen 4 my church.... guys dey seat 100 meters away from d women....yet dem go leave their side encroach come our side to deceive us...good thing our arch bishop no dey tolerate nonsense

Vanquay:
Your Arch Bishop sounds like a Dictator. All these Catholic Anglican and Protestant churches Na was for you oh

kokomilala:
This is shocking to me, and I'm sure a whole lot of people too would be shaken by it.You should have waited after service to confront him.Anyway, it's not too late.If you do, and he doesn't desist, report him to the church authority.Tell them he's sexually harassing you, without spilling the beans.If he gets defensive- which he is likely to do-reveal the smallest detail of his assault,

misspicy:

Yea....thanks,am sure it will nvr repeat itself

mystage:

d guy is a f.ool, d guy is stupid, d guy is sex starve, God nd Devil wil join hands to p.unish d guy. babe dnt mind d prayer worry guy. he thought mayb u re a fellow brother or even a gay like him dress lik a lady to church bcus it seems u hv mustash(ur dp), or mayb he saw white liquid inbetween ur legs and he thought u were wet wit ur womanliness juice nd badly needed a dick even if it had to take d dick to dig ur womanliness inside church. dat brother wont go to heaven. dnt worry my brother,...sorry i mean my sister. na tougue of slip(slip of tongue) and error typo(typo error).

misspicy:

Now this is hilllaaaarious!!!!!7

misspicy:

its not framed I tell u,i wouldnt blv this too if not that it happened to me,i have been on FP countless times,so thats not my aim,i just need to know how to go about this assault and create awareness abt disgusting things happening in churches.
What dovu tink is d best thing I do?

misspicy:

Pls read d post again and dis tym slowly coz all wat u typed here doz not relate

It happened twice,first tym can be considered a mistake,second tym was even worse dan first tym and it was definately no mistake,

Imagine a lady mistakingly brushing or stroking or even carrassing ur d1ck twice,wuld dat be a mistake?

rabbuy:
First of all the guys act must be condemned but make I no do like say I no dey mess....
O.p when they say ts a mistake they re not talking of the touching they re talking of the signal he might have thought you
were giving him
Let's face it this things happen well I for one can't count how many times ladies use their legs to stroke mine,step on my shoes and even lean on me and place their hands on my thigh see people mistake body language, Either that or he thought you were the type who would enjoy it...
But yet the seriousneSs in which you're taking it is too much.. U Aint a learner u could have just ward him off ... He would listen but the guy took it too far maybe it hasa worked for some other girl tho.. He should have treid to get your attention then intoduce his flirty self (non_verbally) before he could do suh depending on your response that is

misspicy:

Ok maybe I took it to far,buh I felt disgusted considering the gathering we are,church as always been refered to as d presence of God...why will a mere mortal dishonour God with such act?